im new here, any advice on what to get to get some actions right away??
Hey I’mnewhere..
Liz here.
There’s a lot of things you can get to “get some actions”, but first, you need to tell us exactly what you are looking for. For people to be attracted to you? Or have you already gotten it pat down and now all you’re looking for is some fire into your current relationship?
That said, you should take a look into the men’s forum, especially at the stickies to know the basics of pheromones, and what each do!
If you want a $15 GC which you can use to get yourself a couple of pheromones from Smartmones, you need to tell me more about yourself. Tell us your age, where are you from, and what are you looking for. We’re not nosey, it’s just important for us so that we can figure out which pheromones will best work for you.
Anything in particular you like?
Welcome.
At the top of this forum it says
If you’ll also mention your personality, how you relate to people, and changes you’d like to see, we’ll have a lot more to go on for giving suggestions.
Also, a little about what kind of relationships you’re seeking.
I see! Im a guy,from the UK, 22. Im looking to “close the deal” with my new girl friend… she seems to be reluctant.
1st question tho, can you pls tel me what manufacturers of these pheromone products there are? Whats popular etc?
This forum is sponsored by Androtics, and their store link is at the top. Most of us here like their products and talk primarily about them.
Google searches will find other vendors though.
Tell us about your personality and your girlfriend’s personality. Is she inhibited? Religious? Looking for a long-term relationship? Dating a lot and trying new expereinces? Talkative? Shy? etc.
What are your current interactions like? How long have you known each other? What is the level of trust? Do you currently have “deep” conversations? How far has your relationship progressed?
remember pheromones only help you out in enhancing what’s already there. if she’s conservative, pheromones wont change her will and can’t make her bend to your needs.
however, if it were to happen and she gets aroused enough my pheros, but she was unwillingly doing so, she might hate you later on… FOREVER!!
lol with that aside, on a good note buy a few togo bottles see how they work for you and have fun
Id like to see myself as a honest, reliable, nice enough guy. I ve dated her for about 2 months now. My gf have previously dated about 4 guys… none of which she claimed to have been “serious” about. Weve had very deep conversations, and recently weve just been to a trip together. This is when I realized that she is very shy almost to the point of being religious?! From what Ive gathered together and from her mates ( of which I also know) I think shes still a virgin. Weve had times when we were getting close, but she seemed to be resistant to my advances… shes even told me she really likes me, that im a really nice guy BUT shes not sure if she loves me. I really like her and want her now.
Hey, from a girl’s point of view here :
I know you’ve had very deep conversations, but I think Instant Honesty would still be good here. It’ll create trust between the two of you I believe, and I guess both of you can understand each other better, and maybe she can tell you exactly why is she being resistant. Seems like besides the issue of whether she likes you or not, there is a more deep-seated issue (perhaps religion?) or maybe she just likes her space.
Either way, perhaps you should stay away from Turn Up the Heat I think. If you want a sexual vibe, go for Ammo, but I’d advise for it not to be your main phero signature, since it may be the issue of “being sexual” that is getting to her, and not about you per se. Get some other pheromones according to the guys’ advice.
Good luck!
Liz
Good advice from Lizzie. You want to avoid the “friend zone” though, so don’t overdo the Instant Honesty. It sounds as if you’ve already been to some of the sharing places Instant Honesty takes you.
You might also consider a Androsterone product like A314 or Instant Gentleman. Both will give you a mature, competent, good provider vibe that many women (and I’m guessing your gf) find attractive.
A314 tends more towards high status/competent/a bit intimidating.
Instant Gentleman tends more towards in control/gracious/caretaking.
If you can’t get both you can consider both your personalities and take a guess from what I’ve written above. I think either will be effective though. Whichever you get, you should start with small doses of either one drop or 1 spray. Don’t go above that dose until you have several days of testing at the lowest dose.
Some time after starting with a Androsterone product (after at least 4 or 5 seperate exposures to the rone on different occassions) you may want to try a SMALL dose of a Androstenone product like ammo or Turn Up The Heat. If you do this before she starts feeling that you’re good partner material it is likely to backfire on you though. Maybe I shouldn’t even say this. Forget you read it if you’re tempted to ignore the time or dose advice.
Ahh, totally overlooked “the friend” zone. I’ve kept a few guys in the “friend zone” myself (although they seemed to think otherwise) and I have absolutely no intention of going anywhere more with them. Try IH with other pheromones, then.
And how could i forget Instant Gentleman..
You can try Instant Female Magic too i guess, though I cannot predict what effect it will bring to the situation we have here.
I am looking at this from 2 approuches, Whoops Welcome to the forum Imne. 
First establish what the reason is she is unwilling to become intimate. If its just because she dosnt want to then you gonna have to respect that decision. Course that dosnt mean you cant arouse her a little and see if prehaps it dosnt change her mind.
Get some ammo for that, TUTH would be to strong and overwhelming.
Now you said sometimes you almost get there but she stops it and seems nervous and uncertain. Number one its your job as a guy to make her feel comfortable. Again finding out why she is unwilling will tell you what is making her uncomfortable. IFM can help with that as well because it causes comfort and can help ease women into a situation. Yes I know most guys where it to solve bitchy women syndrome but it also subtly causes comfort and a feeling of safety.
I am not ruling out IH by any means. This is what you will want to wear to help you get to the core of the matter. It induces deep intimate conversation and will help her feel comfortable telling you exactly why she holds back.
Again if you find out she is just not ready to go there then you have to respect that decision and decide if your willing to wait.
Tisha
This suggests to me that she may very likely be a virgin, and she is waiting for THE RIGHT ONE! before giving up something that she can never get back again!
Since you have only dated for about 2 months, I can almost promise that she does not love you, YET! Women in general tend to take longer to fall in love than men. I recall reading that 6 months is somewhat of a minimum before women really start feeling they are in love.
If she is a virgin, either due to religious or moral beliefs, then you are probably going to have to wait awhile. And if you are serious about this girl, believe that you love her and are willing to wait, then you very well may have found that special someone and the wait could be well worth it.
I could also be completely wrong and there could be something else holding her back. But I suspect not.
Remember, men and women view sex differently. To us sex is simply a physical act, which may or may not be accompanied with emotional intimacy. To women sex is often more about emotional intimacy than the physical act itself.
If your girl is in fact a virgin and you see a real future with her, then waiting until she’s ready, to insure long term happiness is a small price to pay.
If on the other hand, she is just temporary, and you can’t see yourself still being with her in a year or two, then pressuring her will either cause her to leave, or possible cave and give in, but could devastate her emotionally when you decide to move on.
There are a lot of fish in the sea, if you believe you’ve found the right one, then I wish you all the best and a world of happiness. If she’s just a catch for the sport of it though, then I’d probably encourage you to toss her back and catch another.
Mark has given an excellent advice there..
While you are trying to earn her respect, you should also find ways to respect her similarly. Beyond just getting her to ease up with you, try to make sure that both of you doesn’t end up regretting the effect of your actions on each other. When we advice you to use pheromones to get her trust, we also advice you to keep that trust and respect, don’t make it disappear overnight!
I would say good luck again!
Hello and welcome to the forum.
A new girl in your life huh? I understand as I too have been there quite a bit recently.
I’m going to suggest a couple of things here. Try some IFM for one. It will make her feel comfortable being close to you. As if it’s OK to put her head on your shoulder.
Ishine to make her feel happy around you, like you are the reason of everything shiny in the world.
Then of course there is Ammo. It will give you the confident male vibe that she will come to love and see as a potential mate. It has -none in it so it won’t put you in the friend zone.
Anyway to help you get started I am issuing a gift certificate to your email here in a little while.
Thankyou everyone for your advice!