I'm New and Looking For Suggestions:)

Hello everyone. I just registered today. I need some advices/suggestions, and here is my situation. I’m 20 and already have a girlfriend for a little longer than two years. She is quite conservative, so we haven’t moved anywhere further than just fooling around. I’m okay with waiting, since that is her choice. It’s just that she doesn’t actively wanna hang out at home, which is where we usually get very sexually intimate with each other.

She is normally not very active in that aspect, but when she’s there it’s like I’m with a very different person. That pleases me a lot. I have been wanting to repay her kindly, but the opportunity hasn’t presented itself yet. What can I do to get her more into that?

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Hey there Ray and welcome to the forums! You may wanna post this in the Introduction section, where alot of experienced users hang out to help the newbies with what the best ideas for their situations might be. :wink: And don’t worry, a moderator will blend these two threads together if you make a new one.

That being said, lemme see what i can do here. There are a couple paths you could take here and to be honest i’m not sure which i would use, so i’ll describe them all and let you choose.

The four products that spring to mind for me that might help your situation would be Ammo, Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, and Instant Female Magic. And here’s why:

Ammo is a -none based product (which means sexual) that is well-buffered with social pheromones so that you don’t OD on it and scare the girl away. It also comes with a pre-mixed cologne scent, which is good, because -none smells like BO. There’s another -none product called Turn Up The Heat, but that is unbuffered and can be alot harder to use for new users, so i’d stick with the Ammo.

Instant Shine gives off a “healthy glow” to the people around you and has the self-effect of boosting your confidence a bit for most people. Good to be worn anywhere and makes you seem healthy and glowing, always good when trying to impress your girl. :wink:

Instant Honesty does what it says… it helps create deep conversations and lets people express what they’re really thinking. An excellent product for getting her to talk about why she’s not in the mood more often, if you wanted, but BEWARE! It has the EXACT SAME EFFECT on you! So spray it on your wrists, away from your nose, to minimize this. Or else you may blurt out something you didn’t want to as well. :open_mouth:

Finally, Instant Female Magic helps women relax and feel more cuddly and safe… not by itself a very sexual product, but it makes them want to stick close to you, which is where the Ammo will add the sexual tension.

So, that’s my two cents. Definately Ammo, and after that it’s up to you which social pheromones you think would work best for you.

HI there,

Welcome to the forum.

You have been sexually intimate with her. I guess you can save on the none product.

I agree with the suggestion of IH. It can make her closer to you. She will talk personal and very honest with you. Good for relationship.

Try IFM as well. It is one of my favourite phero. It can make her calm, confortable beside you. This can increase the intimacy of a relationship.

Good luck to you

Thank you for taking the time to help me out here, guys. Forgive for being a newbie and not post in the introduction forum. I think I’ll try out Ammo and Instant Female Magic for now. Hopefully these will help me fire up and improve my relationship with my girlfriend. Where are some good places to get these products? I figured I could google it, but then again it’s always better to ask the more experienced folks.

Hi Ray, welcome to the forum.

What about turn up the heat if you want to get her more interested in getting physical? Perhaps the guys could comment on that choice. It is supposed to be the deal-closer, right?

Ray, do you think she is avoiding the opportunities because she feels guilty about the fooling around? If so the pheromones might not help. But if she works hard and is stressed (which definitely cuts into the female libido) the instant female magic might really help.

xev

The products we’ve been mentioning are from Androtics, which can be bought from the Smartmones store (there a link at the top right of this page to the store). That’s the only place that sells them right now, although theres a rumor that Ammo may become a commercial product in department stores in the semi-near future.

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Good luck

Nah I dont think she feels guilty about fooling around. She is just shy when it comes to that kind of stuff. She also gets mad if I keep talking about it because that makes her think It’s all I want from her. She does work hard and is often busy. That is the main reason why we don’t get physically intimate often, because she can get enthusiastic and crazy while we’re in the act.

Hello Ray, Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

Ammo and IFM are good choices to start with.

IFM is calming and comforting, Increases affection and helps women get past things that make them uncomfortable or nervous. It sounds like she has a little sexual anxiety but once she gets past that she is fine. How old is she ?

AMMO is sexy and mildly arousing. While TUTH is more blatantly sexual it may come on to strong for her. Which is why I asked her age above.

If you have any questions just ask. Your $25 Gift certificate is on its way. :smiley:

Tisha

She’s 20 years old as well.

The products arrived yesterday. I couldn’t get bottle of Instant Female Magic because it was out of stock. I did get Turn Up the Heat and Instant Honesty though. Instant Openess also came with those. I guess that was a free gift, in which case, sweet!

Today before I went to school I put on one spray of Turn Up the Heat on my actual shoulder and not my shirt, two sprays of Instant Honesty on the same location, and one spray of Instant Openess on my hair. Turn Up the Heat didn’t seem to have any effect today, maybe because it is the time of the month for my girlfriend. Today is just my experimenting day to see what’s up. Nothing happened, even though I did try to get her exposed to it by hugging her. Her head was leaning on the shoulder with the pheros on it.

Anyway, I went to work later on, and my co-worker who I usually chat with often seemed to have been affected by Instant Honesty, though. She seemed somewhat more talkative toward me today. We were exchanging ideas about ways to spend to romantic times with a loved one, and she was really at it. She’s only playful usually, but today it turns out that we like many similiar things. One thing that seemed interesting to me was that while talking she actually said these things “I need to date you” or “You’re like one in a million, a gem” or “We need to get married already.” She does have a boyfriend, and he was in the vicinity when she said that last thing. I have no intention to be dating her though, 'cause her boyfriend and I know each other. He too is my co-worker. She might have been kidding around, who knows. It’s just something I found interesting that I wanna share with folks here.

Thats cause TUTH is best used in a relaxed sexual atmosphere. School is not where you should use it because she will mask her feelings more there. Plus it takes a few trys with those closet to us because they have preconceived notions. Once she starts processing these new emotions she will react.

Is your job a more relaxed atmosphere then school ? Could be why she reacted this way. I would say those were hits. :wink:

Tisha

^ I work in a fitness center, and the atmosphere is definitely more relaxed. That might be the reason why the hit was more noticable. On the other hand, today I put on Instant Honesty, and my gf was still on her period. I said something stupid, and she got pissed and chewed me good. I guess IH makes people speak their mind, eh.