Hi everyone. I am a 22 year old male from Northern California**.**
Recently I have been attempting to get a job and have been having a hard time connecting with potential employers enough to be able to get that comfortable “you are hired vibe”. I am not sure what the deal is. I have been told by previous girlfriends that I have a very unapproachable presence. Like I stand above those around me to the point that they can’t relate. From personal experience, I do find that people are wary about approaching me. Guys either want to be my friend (after making initial contact), or it is like two male pit bulls in a cage. I just assumed I had a lot of testosterone. I am told I have a very powerful presence. Females tend to give me those longing looks from the corner of their eyes, but never approach.
I feel I am very friendly and warm towards those that allow enough contact for me to be. I do not walk around with a chip on my shoulder. I am not quite sure what this is about. I am hoping that pheromones might help me better connect with people. Maybe enough to get a job? I come to this community in search of better understanding.
Does anyone have a theory of why I could have this effect on people? I am not unattractive or socially inept. Could pheromones possibly help? Maybe I have to strong of one that scares people off. I don’t know much about pheromones, please help!!!
You have come to right place. There is lot of great info about pheromones in this forum. People here are friendly and willing to help you with any questions you have.
After reading your post I would suggest you to consider products like Instant Shine, Instant Openness and Instant Honesty.
Instant Shine makes people around you feel good and makes you more approachable. Instant Openness helps to start conversation and keep it going. Instant Honesty helps people trust you more. It makes conversation deeper, more meaningfull.
Something to consider also is A314 or IG. They are products that gives you respect. Good products for example in work situations or job interviews. A314 gives this strong alpha male vibe and can be indimidating for some people and not so approachable. You need to use some social mones with this product to mellow it down. Instant Shine and Instant Honesty/Openness goes well with this. IG is easier, cool quy vibe, but still gives you respect.
I agree with this right here. Except in your case IG may prove to be better because it gives respect without coming having you come off as overbearing.
You may also want to adjust your actions accordingly by smiling a little more. Some social pheros like IH, IO and Instant Shine would be highly recommended but rememeber that you must also take the necessary steps to change your demeanor so that you can be congruent with your phero signature.
I appreciate both of your responses. I do smile, and present myself in a friendly way. Possibly I am already dumping off to much pheromones like what are in A314? Coming off maybe with to much alpha? The dogs always smell me coming and either respond with instant submissiveness or aggressiveness. I am very perceptive on human behavior, and am also very sensitive to pheromones. I am very much interested in experimenting with these. Very expensive though.
Do all of you only use the products from this company? Any other experiences?
Welcome to Phero Talk Pheromone Research Forum, I’ve read your introduction and thanks for the information. To me it does appear you should go with Instant Gentleman (Instant Gentleman — Classy, High Value Male Pheromone - Alpha A314) , one of the key ingredients is androsterone, it should enhance an aura of youthfulness, and cool sexiness. To include respect and confidence. Women like dependable men.
I see that, two of the products that I would of recommended has already been spoken about that’s Instant Honesty and Instant Openness, they’re great products for communication.
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