I’m a 30 year old male living in Colorado. I’ve been married for 10 years and I’m looking to keep the flame going. My wife and I have drifted apart to some extent (not to the point where we’re having major problems, just not as close as before), so I want to get that closeness back.
I’ve just received togos of Instant Honesty, Instant female magic, and Turn Up the Heat. My wife has relatively low self esteem, and has closed up quite a bit since we first met. I’m hoping the IFM and IH help make her a little more open and comfortable around me, and I think my intent for the TUTH is fairly obvious.
Anyway, I’ve been a long time phero skeptic, so I’m really looking forward to putting them through their paces.
I think you’re on the right track with the diversity of to-go sized products. One advice that you will hear a lot on these forums is consistency and patience. So, take your time experimenting with each product, rather than jumping all over the place and mixing them. There will be time for that after you are properly acquainted with the effects of each product.
I find IFM great for creating a bonding/calming atmosphere. Nothing overtly sexual - just a feel-good, cuddly kind of mood.
TUTH and its equivalents create a much more sexually charged environment, but it has to be congruent with the rest of the setting.
IH is more universal that the other two, but you gotta keep track of where the conversation is going and steer it, if needs be. Also, be aware of self-effects
Thanks nnn, I’ll be sure to gain some experience with each product on it’s own before attempting any combinations. After all, it’s nice to know what does what with my specific circumstances.
Excellent product choices, I think you’ll find instant honesty to be effective and possibly the best choice you’ve made. I’d suggest wearing instant honesty around her for several hours for that increased feeling of connection and bonding, then apply light Turn up the heat. Women want to feel connected and loved, after that the rest comes naturally.
Are you planning to share pheromones with her? A to go of instant sexiness just might do her a world of good making her feel more confident and sexy. If not I understand, just a suggestion.
inkling, thanks for the Instant Sexiness recommendation. Sharing this with her has been something I wrestled with briefly, and I decided that I will. However, I’d like to illicit some positive results beforehand if possible. Much easier to sell her something she’s already bought.
I see that you’ve got some personal experience with Instant Sexiness. Care to share your insight on this product?
The self affect for me just feels good, it’s like spraying on a good hair day, I feel more confident and attractive which is positively reinforced by my husbands behavior and response. (He doesn’t know)
Another womens product that is just fantastic for feeling great is mx135, a quick search of the womens forum will give you many examples. Mx135 immediately has me looking at the world with a more positive outlook and makes me feel more feminine. My husband also reacts very well to this one.
Alot of people started using mones to spice up there relationships. You made some good choices.
Like nnn suggested take you time so that both of you can adjust to them.
I think its great that you want to share this experience with your wife. I am easing my husband into it. He dosnt like to wear scents but he is coming around. Instant sexiness would be great for her as well as Ishine. In fact you both could use the Ishine because its unisex. Ishine is a upbeat happy youthful mix. I know when I wear it around my hubby he really responds well and it reminds me of how he acted when we first started dating.
For your situation, I would recomment IH and TUTH. IH will increase the intimacy and make her comfortable and more talkative beside you. This will help in re-building the bond between both of you.
TUTH is to spice up our sex life with her. It can sexually arouse her. Hopefully the frequency of sexual activity will increase.
Instant Shine, as mentioned by tisha, is good to lift the mood. Both of you will have good mood and I think this is also very important in relationships.
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