Hey everyone,
nice to meet you! This is a great website, I already found answers to many of my questions while browsing.
I’m almost 21 and live in San Francisco, CA. I’m originally from Brazil, but I’m in the U.S. studying Animation, this is my third semester towards my BFA. Drawing is my greatest passion!
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The first time I heard about pheromones was when I was about 15, and my mom came to me and said, in one of those mom-daughter conversations, “Did you know that some people exhale a certain type of scent that makes them more attractive than others?”
I’ve never forgotten that phrase, but at the same time, never got too much into its meaning. The thing is, my last boyfriend was when I was 16 years old. Ever since then, I haven’t been in any serious relationship, and this has seriously been annoying me. Seriously. Specially now that I’m turning 21, I started to ask ‘WHY’?? Is there something wrong with me? Why are men not looking at me the way they did before?
To be honest, I DO look pretty, dress well, always wear good make-up, am outgoing, I am nice to everyone and can be very seductive, in my girlish and sweet kind of way.
And I know there is some cultural issues in here, such as Brazilians being more ‘free’ in this relationship thing (for example, for us, it is quite normal to kiss different people in one night, although that’s more a teenager’s thing), while American guys tend to be more shy…
At least, that’s the experience I’ve had so far: I can’t have any guys in here to look at me! ![]()
Well, anyway, after this brief introduction, you can see what brought me here. I am desperate for answers… answers about attracting men, sparkling a relationship (turning a friend into boyfriend!), be more seductive, have men look at me and maybe finally discovering the meaning of that ‘magic scent’ my mom once talked about..
Thanks for reading, everyone! I am always open to any concerns and suggestions.
(BTW, I have been using mini-pills since I was 16.. don’t know if that is any coincidence with ‘suddenly becoming unattractive’).
Please, I am desperate…