I am new to this and made my first purchase a few days ago. I got Instant openness, Turn Up The Heat and got Ammo as a gift.I am 20 and the reason I am trying this is to have better communication with my ex girlfriend because I rarely see her and lately when we go out she has been very cold and won’t talk as much. Even before when we were together 2 years she never really opened up to me and I believe one of the factors was her shyness and that she is very mysterious and hard to get her to trust anyone or open up. Well I might see her again soon and would like to know what are the best pheromone mixtures and products so that she can open up to me in a better mood and maybe we can reconcile. By the way she is 19 and I actually suspect she is using pheromones because the last couple of times I saw her she smelled so good I couldn’t stop myself from hugging her even though she wasn’t in the mood. What would be best selection and mix to get a deeper connection with her and for us to get closer like before instead of there being so much tension.
Instant Honesty should be one of your choices.
You want her to have more of a bonding feeling with her.
Instant Openess and Instant Honesty together are good but you’ll want to test out the number of sprays work best for you.
That’s great you got ammo as a gift. Definitely use that in addition to the IH and IO. IH if you get it.
I’d hold off using TUTH around her for a while. That can help create tension that you may not want and may confuse her.
How long were you together?
Hi Gustavo and welcome to the forum!
As to the pheromones, I’d suggest you try on IO and AMMO before you meet up with her, to find out what is a good ‘sweet spot’ for you. You can check out my sig below on what Steve suggests for finding a sweet spot. I say this because I don’t want you to just spray willy nilly before meeting up with your girl and NOT know what to expect from the mones. You want her to see you in a new light, open up to you.
Think about the things that she has told you, her likes and her goals. Is there a way you can help her get to her goals? Can you be a support for her? If she feels you are reaching out to her because you’ve meditated on how to make her life better, she will respond by opening up to you. Maybe not immediately, but you’ve incorporated that thought in how she views you so it can take root and she can open up to you. Of course, the IO will help, but you gotta show her that you are listening to her on the things she has opened up to you already.
TUTH should be used only when you think the convo and time together will lead up to scoring. You can’t force it on her with the mones.
Talk to her, really and show that you are interested in her well being and she will reciprocate!
Good luck and hope it works out for you!
From 2005 to 2007 and on and off 2008 to 2009 she has changed a lot.
Well, by a quick calculation, she’s was around 15 or 16 when you two started going out.
But, at 19 this girl is becoming a woman. You got to keep in mind both of you are growing up and will have all sorts of mental and emotional changes. Your likes and dislikes will change. Does she see you as a man that she can confide in? Do you project a reliable companionship and show her that you see her on equal footing? What kind of personality or attitude are you known for?
hoplessly mentioned some additional mones like IH and I would second that mone as well. I would add that IG will give off a cool and man in control vibe that could be just what the doctor ordered, not only for effects on her but you as well!
Affairs of the heart are always difficult to trek, but once you arrive and connect, happiness will be uncovered!
Yes we were both around 15 and 16 when we were together. I will try out and add IH to get a deeper conversation and IG to the ammo and put TUTH away. I was also recommended Instant Shine so I will try that one also. I do treat her very well and always tell her she can count on me but she is very closed and it seems to me that she is confused. I am worried because last time I saw her at 3am she admitted that she like’s a 35 year old man after we kissed and that she’s been talking to him for a year and that was a reason she saw me in a different way yet that same night before the confession when we kissed she suddenly began to cry and would not tell me what the reason was (I Had not seen her cry in years). I tend to be a very positive person but everytime I see her I feel in a way tense because the last few times Ive seen her she is closed like I mentioned.
Instant Honesty will definitely help her to feel more comfortable with you and trust you more. IH will also help strengthen the emotional bond between you.
Instant Shine would be good as well, as it will lighten the mood and make a more cheerful atmosphere when you are together.
I read somewhere that Instant opennesse has 70% alpha androstenol and 30% beta androstenol and that Instant Honesty has the reverse ratio which is why people can bond more with you if you use Instant Honesty because it stimulates a deeper sense of trust and can make people feel safe around you as opposed to just light hearted talk that Instant Opennesse gives. Where do you get this type of information like the amounts and different pheromones that are used to make a certain pheromone spray? What does ammo consist of and why is it so good to mix it with IH, IS, and IG?
Ammo contains equal amounts androstenone (sexual molecule), androsterone (status raising molecule), and alpha androstenol. It works well with those and many other products simply because it’s very well-balanced and the pheromones it contains interacts with the pheromones contained in those products well.
Hello
I am new to this forum and pheromones and I currently have Instant Openness, TUTH and got Ammunition as a gift. I ordered these to test and next I am getting Instant Honesty and Instant Shine recommended by Tisha to get my ex girlfriend comfortable with me again. I am 20 years old and live in Chicago. I am college student and work part time. Hope I can get advice and tips on how to get the best out of the pheromones I ordered and have.
Try Ammo by itself first. Then test the others on their own before you start with combos.
Good luck!
I would use 2x ammo + 2xIS + 3x IH with your ex-gf. I would try to leave out when meeting girls for the first time.
When she is feeling a bit more comfortable throw in some TUTH!
welcome. Yes, io contain more anol, which is useful when meeting peopel for the first time. If you search the forum or men’s section you will get all those information. Have fun and enjoy
Welcome to Pherotalk Gustavo!
My team gave you some really good advice. When persons have walls sometimes it means that they themselves can’t be trusted or they just need someone to show them what trust is all about and that takes patience.
Good luck and keep us updated.
Your gc was issued. ![]()
she definitely sounds confused about what she wants.
That’s a huge age gap between her and this other guy.
You should definitely add IG as mentioned by Gustav. That will definitely give you a more mature vibe. Maybe that’s what she is looking for.
IG has androsterone which older men produce naturally more easily.
Younger males produce more none naturally and that declines with age. That’s connected to a male’s testosterone level.
You mentioned that you feel tense around her. This doesn’t help if your body language is communicating tenseness. She will pick up on that very quickly. Definitely read up on body language and see what you can improve there.
Thanks for the advice but I guess I won’t be seeing my ex for a while. Today the fifth year from our first kiss that we promised to never forget I sent her a text asking how she was doing and she wrote what do you want and I responded just to know how your doing and she responded leave me alone. A few hours later I sent another text saying I can’t believe you forgot our anniversary and she responded leave me alone and I sent another message instead of stopping and told her that I was here for her if she ever needed and she said to forget her and I told her that I loved her and she responded f#ck you so I replied I don’t deserve this and that was that. So for now I’ll just have to leave her alone and let her think things through for a while. I will post any positive results from pheromones.
I would be another to go with the IH/IO/IS idea first, to encourage bonding and good feeling.
Then introduce the more sexual mones as things heat-up. ![]()