I very recently found this forum and website and it naturally caught my interest.
I’m 29, male, straight, single and reside in the City of Champions (too bad it doesn’t look like it lol). Furthermore I’d describe myself as a good/cute looking short guy with an athletic build and a metrosexual personal style.
As with many single guys in my town, I spend most of my time working outside of the city.
Unfortunately, I don’t have lots of time to really build a social life in town at the moment. In this point in my life I’m more of a relationship type of guy but my current lifestyle makes finding that relationship type woman tricky. So, until I do, I won’t mind meeting women now and then for a more casual relationship.
I’m completely new to the pheromone world and have no idea how it would affect me. I’ll also add that I drink very little, only during social events and never try to get a buzz from alcohol. I also don’t do drugs. I’m mentioning this because people tend to use these to loosen up and be more open towards others. I loosen up through dancing lol, oh and deep conversation with people I like.
Beyond reading/asking/learning from your advice/experiences about this world,
I’m here to find the right pheromones for me that could accomplish 2 main goals:
Help me break the ice with women that I meet at bars/pubs/dance clubs (never had much luck in these environments, at least not simply by my own) and increase my sex appeal to them. I could have a gorgeous woman stare at me from across the room and I still wouldn’t do anything about it. I always love it when women make the first move. Once the ice is broken, I find it quite easy to talk to women and according to them I’m a very likeable guy, “likeable”, not necessarily “F$#*able”. I’m not looking to be perceived as a “horny dawg” but rather a high class gentleman, you know, a “tall dark and handsome” fellow only in my case, a “short, white and cute” one lol. Basically I’d like to be able to meet women in these places more easily and also be perceived as someone that could be more than a friend.
I tend to be quiet around new people and large social gatherings because I tend to feel uncomfortable. I probably come out as being snobby although I hardly am. A pheromone that would help combat that false perception of me would be great.
While I’d love to be able to buy every type of pheromone available, I need to limit my spending to 1-2 that would help me fulfill my goal. I could squeeze 2 more on the go size ones. What do you recommend I start with?
Tisha23 is very wise and has given you some good suggestion. Personally you might want to try Instant Shine as well. It is becoming one of my personal favorites. There are times when my wife looks at me and I see trouble and then she gets close and smiles. I smile too.
Anyway welcome and have fun. There is some good info on this board and some very smart people here.
Welcome MrDarcy, Outlander and the WISE and SEXY Tisha took the words right out of my mouth, so all I can do is say they are a couple of smart cookies and have given you great advice.
You have found a great source for information on pheromones, and an incredible group of people ready and willing to help you in discovering the benifits available from these little bottles of magic.
One point I would like to make though, is that pheromones are not magic and will not make people fall at your feet. They are more like octane boosters are to gasoline: they will enhance what you already have and how others perceive you, but they will not change the person inside. Pour a pint of octane booster into a tank of gas and you get increased performance. Pour the same bottle of octanse booster into a tank of water, and you get nothing.
Instant Openness will help loosen you up and those around you, and while it literraly does break the ice, you have to give people an opening to actually get them talking.
Anyway, again welcome to the forum. I think you’re going to like it here.
Boy is it hard to get women to pick ya up. IO is good to get people talking but you’ll still have to start the conversation. I’m in the same boat about being too quiet and finding it hard to make the first move but I’m learning. Don’t wait till you’re 45 like I did. Bite the bullet and get “the mystery method” book. There are probably better books out there but it’s an easy read and makes sense about how attraction actually works. I wish I had read it years ago.
Tisha I humbly stand corrected. How could I not remeber your lovely avatars and not think SEXY .
If there is a punishment I will gladly submit.
Again my apolegies.
I would have to agree with everyone here about the advice that has been given, and oh it is good advice.
Like Gone says though there is nothing in this world that is going to do the approaching for you. Be sure that you at least say hi and you will be amazed at how its like a party in your presence. Over time people will associate that party with you. Just remember its all about the party!
Hello, welcome onboard.
Well, these social pheromones that others recommended to you are great for what u said u need- breaking the ice and use the self effects as to be more outgoing and communicative.
To this one I can add that for being more sexual, and not only nice to women you deffinately have to boost your sex appeal with some pheromones.The exact pheromone name is androstenone or -none for short.The products turn up the heat and ammo contain it.Well while the ammount of -none in both products is the same, ammo is more recomended because of the added social pheromones to buffer androstenone, witch makes the effect more socially acceptable.Turn up the heat is also good product but the signals one sends with it are more simple and animalistic- just sex.
The main thing you should remember about androstenone as chemical, no matter in witch of the two products, is to be cautious not to overdose.
Androstenone overdose make girls to shut up and not even look at you.It causes them to get away phisically too.another potencially dangerous thing is other males reaction to big ammounts of -none.Generally while causing females to be sexually aroused this pheromone causes males to be more aggressive so if you od it can cause the males around you to be more aggressive towards you.The third nasty result from overdose is that u’ll feel verry nervous too.If u accidentaly overdose, don’t panik, just take a shower and make sure you scrub the application points well with a sponge, ok?
Genrally said for turn up the heat do not exeed 4 sprays.
While one of the main ingredients of social pheromones - androstenol or -Androstenol cannot cause agression in overdose it can make people to black out.
LOL, What do I mean by that?Don’t worry no big deal . This “black out” is just like you feel closed in your thoughts , don’t/do-not-want-to pay attantion to what happens around you, time goes fast, stuff like that.It’s good to overdose on Androstenol if you want to meditate in a quiet room but not verry good for you and others around you to be in such mood while socialising in a pub for instance.So whatch out for -Androstenol overdose too.For instance if u use Come Talk To Me Mix 2 , don’t exeed 4-5 sprays (I personally had a blackout at 9 sprays and awsome social results, when everybody was talking and talking for hours to me and I to them with only 3 sprays of the product )
So I’ll give you some links on some good threads for newbies here:
verry good pheromones overwiew:
mixing the products:
and one theoretical started by me about how women percieve one using androstenone products:
U can check out my latest experience with social pheromones’ product Come Talk To Me Mix 2 here:
Hope all this gives you some basic directions and waiting to hear your stories with pheromones soon.
p.p. If u have any questions don’t be shy, just ask!!!
Thanks SteveO, looking forward to ordering and using the products. I think I can manage a “hello” lol.
When I usually manage to break the ice, it happens on the dance floor. I’m a pretty good dancer and I get attention. We’ll see how much better received are my initial gestures towards women with these products.
See when you say I am wise you make me sound like some ancient old women.
j/k