Hi guys, greetings from Portugal!
I’m soooo thrilled that I discovered this forum and so willing to try some pheromones, to enjoy life a little better…! ![]()
I must tell you I’m a newbie to pheromones, so I’ll have to ask for some advice from whoever can help me starting out…
I’m on my 30s, I’m recovering from a breakup/divorce and basically starting over from scratch… To cut this long story short: we’d been together for 12 years (lived together for 8), he was the love of my life, it was a pratically a fairytale, lots of plans for our future… But somehow it all ended 6 months ago, apparently he realized (after all those years) that, even though I’m “a woman who 90% of men would love to be with” (quoting his own words), I was not the right kind of woman to fulfill HIS dreams… Also told me he’s had some affairs in the past that meant nothing to him (
“just” sex) and that he was in love with another woman…
Well, I was devastated… lost the love of my life, lost all my hopes and dreams, didn’t have a clue on how to live alone and how to overcome all of it by myself (my friends were his friends and my only family was his family)…
I’ve been crying and grieving for the last 6 months, had my ups and downs… Even researched on the internet about “something called pheromones” (
) that I could use to win him back - that’s how I got to know this AWESOME forum. Read pratically all the threads in here and even bought some IS/a, IH and IO… but never really got to use them, 'cause in the mean time (thank god!
) I realized that, even he is a great guy (he still has ALL the requirements for being the man of my dreams), I also got to know THAT side of a man that I couldn’t bear to live with (cheater, liar, womanizer and most importantly doesn’t appreciate/value me for who I am).
So… 6 months later I think I’m ready do move on with my life… I want to be the old happy-and-full-of-life me, but somehow it seems I can’t find the old ME… Although I’ve been trying so damn hard to live a new life and pursuit my own happiness (which I truly think I deserve), everything seems boring and tiresome, there’s this lack of energy, of interest and joy (even when I’m with my friends) that I can’t get rid of… And I’m sick and tired of feeling that way…
So I was wondering… Do you think that some pheromones could help me overcoming this healing process, feeling uplifted, happier, self-confident, stronger, not thinking too much about those past problems, just enjoying myself and enjoying life…?
(and enjoy being single… for now!
I’m too damn hot & pretty to NOT go out and enjoy life!!! LOL
)
Does anyone here used pheromones to help overcome a similar situation?
I thank you in advance for any kind of suggestion/advice…