Hello all, I am new to mones and have a semi-basic knowledge of them… I stumbled on to this site while researching different ones and though I would join. I am currently going through a divorce, she and I were married for 14 years, together for 15, and were best friends for 2 yrs before that… We have 3 children together. I guess I am looking for something to ease tensions in every day life and level the playing field for when I start seeing people again, as I have not been on the dating seen in 15 years…
Sorry I forgot to mention I am a 34 year old male, type A+ blood, not sure how that helps, but … I also live in the deep south
Hi Marko - Welcome to Pherotalk.
Many of us have come to mones after trauma and disruption from SOs in our lives and yes, they are a good way to help you get your life moving again, so you are in good company.
For starters, I would suggest Ammo and one or other of the socials - These will give you a good idea of how pheros work and are products with well established responses and benefits.
Ammo is a well rounded social/sexy/masculine formula thst gets interest and can give you a healthy confidence boost without making you appear overly horny or agressive. As you are into your 30s, you may need the 2x or “heavy” version as our none levels generally fall with age. You should do a bit of testing to find your effective dose first. See the “Sweet Spot” & stickied beginners threads in mens for more detail.
Instant Shine sends a happy and good to be around vibe.
IO promotes flowing conversations
IH helps bonding & closeness
IG sends a smooth, suave/status vibe that is not overly serious.
Have fun testing & do keep us posted on your results. 
Hi Marko and welcome to the forum!
I’m sorry to hear you are going through a divorce. As bad as this situation is I definitely think that using pheromones will help you to move on with your life.
I think mobocaster has recommended some excellent pheromones for you to try and they will help you with your confidence and get you noticed.
I wish you well!
Mackie
Hi marko, it’s really great to have you here.
I’m not sure if this is what you are feeling now, but when I go through breakups I usually suffer a dent in my confidence level. While admittedly I have only tried a314 for only a week, I have found it’s self effects to be so powerful, I feel that I can muscle through any adversity life throws me.
Thanks for the input guys! I will definitely try these out! …I just wish I would have stumbled onto this stuff sooner…
I do have a quick question on the subject though… Would these mones help with the relationship between me and my soon to be ex-wife? …As of a week ago we were talking about trying to get back together and work it all out, then I said some REALLY stupid things and now she said she’s done… Just a wondering…
Welcome to pherotalk Marko!
I would say that mobocaster did an excellent job in recommending products for you.
You will find more great advise as you begin to mingle in the men section of the forum.
Your gc was issued! 
Thank you!
They can do - Although this one is a minefield and pheros will do nothing for any deep-seated underlying issues.
The ones I’ve found most useful with exes are:
A314 - The “fallout” effect and trust/status properties can remind her of why you were a good catch to begin with.
Instant Honesty - Closeness and bonding.
Instant Shine - She starts to feel really good/happy around you again. Keep your mouth under control and concentrate on the good things/times.
TUTH - If there is still that “spark” between you, this can make it a lot better again.
This is what I was looking at, IS, IO, IG, IH …would A314 be a better choice than IG? Or should I stick with what I’ve listed because I’ve never played with any of this before?
That depends on a number of things about your personality. A314 is strongly alpha and you do need to live up to its signal. If you don’t feel ready to do that and are new to pheros, IG would probably be a better choice. Although at 34, personally, I would be more inclined to A314 because of the extra maturity it implies. A bit of IO will buffer A314 somewhat but A314/IH is superb for a confident, close and strong vibe that just draws people to you.
IO is similarly a double edged sword - Yes it lubricates conversation but that said, it won’t make a bad conversation good. Which is why the IS/IO combination is so good - steers it towards the happy stuff. Which can be important when dealing with with an ex - you don’t want to dwell on the bad stuff.
So I placed my order today, it should be here some time Thursday! I ordered IS, IO , IG , & IH… Maybe I will get lucky and they will shoot me a trial of A314 or TUTH… LOL! Because I’m 34 with A+ blood, I’m thinking about starting my test with 2 sprays instead of the recommended 1 spray… (What do you guys think?) As far as my personality goes I am fairly quiet until I get to know someone a little bit, I’m something of a charmer, I’m a very compassionate soul, I am a caring person, …etc
By the way, what should be the effective distance for these products?
That really depends on the environment (indoors or out), the temperature, etc. Obviously close is better, but basically, the distance that your fragrance can be smelled from generally works.
If you really want her back, or at least to make things courteously civil between you (mandatory if you have kids), suggest and honestly attempt counseling to work out the underlying issues. I’m not saying don’t try the pheromones with her, just do this in addition. And try remembering things she said she liked/wanted when you ignored them. I mean like a babysitting or housecleaning service, dance lessons with you, a new restaurant you shot down, trying rockclimbing (or whatever) together, not just the easy things like her favorite flower or candy. I know if my ex had been willing to work/change, I probably would have stayed. (As it is, I’m better at being myself now and looking for a healthy relationship, so I’m happy with my choice, but I had no kids, either.)
Yes, we do have children together, and as far as things she said she liked/ wanted that was never an issue I typically thought of her more than I thought of me to this day she will tell you that I always seemed to know what she liked or wanted… At this point in the game, I’m just trying to get her to be civil… 