I heard about pheromone products recently and decided to do some research. I’ve just come across this forum and it seems to be really helpful and friendly . Well, I’m a twenty year old female college student. I’m an attractive girl but I feel that I could do with some extra help to be more confident and feel sexier in general. I’ve looked at the products available and ‘Instant Sexiness’ seems like it would work well for this. Any advice on whether the A or the B type would be better?
Secondly, there is a guy that I want to attract. We’ve been friends for a while and in the past we have kissed and he’s told me that he likes me (after a couple of drinks!) The problem is that we’re both a bit shy and hesitant when it comes to making the first move – especially him, and I’d prefer him to make the first move - and I think some extra help would be a good idea!
Do you have any advice on what product would be good to use here? Ideally I’d like to avoid using loads together to begin with, as I’m completely new to this. Would instant sexiness be the best or is its function mainly to help you feel good about yourself, rather than attracting others? As I’ve said, I would prefer him to make the first move, but if an atmosphere was created where I felt sexy, and I knew he was finding me sexy as well, I suppose I’d be okay with doing it myself. I’ve heard about EW… but have also heard that it smells pretty nasty… and as I’m a newbie maybe I should steer clear of that one for the moment? I also thought of perhaps using instant honesty so we could have a heart to heart and I could find out how he really felt. What do you guys think?
Any advice or recommendations would be greatly appreciated! Thanks a lot.
Welcome. IH would help open him up. My knowledge of the female line is limited but I’ve heard nothing but praise about Instant sexiness. You could also try a togo size of TUTH, it will put really put you in the mood, and will get you making the first move for sure.
Instant sexiness and IH sound like a great combination. Good luck in your conquest. Check the stickies in the women’s forum and don’t be afraid to ask questions.
Welcome KatieH, Do you want to get to know him better and possibly start a long term intimate relationship or do you just want to get him in the sack? Your answer to this question is important because you would want to take two different approaches depending on your intentions. A small amount of Turn Up The Heat would signal to him that your intentions are to become more than just a Friend, but I would hold off on larger amounts of a high none product like Turn Up The Heat until after one of you has made the first move and you are ready to take it to the next level. Please reply and I will give you a suggestion on how to proceed. DrZorters
YAY A women Welcome to the forum Katie. We need more ladies.
I would get some Instant sexiness A in a to-go bottle. Its like Angelina Jolie in a bottle. Its self effects are just what your looking for. You feel strong, confident and sexy and when you feel that way it makes you more open and outgoing. It also attracts others and can cause interest.
IS/B is more kittenish, but its also confident. Sort of like Marilyn Monroe in a bottle. Its softer and flirty. It attracts attention and interest.
Its hard to know which one will match you best and alot of us like both. Most of us start with A because it comes in the to-go bottle and B only comes in a full size.
I think IO or IH would also be good. Probably more IH for deeper more intimate conversations. IO is more chatty friendly fun.
If you have any questions just come on down to the ladies section. We look forward to your participation.
Many thanks for your helpful replies. I would say that my answer is closer to the first one; we are friends and I really like the guy so I don’t just want to get him in the sack! (wouldn’t say no though ) I would like something ultimately more relationship-oriented… however we’ve known each other for a while now and I feel like things have ground to a halt at the moment.. so I’d like something to spice things up and kick-start things!
Also, Turn up the heat. Would it be safe to wear it when other people are there as well or should I just keep it for when the two of us are alone together?
Interesting question. I think if the venue is suitable enough it wouldn’t be a problem. However other women can pickup on the androstenone in TUTH as well. You’ll be there with your guyfriend so I can’t forsee women hitting on you being an issue.
Let this be a lesson to all men everywhere. By all things Pink and Squishy here is a HOT College Babe telling you she likes you, and yet you need to make the first move. Can it be written any better than this?
Holy freaking wonderful, you’re awesome girly and deserve praise and worship by all AFC men everywhere. 11 rep points for that alone.
This post sums up so much for so many men! What else do you guys need?
Anyway I’m sending you a GC and I believe your quote is so important to men I’m going to make this a post in the mens forum.
Crikky how did I miss this. Girl if you get Turn Up The Heat which I dont advise for a women new to pheromones do not spray it on. DAB just a little tiny DAB to heat things up. Usually over your upper lip and maybe a dab on your wrist after you tested just 1 dab. More then that can make you very bitchy. Horny and bitchy believe me I have done it and I almost gave my husband a heart attack.
Turn Up The Heat is a very strong mens product and although some experienced women have used it is rather tricky. Not at all like when the men wear it.
Thanks Tisha - saved me from getting in over my head there! Although sorry to deprive Steveo of his fun It’s great that this forum exists to guide newbies like me, I’m so glad I stumbled across it.
And I get a gift certificate AND forum quotage? Yay!
Yea Katie!
I’m glad to see you looking to move things forward. I used to be really shy and introverted myself when I was 20. I had a couple of girlfriends, but it never went beyond the kissing stage, and if it did start to go further I would get really nervous and awkward. I was a virgin until a week before my 21’st birthday, and the only reason I lost it when I did was because I had a one night stand with a girl that was aggressive enough to take us there.
Thank god for her! After that, I realized that I really liked sex!!! and became somewhat of a slut. But, if it hadn’t been for her, god knows when I might have built up the confidence, courage and self esteem enough to make any kind of move. She helped me climb out of my shell and it helped me in so many more ways than just sexually.
If you can find a way to push your guy to the point of feeling comfortable enough to make a move on you, you’re likely to help him far more that what you even realize.
And, thanks for posting here. I’m sure there are a lot of guys out there that just don’t realize that when it comes to desires and sexuality, women are not the meek uninterested creatures that they can often appear to be.
. Well, I’m a twenty year old female college student. I’m an attractive girl but I feel that I could do with some extra help to be more confident and feel sexier in general. I’ve looked at the products available and ‘Instant Sexiness’ seems like it would work well for this. Any advice on whether the A or the B type would be better?
Thanks Tisha - saved me from getting in over my head there! Although sorry to deprive Steveo of his fun