I’m new to this, got the idea (who could believe it?) in Oceans Thirteen…
I’m not the guy who goes out often, specially if I’m alone without some
friends I don’t go into clubs where girls are. I’m not that sure about myself
to “make the first move” with unknown girls, lets say I’m shy.
With what should I start my personal pheromone-test? Is there any good
advice for a noob like me? I don’t wait for wonders, so there is no stuff
to make a potentional girl horny from the start, I’m sure. But just getting into some talk with a girl, getting her attention and interest would be pretty nice, it lags the reallity a bit.
Where do I buy the stuff ideally? Any hints for somebody living in Germany? I’m sure Amazon (if they sell it) do only sell crap, huh?
The only thing (beside the reading here in the discussions) I found yet was “Icebreaker”. Dunno if it works, though.
And how you do use it? Just a few sprays on the neck, hair maybe the wrists or the cloathing just before you go into a bar with a good number
of potentional girls? Or does it even work lets say if you visit a “good friend” who never would think anything sexual about you? Thats my prob atm here. Fallen in love with a girl but she doesn’t seem to want to have anything more than “just being good friends” yet. But somehow I feel it
wouldn’t be only for my own good if she would atleast let some cuddling happen.
i kind of waited to see if any of the guys were going to jump in here but then realized you asked your question with i think only 26 members online
usually there is more like 100…
anyhoo, i would do some reading in the men’s forum.
some will tell you to try Ammo, alot of women like it and its both attractive and social.
if you go to the top of the page, you will find a link to the smartmones store.
thats where you are going to find anything and everything you will want to try.
its what we are talking about in the forum, for the most part.
you can also try instant honesty (one of my faves next to Ammo)
it encourages conversation and creates a kind of “tightness” between people, as if they have known eachother for some time.
id give it another hour and you will get some good answers here
Wow…ok man. It seems as though you have a few issues here if I am reading your post correctly. Let me see if I have these correctly put…(and by the way in NO WAY WHATSOEVER am I trying to be deragotory or snide towards you…merely trying to diagnose the situation and help you find a viable solution to help your results.)
1)You are shy and don’t like or maybe even know how to make the first move on girls you don’t know.
You are already in the “friend zone” and don’t know how to get out of it, and you are love-stricken by this girl.
You don’t know how to apply the pheromones that you buy…and as Lor stated ther is a link just above the red scrolling threads above to the right that says SmartMones Pheromone Store, which is where you will find a plethera of great products and friendly service.
OK…My suggestion:
You are in the right place and are not alone at all with the debacle you are in… Many guys have serious “approach anxiety” that rules and governs their mind when they around women that are “out of their league” in their minds. I am sorry to say that there is no way around approaching women…If there was a tractor beam manufactured in this galaxy to be able to “use the force” and pull women to us, one guy would create it and it would cost at least 10 million per replication. Although there are some pheros that can help, which are once again sold at the Androtics store. All-in-all you are gonna have to learn to approach women…plain cold honest fact.
The friend-zone is another tough situation that tends to complicate the issue, as once you are in it, it is tough to get out of it. However, you can get out of it. This needs a bit more explanation and to get it, I have a few questions that need to be answered:
a) How old is the girl
b) How long have you known her, and how long have you felt like you all were just friends?
c) Do you follow her around like a puppy dog or call her all the time or anything of the like?
d) Why do you feel as though there isn’t any possible passion that could be aroused?
e) Give me a general synopsis of the girl.
Ok…Lor and I have stated where the store is. Right next to the SmartMones in BLUE you will find the Search function that will become your best friend when it comes to getting answers, advice, solutions and help with anything. There are also several stickies at the top of the Men’s section with excellent advice for pheromones and behaviors, i.e. seduction and what pheromones can and cannot do.
So, at the ripe old age of 29, which you are and I am soon to be, here are a few suggestions to work with.
Stick to Insant line Pheromones in the store…They are tried and proven and should give you well balanced results.
Here is a small list for possible solutions.
A314 - Respect/ Alpha Vibe
Oppenness - Exactly as it sounds…get her talking
Honesty - You want the truth…here it is in a bottle. But be sure you want the truth first
Turn Up The Heat - Sexual…but if she isn’t use to that vibe from you stay away from that at the moment and use this one…
Ammunition - Easier transition from friend zone to more sexual zone.
Shine - Exactly as it sounds…makes you feel great and she sees that in you.
Now that’s just some food for thought. Do some searching with the search feature and let’s her the answer to those questions. We will get you a gameplan and have this cased solved in no time flat.
Yup, sounds like just using it would help with that (just for the self-confidence, not just the reaction to it)
a) 24
b) I know her now for 2 1/2 years, feeling “stuck” in the friend-zone
since ~4 months.
c) not that much, I try to see her once a week, but mostly even that is impossible (because my and her work-time)
d) tried already to give her a back-massage or something “more physical”, but she didn’t seem to like it, like I’m going to fast…
e) hm as I said, she is 24, has not that much friends (like myself), is more
the Manga/Anime/Gothic girlie, not so much the “mature lady”.
Yes, thanks. Will do some more investigation tomorrow. Its already late (or better early) here
Seems like a good idea. But I’m confused about the bottlesizes.
I would like to “try” some first before buying the ~40$ bottles, saving money… Is there a special sample-kit or can I order the “to go”-sized ones? How many sprays are in them? I don’t see a volume in the review.
Ahhh, thanks!
Yeah, of course. But its a nice start to understand how each sort works.
Seems like a good idea. But I’m confused about the bottlesizes.
I would like to “try” some first before buying the ~40$ bottles, saving money… Is there a special sample-kit or can I order the “to go”-sized ones? How many sprays are in them? I don’t see a volume in the review.
I read the last days trough the forum, haven’t had any possibility to
try my pheros yet… at work aren’t that interesting girls… only +40 years… its not that I wouldn’t mind “older” ones… but being 27 I’m still in search for
somebody younger than 40.
Here is what I got:
Instant Honesty Instant Gentleman
Instant Shine
Instant Openness
Ammunition
Turn up the Heat
Spaceland
I got already the advice to use one at a time only to know
how each one works, and I think I will do that with that one
special girl, too. But because she hasn’t time for me I will
try it today in the city for some coffees just with a mix.
As far as I read about it 1x IS, 1x IO, 1x Ammo should be a
good start, or? I can put the TUTH in the jacket just in case
the situation in the bar gets more interesting.
