Hi everyone! My name is Mike, I’m a 25 year old male hailing from the great state of North Carolina! I’m happy to have found this forum, as I have been stricken with curiosity relative to trying pheromones for some time now. I’ve been reading through a lot of the threads and have been learning a great deal. I first heard about pheromones some time ago(perhaps 5-10 years ago?) and was curious but never tried anything. Recently, I came across an article about pheromones and decided to do some research again. I came across a lot of questionable sources filled with pop-up ads attacking my computer before I was pleased to find this community!
Anyway a little background on myself – I am an extremely outgoing, friendly, and generally optimistic person. I have lots of friends and have no trouble enjoying the spotlight. I’ve noticed that people seem to enjoy being around me as I tend to boost the mood and have been told I have a “radiating” personality. Other things of note – I’m currently pursuing an advanced degree, love playing and watching sports of all kinds, enjoy any type of adventure, working out, and just leading an active life.
So why am I interested in pheromones – well over the course of the past 3 years I’ve been in two long term relationships. In both cases, the women were both really interested in me and did most of the pursuing(both I met at work). I’m single now and ready to date, but here’s my dilemma: I have trouble making that first move/breaking the ice with women whether it be at a bar, at a coffee shop, on campus, etc. I’m so outgoing in every regard except in this case where I become very shy. I find women often giving me eye contact/smiling/waiting for me to come talk to them but I just can’t bring myself to do it. I just kinda stand around before one of us leaves, its very frustrating! I guess its a confidence thing – maybe by trying some of these pheromones I’ll gain that extra “boost” to carry myself over there and engage in conversation(where I might add I have no trouble at all – its just that initial icebreaker where I feel doomed to stumble).
Looking forward to hearing some suggestions, and of course pleased to meet you all!!