New to all of this and wanted to learn and see if I can find something to use that will be of excellent help.
Hey there, welcome to the forums! Can you tell us a bit more about yourself, and what exactly you are looking for? Usually if you give us a line of 4-5 then I am pretty sure you will get a 25$ gift card and some great advice in notime 
Well I am a 44 year old married male and I am into the BDSM lifestyle. I am Dom and when I have a session with a female submissive, I’m looking for something that might distract their thoughts some or get them more in the mood. It’s always fun to get an edge in and work on making the experience that the sub is seeking more enjoyable than they could imagine. I would have to say it would be more about helping them to be able to let themselves truly go and relax thier inhibitions. Safe, sane, and consensual are our key guidelines, so it’s already consensual, just wanting to go that extra mile. Lol
Here to learn and will gladly listen to all advice, lessons learned, warnings, and everything else. Always will answer any questions sent my way as well!
Oops, sorry about the double post, not sure how that happend
Well, my financee and I are more into bondage, so might have something in common here. If you are looking for something to make it a bit sexual, I would recommend getting TUTH. She responds really well to it, and when she is tied up and smelling me she just goes totally crazy. If you are looking more into making her more submissive, I would say A314/A (not the oil, the spray). I thought about Instant Jerk but that one is a bit too harsh. P75 also works, but you need to dose it right. Don’t use too much, or you will start to become agressive and abusive. Keywords I am thinking about are power, respect, control and maturity.
I will have to try both of them out. I am a trainer as well in many facets of the lifestyle, love to do some rope work myself. Lol.
Now would those two be good to cautiously combine or only one at a time? Though if they are restrained or bound, it wouldn’t really matter then. Lmao!
Hello and welcome to the forum.
Well if you are guy and married you are into a certain amount of pain by definition lol. (Don’t get mad at me, Dee - that’s a joke. Mostly.)
Not really into The Lifestyle I cannot give you definitive advice but I think A314 and TUTH are a solid starting point. After that, a little research into some of the more experimental molecules might give you some ideas.
bosshank
Thank you for that bosshank, I know I have a lot of reading to do and I see the links to a start of some of the reading I need. Probably will be asking a lot of old questions, hopefully I’ll find new questions to ask that might spark some excellent new ideas. Will be back on asap, have a lot of work to get done right now. Thank you again!
Well, one of the things I would like to try out is A314 half hour before roping her up (to get me and her in the right mood, I usually get relaxed and focussed), and then add TUTH after she is tied up and relaxed to get that arousal factor going. The combination of being completely helpless together with the scent of a sexy man touching her butt can turn a women completely wild. Its the classic case of “arousal due to fear”, but then 10 times amplified because of the TUTH.
I love the direction of thought you have going there. As I learn the reactions to each pheremone I may come up with some fun combos. I can see that the timing and correct layering order will be key to the success of the desired outcome. I am so ready to work on researching using the hands on method. Still have a lot to read yet before I can get into the lab. Gonna need to budget for supplies as well. Lol
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, ShadowGriz!
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Like Bosshank, I am not into this kind of lifestyle too. Im the kind of a person who does not enjoy controlling or hurting, albeit controlled and sane, and of course I don’t get aroused by doing such. But I won’t judge you and all the other individuals who are in this practice, as long as it is consensual, and adheres strictly to the pre-set rules, and code word system.
In addition to mrseeker’s recommendation, I will point you to Conjurator’s journal. There is one post in there where he used a certain combo to induce fear with the presence of TUTH also, in one scare-me kind of event (I can’t remember the exact name of the event where people pay to be scared.) There are some nice results in there that I think might help you in your quest for happiness.
And to Boss, I’m not mad. 
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Well, let me get things straight here: I hate hurting people as much as most people on this planet. But your answer gave me something to think about, and I have to give a nice explanation on the reason behind BDSM: Psychology. In fact, when thinking about it, you can induce a state of a very relaxing trance with people. And if you take into account the “Csikszentmihalyi flow model”, there is a nice zone between “flow” and “anxiety”, called “arousal”. Yoga can also give this kind of “flow”, and I know from experience with my girlfriend that if I use bondage (or just make sure she is hugged pretty well), she tends to sleep better than when I am not around.
If we relate all this to pheromones, and this is where the science comes in: BDSM increases cortisone levels in the submissive (or bottom). This is similar to a well-known pheromone that does exactly the same thing: androstadienone, also known as -none, also known as… The main ingredient in TUTH.
Haha - good. Don’t want to get into trouble too soon lol.
Hello ShadowGriz,
Welcome! I would consider the Men’s Ultimate Kit as you would get all that is mentioned plus a lot more. This way if things don’t go well you will have something right at your fingertips to adjust the mix and bring things back to a more comfortable state. It is all about testing and this kit provides that and at a discount.
Otherwise for your goal I am thinking either A314 or IG should be your base to start with. The A314 is more commanding and this may be better suited to be dominant and take control, but IG could be very useful to depending on the person and will provide a more soft in charge type. I would test both solo and see what you think and use the appropriate one for your goal and the person.
Of course there is TUTH which is also a must have for you. Highly sexual and a little goes along way. So if anything I would get these 3 to start with.
Good luck and if you have any questions at all please ask!