Hello! I’m a 20 year old male (21 tomorrow), and I’m a musician. I love walking in the woods, taking photographs, music, reading, meditating.
I’m here to ask about a specific issue and very possibly see about starting to use pheromones rather lightly to see if they can help me out with something. See, I’ve fallen head over heels for this woman, and I could be wrong, but I think she’s interested, too. I’m just having trouble getting it to the physical level, short of flat-out professing my love for her (which isn’t cool at all, of course), which probably wouldn’t give me the results I’d like, anyway. Who knows? I’m good with words, maybe I’d knock her socks off. But I don’t think so.
Just one issue: she’s twice my age. Has a daughter who’s 18. I know it’s kind of crazy, but I can’t really explain it (nor do I wish to try). I just really don’t want this relationship to fall into the dreaded “friend zone”, if it hasn’t already.
So, I guess I’ll just ask away (although I’ll probably make a thread about this): do you think pheromones might be helpful in turning on a middle-aged woman? She’s already acting interested, but it seems like there’s some fear holding her back. Both of us, really.
Also, is there any chance she’d pick up on the smell and realize that I was wearing something different? I never ever wear cologne and shower every day really thoroughly so I don’t have any odor to speak of usually.