Hey there Ray and welcome to the forums! You may wanna post this in the Introduction section, where alot of experienced users hang out to help the newbies with what the best ideas for their situations might be.
And don’t worry, a moderator will blend these two threads together if you make a new one.
That being said, lemme see what i can do here. There are a couple paths you could take here and to be honest i’m not sure which i would use, so i’ll describe them all and let you choose.
The four products that spring to mind for me that might help your situation would be Ammo, Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, and Instant Female Magic. And here’s why:
Ammo is a -none based product (which means sexual) that is well-buffered with social pheromones so that you don’t OD on it and scare the girl away. It also comes with a pre-mixed cologne scent, which is good, because -none smells like BO. There’s another -none product called Turn Up The Heat, but that is unbuffered and can be alot harder to use for new users, so i’d stick with the Ammo.
Instant Shine gives off a “healthy glow” to the people around you and has the self-effect of boosting your confidence a bit for most people. Good to be worn anywhere and makes you seem healthy and glowing, always good when trying to impress your girl. 
Instant Honesty does what it says… it helps create deep conversations and lets people express what they’re really thinking. An excellent product for getting her to talk about why she’s not in the mood more often, if you wanted, but BEWARE! It has the EXACT SAME EFFECT on you! So spray it on your wrists, away from your nose, to minimize this. Or else you may blurt out something you didn’t want to as well. 
Finally, Instant Female Magic helps women relax and feel more cuddly and safe… not by itself a very sexual product, but it makes them want to stick close to you, which is where the Ammo will add the sexual tension.
So, that’s my two cents. Definately Ammo, and after that it’s up to you which social pheromones you think would work best for you.