I’m madison a first time user, and I am trying to find something to help me seem more social/approachable/feminine/confident I am very shy and have been told I intimidate men by a few different people. Anyone have any suggestions? I am thinking of trying alpha androstenol, instant sexiness b and lust after me oh and the instant shine one. I am just having a hard time because I am not rich and most of those don’t come in sample/travel size. Thanks! Madison I also wanted to add with the intimidate men thing that It confused me when my girlfriends started telling me I intimidated men because I always thought of myself as the shy girl in the corner that wasn’t intimidating at all but after I had several different people tell me the same thing I started to think maybe it was true. I get told I’m cute all the time. not sexy, but cute 
Cute is good but I want to be thought of as more of a sexy confident woman instead of cute i’m not 9! I hope that makes sense!
Hello Madison! Welcome to this forum!
That is a lot of goals you are trying to achieve, but dont worry they are all very possible, and even easy if you put some effort into it at the same time too 
Io will be the best for apprpachability, like you said, it is mostly alpha androstenol! And instant sexiness will indeed help with confidence and femine! Ishine would be great for social so it looks like you got everything to start 
To go bottles are great to start too! Since they dont cost too much! Good luck!
Thank you for your response. I noticed the inst sexi b only come in full bottle and the smaller version is just instant sexiness with no b what is the different effect?
Hi madison
Nice to have you here in Pherotalk 
Well you are looking for some pheros to make you more social/approachable/feminine/confident, then i can recommend Instant Openness, Instant Sexiness A or B & Instant Shine. These pheros are highly recommended by the ladies here too
But i suggest that you wait for Lady Tisha AKA Tisha23 to visit your intro as she can tell you more on the pheros especially Instant sexiness
Hi! I’m new to the pheremone scene!
HI everybody,
I hope to learn a lot here and want to know what is the best pheromone to try when you first start off?
Hey Madison,
If you go with Instant Openness instead of the Experimone alpha androstenol you can go TOGO… I believe Instant Openness is a better product for a starter outer anyways!
Instant Sexiness B is supposed to make you seem more cuddly - It’s not liekly I will ever really know how this one works 
Instant Shine is AWESOME! makes you feel great, makes people around you feel great - all around great product AND i believe it comes in a togo to try out as well.
I would definetly go with TOGO’s of Instant Openness and Instant Shine to start off - You should be able to see definite results with those products.
EDIT:
The difference between Instant Sexiness A (which comes in a TOGO) and Instant Sexiness B (which doesnt) is that A gives you an alpha female feel - think Angelina Jolie. Instant Sexiness B gives you a cuddly feel - Considering you feel like you already intimidate men… maybe IS/b will take the edge off?
Good deal thanks I recently purchased some self-help books to help me out too. I am excited to try these out when I decide and see what happens
It might help if you make yours a separate thread but the answer to which pheromone product is best really depends on what you want to do.
If it is to gain attraction or help spark romance then Instant Sexiness a or b depending on your personality (and possibly the personality of the guy you have in mind if there is one).
If it is for work, then Instant sexiness a maybe. Ask Tisha or one of the ladies …
For social: IO, IH or Instant Shine. These can also help in the work or romance realm also.
If you igve us a better idea about yourself and what you want to accomplish we can be more help …
Well I think I definitly want to try instant openess,shine, and lust after me but I am definitly confused on if I should try instant sexiness a or b hmmm…I dunno! Gonna pm tisha!
wow tisha is reallly good!
Madison, it’s my opinion that a girl who wants to be more feminine already is very feminine. Follow?
Also, I used to date someone like you. She was a bit shy, didn’t have a lot of self-confidence (even though she should have), and seemed unapproachable. I think we gravitated towards each other because we had the same problem: I’m like that too. People who don’t know me think I’m an asshole because I don’t smile a lot & I “seem distant”.
So listen, in my opinion the only way to solve your problem is don’t try to solve it at all. It’ll work itself out. The mere fact that you don’t want to be the way you’re perceived means you’ll change in time. Don’t force it…
Hi Madison
Welcome to Pherotalk , I forgot to tell you that before LOL Thank you for the compliment.
Well I already gave you my recommendations so I can skip that but there is a few things I want to add.
You mention your cute but want to be seen as a sexy women. This is another reason why I suggest IS/A and not B. B is cute, you have enough cute and we are going for smokin hot
Like I said I really dont think your intimidating I think your refined and quiet and that is what is intimidating. Its not the same as a Alpha intimidation. Instant Openness and Instant Shine will help that. It projects warm fun friendly great to talk to.
If you need anything else feel free to PM me and I will get back to you asap.
Your GC will be on its way to your email box shortly
Tisha
No I dont get it explain
Yay my gc : ) ! I think you are right about the kind of intimidation I feel like I have learned a lot about myself and figured out some things today…Never thought my mones search would end up that way, but very glad it did! Thanks!
Who are you, in your heart? That’s who you really are. Stripped of all superficiality & fronts we all have that core person inside us who we’re working for &/or hide. Madison sounds like she has an exterior & interior persona that are both very different. But I think that when she lays down at night she knows who she really is. And in time the person she is inside will emerge if Madison wants that.
I knew a girl who rarely washed her hair, didn’t put on deodorant, dressed like a bum, her favorite flower was a THISTLE, swore all the time & spits. But she told me that not washing her hair made it shinier, thinks a woman should be natural but does like scents, that she didn’t know how to dress but liked pretty colors, & thistles are quite colorful. All without swearing or spitting . THAT was very feminine to me.
The point is that on the surface she was a bit boarish, but she WANTED to be just a pretty girl. And to me, those inner things meant she was very pretty.
I don’t know, does that help?