I met this girl on PoF, and we are hanging out in her apartment for the first time we meet.
Now, for a relationship, I doubt I’m interested in her. She’s a little mental.
BUT she’s also somewhat of a freak. She has told me that she is “convinced she gives the best head in all of PA” and that she “LOVES being tied up and smacked around a little bit.”
She’s in a SOMEWHAT similar situation as me. She told me she is still in love with a guy she met a few months ago, and he sort of just dropped her, so she said, “I’m just letting you know, if sex is all you want, we shouldn’t hang out.”
Now. Of course I told her I legitimately just want to hang out with her, but I do believe that this night can (and should) end up in sex.
This girl and I have shared our fantasies together, and I’ve told her that “if I do yours you have to do mine.” Her response was something along the lines of “we’ll see what happens, hehe.”
I’m fairly certain she’ll have booze involved in the night. If we are both sober, I don’t think I’ll make a move. But ultimately, my goal is to turn her into a regular hookup. Plus, it’ll help me get over the 14 month girl. Already I can tell that she would rock my world more than 14 month girl ever could (even though 14 month girl was much more sane and more attractive). This girl even ADMITS to being a bit insane and ‘evil.’
So my ultimate question is, what pheros should I wear and what dosages so that she’ll eventually say “ahhh fuck it” and toss around with me on her bed Thursday night?
whats PoF? If you’re meeting girls like that… Sounds like a place I should check.
also my recommendation is some Tuth. I’d say not more than 3-4 sprays unless you know you can go higher without od.
don’t forget tho you have to stay under her threshold as well.
Keep in mind, she has 3 roommates too. I think there is a possibility that at least one of them is a male that has some sort of crush on her.
I can’t wear anything TOO, TOO offensive that’ll get her roommates’ defensive game up. I need them to see me as a guy they are OK with her screwing…as for the guy, well, I don’t think he’ll be THAT much of a problem.
I joined it after the first time this girl and I, seemingly, weren’t going to “work out.” I sort of used it as a joke, but now I’m taking it slightly more seriously.
ah yes well this does complicate things significantly. perhaps this info might have been included sooner.
Just a note tho… roomate implies but does not automatically mean friend. Her roomates may not give a flying @#$% who she sleeps with. Then again it is good to be aware of potential challenges and mix accordingly.
Also it may be relevant as to if they are going to be there at the same time as you… if its just you two then problem differred until later. Which is as I see it is a benefit, as she will have more invested in you thus will count that investment with more weight than her friends opinion of you.
Ultimately, my goal is to show this girl a good time. I am sort of gaming her using Chase Amante techniques right now. She’s currently telling me what she “likes to do for fun,” which includes painting her toenails, shopping at night, cleaning at night, and movie watching. I responded “looks like you’re a night owl, huh?” After her next response, I’ll say something like, “well, night is when all the fun happens. I’m looking forward to sharing that fun with you on Thursday night.” If she mentions something about, “hey now, we aren’t having sex,” I’ll respond with, “hahaha do you really think I’m THAT easy?”
Keep guiding the conversation. Chase Amante is a genius.
Any idea what pheros I should wear? Perhaps some A314, some IH, some P83, some IShine, and some TUTH? Too much? Dosages?
Tho I’ve not heard of chase amanti before the format and logic of it seems sound. just remember life is unscripted so you may not get the opportunity to use those lines… just be careful that you dont try to force it. the flow has to seem natural.
As for the mones remember quite often less is more. Try to keep it simple and remember A314 + TUTH will be a not insgnifigant amount of NONE. Watch out you don’t OD or worse yet use an amount that doesnt make you ghost but that makes you seem like you are coming on too strong. Both are bad but IMHO seems like in this case ghosting a bit may be the lesser of the 2 evils. I don’t have any P83 so I don’t know what it does to recommend on that. A314 and Shine go well together tho and keeping the IH may not be too bad. Just remember everything you add is going to steer the other stuff a bit. some more or less than others.
Don’t forget that you can always keep a togo of TUTH with you and add that to the mix If and when it seems right to escalate in that direction.
Have fun but keep yourself grounded/ Do not get-in too deep with this one - other than balls-deep obvs!
If you are into sharing fantasies already, a healthy dose of IH/IS is the sort of mix that brings-out the “I can share anything with you and it just feels so good!” mood and some TUTH will indeed help turn her-on at the same time. The IH/IS will help with some good moderation to balance it.
I’m not so sure about A314 - A little probably won’t do any harm and it will help round-out a TUTH/IH/IS mix nicely but depending on her age, it may be a bit too mature/serious/not good-time/LTR-minded. Similarly, a small amount of P74 will help the connection/comfort/moderation side of things but may again be steering into relationship-feel, when she’s not ready to go there yet - which can get fickle.
P83 would indeed be good here - and although it won’t moderate anything, it will help you take things physical.
Kodocha’s right - I’d tend to keep any TUTH fairly low to begin with but keep a togo handy and ramp it up when you get some significant physical IOI’s/interaction.
You will not be doing her toenails for her, or going late night shopping with her, unless you get a significant sexual element into it. Getting a woman into lingerie etc (and a loosely tied coat for the shopping) has always worked pretty-well for me - anything to make the whole thing a big turn-on/thrill for both of you rather than just your pandering to her many needs.
Well, she very clearly likes me. We’ve already sent each other suggestive photos. I’ve been challenging, we are flirting like CRAZY (including a bit where I told her that I practice on peaches, and especially love juicy peaches, she asked ‘how do you feel about cranberries?’ which I responded, “I love how they burst in my mouth.” She said she had an affinity for very long, juicy bananas, but hasn’t had one in a while, and asked if I was selling. I responded, “when I’m in the mood and when the customer is giving me an offer I can’t refuse.”
I may actually like her. Sure, she’s a little immature (which comes with the territory of being in her young 20s). I don’t LIKE her, but I like her. We’ll see what happens.
She keeps telling me that sex isn’t going to happen tonight. I’m OK with that. We are both very nervous about tonight, so I told her lets just have a House of Cards marathon and take a couple of shots. It’ll be fun.
Do I see this girl lasting a long time? No. But I just wanna have fun.
I’m going to wear some mix of P83 + TUTH + IShine + IH. Will let you know how things go tomorrow.
