Hello everyone!
My name is Daniel, I’m 25, gay, from Netherlands.
I’m very friendly, quiet and peaceful. I’m also easy going, sociable, and a very good listener.
I’m only open about my sexuality to family and close friends, but not in public or at work due to work related concerns.
I am interested in masculine men and I believe every person is beautiful and attractive in their own way. I’ve been single for almost a year, and I don’t date much. I’m not on any dating website or application either. When it comes to meeting new guys I believe in coincidence and human interaction.
Well I think I’m reasonably good looking in a way! kinda fit but more of a natural look. Always get compliments from people around me and some playful looks from girls in bars & parties. But mostly from GIRLS!! and sometimes from younger boys! the compliments i get from guys are non-flirty, like buddy-to-buddy kinda compliments.
I have no experience with pheromones, but I am really hoping for something that would help make other guys notice me sexually and become more lustfully initiative!
So I hope you guys can help me out, has any of you tried pheromones that would heat up lust and sexual attraction between men??
Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and recommendations.
I am not an expert of the gay aspect, being straight, but you will find members on this forum who are knowledgeable on theses matters. For example, hankbuddy has started a great journal about his experience. I know there is a product called Mystery Boy oriented for gay male that you might want to try. You might want to try Instant Openness to try and melt the barriers that seem to exist with some guys you know that have gay interests. You can get a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy.
Welcome to the forum Daniel-R,
Unfortunately I cannot assist as much as you may need here, but I can offer that there are a few gay gentleman within the forum that may be able to swap advise and Pheromone ideas with you. The general pheromones that would help you get people talking to you and opening up are going to be Instant Openness and Intant Honesty though. If you want to sort of dazzle them Instant Shine may get their attention…but I admit I’m a bit out of my depth. The links below may help you.
Mind you, pheromones work slightly different with everyone and you may get different results, so please do take all comments with a grain of salt or a smidge of skepticism.
Mobocaster made a good set of recommendations for a gentleman your age as well.
This last post below provides a little information on Mystery Boy a product designed for the gay gentleman
Suggestions for things to try and some to limit use of are in Jamesatly’s post.
Welcome to the forum and hope to learn from your posts as well.
I don’t have much experience with the gay side either. Everyone else gave you great advice. What I can add is to make sure and look up app points and diffusion. You need body heat to make these things work right. Good luck and I hope you place an order and start a journal as we need more people in the gay community to see what works.
I’m a middle aged gay man in the US. I started using pheromones just recently for both social and business purposes. Your self description seems to be how I would have described myself, so I can at least tell you what has worked for me.
Instant Gentleman might do you a lot of good. In the times I’ve used it, I have gotten the attention of masculine gay and bi men. Instant Openness and Instant Shine are also very good to invite people to talk to you. These three products in any combination will open the doors for you in appropriate social situations. However, make sure to test them individually to find the appropriate dosage for you.
I haven’t used Mystery Boy yet. My dancing and clubbing days are over. I mostly meet guys at gay social functions where feedback is somewhat immediate. At other types of social events, I have to follow up to assess how guys really felt. (I’m not sure how it is in Netherlands, but in the US I have a hard time figuring out if someone is really interested in me or not when out in public. I have to wait until we are in private. If you follow up with the guys who gave you compliments, you might find that they were interested, but not confident enough to say so in a public setting.)
I’m still experimenting and will be posting my observations on my journal. You can join me there, and when you start using pheromones, make sure to write about your experience. We could use more gay men on this forum.
Anyway, glad you’re here on the forums! Everyone here is extremely helpful.
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