Hi. New member here (obviously).
I have used a pheromone cologne additive many years ago before I was married and did not experience anything different in my opposite sex interactions. Now that I am divorced, and much older, I feel like a little help might be required as I try to get back onto the dating scene.
I am not one to go clubbing or bar hopping, so I am not really sure of the best places to check the effectiveness of pheromones. Any help would be appreciated.
Hey Cadmaster31, its awesome your reaching out and bettering yourself. Curious, where do you see yourself interacting with women and tell us about your personality. It would help us better recommend what to look into 
Well, I would say I am an introvert, for sure. I was married to a woman for ten years who turned out to be a narcissist and abusive. For a long time I was made to believe that I was the one with the problems. Needless to say, that really did a number on my self-esteem.
Now that I have escaped that bad situation I am finding it difficult to really “be myself” as I once did. So, one of the other reasons I am looking to experiment with mones is for their potential effect on myself.
I am awaiting my first shipment, and I will gladly keep posting if I see any changes in my outlook or self-perception.
I feel for you! Everything you do and sorround yourself with in life should give you a smile! I survived a similar situation, verbally and physically abusive at times and followed by euphoric love.. Every three days it would be the same pattern of irritability. I love her to death, but sometimes the best thing is to get out of that situation for both your sakes before you destroy each other. Read up on borderlines and tell me how simmiler does it sound? That is a time in your life for healing, if you ever the chance to talk to a counselor I totally recommend it just so you don’t repeat the same relationship pattern.
What did you end up buying? I would definitely recommend IO to help you get over that social anxiety and brake ice in social situations. Ammo would be helpfull for evening activity more sexy type appeal. And instant shine is great to boost your mood and charisma.
Hello Cad and welcome to the forum.
I feel for you. I know from friends it can take a while after a divorce to go through the process of finding out who you are as opposed to who you were as a married couple. And you really need to go through this process as you are going to eventually find someone much better for you and you need to be yourself and know who you are as opposed to still being caught up in those not so good behaviors from when you were married.
If you are not one to hit the clubs then figure out what you like to do and do it. Find a group or club that does that activity and join in. The best place to test these products are naturally with people so this will give you the best of both worlds. Doing stuff you like as you figure out who you are as a single and starting to test these products.
What products did you order? Keep us updated.
And no charge for the psychotherapy session … lol.
It was actually going to see a counselor that helped me realize that it was not me with the problems, but my crazy ex. Thankfully he was able to help me see the reality of our relationship: everything for her was golden, most everything for me was crap…
But now I am away from that situation and starting to “heal.” And hey, nothing helps a guy feel better than attention from the ladies. 
I was about to place my order for A314 and P83 when I really started to read posts here. Now I am beginning to rethink my original impulse choices after reading more and the advice from you guys. I had no idea how helpful a message board like this could be, but there really is not a “one size fits all” type of mone solution. And I actually like that!
For now I think I am going to spend some more time reading. I am still thinking the A314 might be good for me and Twisted Ostrich’s advice on starting with IO is very sound. I think a lot of guys OD on mones first time around, and I am trying to ease myself into them so IO is looking good for that.
Oh… I keep forgetting to give the essentials…
I am male, 40 years old and I live in Charlotte, NC.
A314 and P83 may not be the best of choices for an introvert TBH - The near-unassailable status of A314 can work against you and give a remote/standoffish/serious and even “too good” for them vibe. Which version did you think on getting?
Whilst despite being a very popular phero, P83 is not really a beginners product and really delivers its best in conjunction with more social and full-on interactive situations. Which are often the more uninhibited places like pubs parties and clubs. A314 can be useful here and you are around the age where in A314 can in conjunction with P83 and a sexual be very useful indeed if you are able to project yourself in a suitably high-status/social manner.
I would suggest you go back and look at some of the more social/socially engaging pheros that help spur communication and interaction, Maybe Ammo, Instant Shine, IO and the far lighter and more social status product IG.
Luckily I had not hit the final order button before doing some additional reading, so I have not actually finalized my purchase yet.
I already have a reputation for being standoffish, so it sounds like A314 could make that worse. Thanks for the heads up on that… it could have ruined me on using mones… And I am really glad I did not place my order yet… I probably would end up giving away a lot of good stuff that just was not right for me.
I forget that we all already give off certain mones all the time. Sounds like a lot of experimentation is going to be necessary to find the right combo for my body chemistry.
Thank you so much for aiming me in the right direction! And I will definitely be doing more research before finally hitting the order button…
How long does it take to find a good personal combination?
I myself ended up playing with most of the instant line before finding what I really liked. What works for me could be much different from yourself but I see as a spectrum of possibilities that all connect with different people.
The base of most mixes you’d play with would either consist of none (line in ammo, TUTH, or IJ - more for sexual vibe) or rone (IG, A314 - more status vibe) which is then combined with socials.
The interesting thing is that older women are attracted to stronger none signatures while younger can more more attracted to rone. Meanwhile younger men put off alot of none while older men start producing more rone (simply put). With this in mind its still good to go and experiment and see what works for you.
I think the newbie kit is looking the best for me as my first order. It looks like a perfect way to start “the experiment” that is me. I am just waiting for my coupon and I will be ready to buy.
I noticed that a lot of people have an MBTI personality type shown. I myself am an INFP.
Good variety, in the starter kit. I’m sure you’ll like more than a couple of the mones so that you can get the ‘big’ blue bottles.
I’m sure Mick will be around to check on your post, though, she may have already sent you the GC in the email that you used to register to this site. The AD staff is good at taking care of the Intro threads!
I actually got impatient and placed my order before I got my coupon. Of course I got my coupon at the same time as my order shipment notification… But hey, once I figure out from my newbie kit what works for me I know I will be ordering again anyway!
I feel like a little kid waiting for his x-ray specs to come in the mail… When is FedEx going to get teleportation delivery? 
Welcome to pherotalk Cadmaster,
I am sorry to hear about the gift certificate so here is what we will do.
When you are ready to place another order give me a call so we can see what deal we can work out for you.
Your gc was issued!