Hi. My name is Y2J and I found out about this forum after a Google search on pheromones. I began reading some self-help books around Christmas in hopes of gaining some knowledge on pursuing a particular love interest of mine, which eventually led to a curiosity of pheromones and a desire to jump in and learn here. My hope is that with the help and knowledge of this forum, I can ignite some feelings in this beautiful girl and make her mine.
About me:
I am 34-years old and very much my own person. I do my thing and most people love me for it. In spite of having the confidence to be myself, I have a lot of trouble sealing the deal with girls. Hence the self-help books and why I’m here.
My love interest is a co-worker of mine. She’s 21, but our age gap has never been a problem in our friendship. She’s fiery, quick to excite, and her last boyfriend wasn’t man enough to handle her. He was a beta male.
Our friendship has been hot and cold at various times over the last two years that I’ve known her, but our co-workers describe us as being “weirdly close” and our boss even suggested that I get rid of her now ex-boyfiend and get together with her. Right now, I would say that things are warm again. For the first time since we met, we’re both single and I don’t want to squander this chance. I have very good reason to believe that there is mutual attraction and that it was present even when she was still with her ex-boyfriend. I have several nights alone with this girl and I’m looking for some help to ignite her interest in me, make things hot, and finally make this girl mine.
Hi Y2J,
Welcome to this forum and thanks for your great introduction.
Maybe more details about the issue would be nice. Why do you have such a hard time sealing the deal with girls? Are you shy? Do they lack interest? Are you intimidated?
By telling us a bit more, you will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy.
The good news is that you seem to be close to that girl and have no problems talking with her and feeling comfortable with her. Same on her side. I feel you want something serious with that girl, not just a fling. I would recommend the following products: IHonesty, Ammo, MX297 and TUTH. IHonesty will help you have deeper conversations with her and enhance the trust and bonding. Ammo will help spark up attraction, it will help steer things away from the friend zone. MX297 is a fun product to wear when going out, let yourself loose, have fun, and you’ll be a natural chick magnet. TUTH, save it for later when things heat up, it helps fight last minute resistance.
There is a possibility you’ve been too deep in the friend zone for too long, but it’s worth trying. If not, plenty of fishes in the sea 
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Hi Conjurator.
I would say that my reluctance in sealing the deal is the fear of embarrassment after rejection, and not the actual rejection itself. I seem to have little trouble gaining interest, but can’t close the deal. My best friend and I likened it to pitching 8 innings of shutout ball and blowing up in the 9th. I don’t believe intimidation is factor. Shyness certainly isn’t.
Early in our friendship we were accused of and teased by co-workers for flirting. Another co-worker described her as having me on a pedestal. She would often jokingly tell people that we were “work dating.” We met for breakfast on our day off several times. All of this while she was in a relationship with the beta male who, according to a very helpful book that I read, she had become bored with because he was not acting like a man.
I have no doubts that she was interested and I still believe she may still be. Things aren’t as “hot” as they were when we had first met, but I do believe that there is potential to strike here and that her interest is renewed once again. I’m confident that I can avoid dissolve any friend zoning that may have happened up to this point with a little help to heat things up again.
I appreciate the suggestions. I’m new to the world of pheromones, so any help is going to be greatly appreciated. I’d love for you knowledgable members to consider me and my situation an experiment. Let’s see what some pheromones can do here!
Fear of rejection… Hmmm…
I would dare suggest you try IGentleman. I have used it before around young ladies and it works quite good for me. It helps with confidence and helps deal with all kind of bad emotions: anger, fear of rejection, light anxiety. I call it my ‘‘oak tree’’ products. For some, it could backfire, it enhances the wise and mature aura in you and for some younger ladies, it might be too much. But for a girl with a light daddy issue, it’s just great . Worth trying IMO.
The gift certificate wll be sent to you by email by one of the forum moderators, it usually takes a few days. Good luck and fear not to ask any questions you might have.
I received the gift certificate today. I’m going to do some shopping later.
I’m curious what putative pheromones are, why they are in a category of their own on the shop page, and what is different about them from the others available.
Putatives are molecules that are suspected of having pheromone properties. They are more experimental in nature than the commercial-line of products, they are custom made to order and are not covered by the same guarantee. We usually recommend those to users who have pheromone experience already. They should be approached with an open mind and with as little bias as possible. Androtics often sends a weekly putative sample as freebie with the orders, you are free to try it. Report what you get at different doses. It helps push the science forward .
Many thanks for the information, Conjurator. I’m going to start a journal and track my experience and (hopefully) success in my situation.
A journal, yes please do . We’ll be happy to provide you with help and advice along the way
Of course, it was ‘help’, not ‘helo’, lol. I corrected the typo above.
Hello Y2J and Welcome!
We are close in age as I am 37 now. Your very best option would be to look at the Men’s Kit as you would get all the items described and at a discount already. With your age almost all the products are very useable for most situations.
Very first thing I would start with is,
Ammo If anything else use this one around her. For attraction and good for dating and works really well for day use to not just bars and clubs. I would use this one solo around her for a while. What you will want to do is work on getting her outside of work like going to breakfast and use this.
IShine After you hit her with the Ammo a few times try using this with Ammo. This will give you that youthful vibrant glow and will help with the age difference as the Ammo will give the attraction and this will give you that youthful vibrant glow that she will find attractive.
These 2 are your very best IMO. Like Conjurator suggested IG could be a very good choice also especially for work. I have used Ammo at work with success, but it has taken me time to really steer it with other things to avoid getting myself in trouble with women(I am married).
The above 2 I think will be your very best bet.
IH Now this will get to how she really feels, just be ready to accept whatever she tells you though. Good for deep bonding and deep conversations.
TUTH Highly sexual and a little goes a long way. Whatever you do, build up to this with Ammo and don’t come out with this first as this is a common mistake(Hell I done it to). The reason is this thing just screams sexual energy and it may be perceived as coming on to strong.
With her being 21 she will respond better to a more social mix so Ammo and IShine should do the trick. The big key is to get her outside of work and take things from here.
If you have any trouble at all just post or you can send me a PM and I will respond. Thanks for starting a journal as really it is for you and so we can help and make sure you succeed and that is what it is really about.
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Y2J!
Glad that you found your GC.
I’ll check your journal later.
Happy Pheroing!
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