Hi, I’m a 40 year old male wanting to spice things up with the wife. She’s 42 and her sex drive isn’t what it used to be. Hoping this might help…
Welcome.
Turn Up The Heat may be of help.
There’s a sticky at the top of the men’s forum on spicing up existing relationships.
Hi! Welcome to the forum!
It’s a normal phenomena for people age over 40!
Perhaps you can use pheromones like Instant Female Magic and TUTH and at the same time some “Horny Goat Weed” may help.
Welcome bernaud
Like Gone and Mohammed just said, turn up the heat would be perfect for your situation. You probably need about 2 to 3 sprays, but start low anyways, try with one spray first since it is a very potent product!
If attraction is an issue, u can also consider ammo.
Hey bbernaud and welcome.
I am about your age and started using products for about the same reason - just to help smooth things over a little better at home.
Recommendations: First - remember it is all about the relationship. If she feels you care for her, there is affection (caring, romance, communication), her needs are being met then things will go where you want them to. The above constitutes the environment usually necessary for a spouse to decide to be in the mood for … love. For guys it is a state, for women it is usually a decision of sorts.
Recommendations: Come Talk To Me Mix 2 or Instant Honesty to generate deeper conversations that will improve communication and show her that you care. Ammo to up your 'none signature and remind her that you are the MAN. Instant Shine can help leave everyone feeling happy. Instant Female Magic can help sooth her when she gets in those moods. Turn Up The Heat I would only use when you KNOW things are heading in that direction.
If you put the first paragraph into practice while using these products, you should get some good results.
Just bear in mind two things: First, if you have been married a while she will probably pick up on the change in your pherosignature. Something like: “There is something different about you.” Blame it on the cologne scent of the Ammo. Sometimes it bothers them a little at first. Offset that with non-sexual affection. Make the additional affection - hugs, calls, flowers - be an offsetting part of that change she picks up. Hopefully she will appreciate the steady additional attention enough to not worry about the pherosignature change. Trust me - women are in tune with that. Her concern may be it involves anouther woman. Hence the STEADY additional communication/affection to assure her that is not the case.
Beware of the IH or CTTM2. It has self-effects. Plus be ready to deal in a positive manner with the honest comments it brings up from her. You may find out she never liked your best friend, favorite bowling shirt, or whatever. Just be ready.
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I think TUTH and a mood enhancing mix would be a great start. Ammo would be good for daily use just to build some anticipation
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