Hello Void and welcome to the forum.
There are a LOT of VERY questionable sites selling what are supposed to be pheromone products. But you really have found the real deal here.
I am basically in the same postion you are although I am in my mid-40s and have been married for 20+ years.
I use pheromones for several purposes - work, social and to enhance life at home.
I use a 3-pronged line of approach:
First - during the evenings or on weekends I use Ammo when I am around the wife. It is a balanced product but it has enough 'none in it to remind her I am very interested.
Second - at this point in our lives we also know sexual attraction is not the final answer. So in addition to Ammo I also use what we call the social products - in particular IH is may personal favorite. Good communications are key in any relationship and we also know women equate good communications to caring to emotional closeness to emotional intimacy which can lead to physical intimacy. The IH in particular will help this as the beta nols both facilitate deep conversation and create a feeling of emotional closeness. IS will help her feel happy to be around you. IH helps generate general conversation if you need that from time to time. But my favorite is IH.
On special occassions, date nights, or at the end of the evening I will throw in some TUTH to create a spark or fan a spark into …
Finally, during the day for work I use A314 usually combined with IH. I mention this because not only is it great for work but one of the ladies (Phernoob) here in the forum said she got some for her husband for work but the alpha vibe it gave him also created a “spark” at home that certainly helped things in the romance arena. I alternate the A314 with Instant Gentleman. It gives you a cool/smooth vibe but it also seems to have a funny secondary effect: if you are young it makes you seem a little older. If you are older it makes you seem a little younger. Basically whatever they wearer seems to interpret as cooler/better agewise - that is the impression they get of you.
There is one more thing to be aware of: sometimes long-term spouses who know our phero-signature well do not always react well to a change in our phero-signature. Reactions can range from the funny like the wife who jumped/fell out of bed when her husband came to bed wearing 2-3 sprays of TUTH for the first time, to mild irritation (my and a couple other users’ moms) to slight puzzlement and suspicion (my wife and Tisha’s huband).
At first I did not tell my wife that I was using pheromones. When I first started using them she would look at me funny - she could tell something was different but could not put her finger on it. Often when women sense a major change in their spouse the first thing they think is … another woman. I could tell by her reactions and a couple comments that she thought … maybe … so I was very purposeful to ensure her I had eyes for only her: flowers for no special reason, date nights, etc.
She did notice the bottles but I keep them with my colognes and just acted as if they were colognes. At a certain point she did ask what they were. I told her and framed it in terms of aromatherapy designed to improve our relationship. Which is true. And that went over quite well. She probably still thinks its one of those crazy things I do but knowing I am doing it on behalf of our relationship so that is OK. Remember the flowers and “date night” things above.
I know this is long but I hope it helps.
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