Hello everyone!

Hey everyone,

nice to meet you! This is a great website, I already found answers to many of my questions while browsing.
I’m almost 21 and live in San Francisco, CA. I’m originally from Brazil, but I’m in the U.S. studying Animation, this is my third semester towards my BFA. Drawing is my greatest passion!
:smiley:

The first time I heard about pheromones was when I was about 15, and my mom came to me and said, in one of those mom-daughter conversations, “Did you know that some people exhale a certain type of scent that makes them more attractive than others?”

I’ve never forgotten that phrase, but at the same time, never got too much into its meaning. The thing is, my last boyfriend was when I was 16 years old. Ever since then, I haven’t been in any serious relationship, and this has seriously been annoying me. Seriously. Specially now that I’m turning 21, I started to ask ‘WHY’?? Is there something wrong with me? Why are men not looking at me the way they did before?

To be honest, I DO look pretty, dress well, always wear good make-up, am outgoing, I am nice to everyone and can be very seductive, in my girlish and sweet kind of way.
And I know there is some cultural issues in here, such as Brazilians being more ‘free’ in this relationship thing (for example, for us, it is quite normal to kiss different people in one night, although that’s more a teenager’s thing), while American guys tend to be more shy…
At least, that’s the experience I’ve had so far: I can’t have any guys in here to look at me! :frowning:

Well, anyway, after this brief introduction, you can see what brought me here. I am desperate for answers… answers about attracting men, sparkling a relationship (turning a friend into boyfriend!), be more seductive, have men look at me and maybe finally discovering the meaning of that ‘magic scent’ my mom once talked about..

Thanks for reading, everyone! I am always open to any concerns and suggestions.
(BTW, I have been using mini-pills since I was 16.. don’t know if that is any coincidence with ‘suddenly becoming unattractive’).

Please, I am desperate…

Hi PrityCat welcome to pherotalk :slight_smile:

animation must be an interesting course, i’v always had an interest in that area :smiley:

firstly, there is nothing wrong with yourself, only the way you look at yourself, there are many products here can help you achieve your goals, but you need to act the part too.

the women here will give you more advices on the specific products to choose, i just wanna mention Instant sexiness seem like a popular product here so you migght wanna look into that.

in the mean time have a look at peoples’ jounrnals, they are very interesting and inspiring, will also give you some ideas about what to choose regarding pheromones.

good luck :slight_smile:

Hello and welcome to the forum.

If you have been reading through here you know there are a lot of women here. Although I know the women’s products pretty well by now I usually leave the recommendations up to themas they have the real practical experience of using them.

In the meantime read through the stickies in the womens section - that will help you a lot understand what is available and what they can do for you.

Welcome again and I an sure one of the ladies will be by shortly to give you a proper welcome.

Hello PrityCat,

Great to have a female member on board so welcome :slight_smile: Hmm, interesting passion on animation, that’s good :smiley:

I agreed with my buddy K24 on what he have said there about yourself, seriously there is nothing wrong with yourself only just the way you look yourself.

Ok for your situation, i suggest you try Instant sexiness A or B as this is a hot favourite among the ladies & is highly recommended by the ladies here :slight_smile: If you wish to know more info about Instant Sexiness A or B, i’m sure that Lady Tisha AKA Tisha23 will be able to explain more there when she visit your intro :slight_smile:

Wish you all the best & see ya :slight_smile:

Thanks for the help, guys!
Instant sexiness? I’ve read a few things on other topics, sounds very interesting. :wink: Do you think that the use of pheromones will break the cold way I ‘think of myself’?

Yes, that’s true, I myself think that no guy would want me, I know I’m a little pessimist when it comes to relationships, but for me is so obvious, since I’ve been alone since I was 16…
I can be confident in so many many things (including knowledge for art, for example), but for me it is sooo bad when they ask: “so where’s your boyfriend?”, and I answer with that look on my face, “ahmmm… I don’t have a boyfriend..”
I see a lot of, let’s say, ugly woman hanging around with handsome guys and I ask myself, “why not me? WHY?”.
I know beauty is not everything, but I have a great personality too. I’m just broken-hearted :o

WELCOME! (im new as well!)

I wanted to basically agree with what the other replies said. I doubt you’re undesirable and it sounds like you have a really good head on your shoulders! I think the basic concept of “confidence” plays a large role in how others and even ourselves perceive us. I have yet to obtain my pheromone order otherwise I’d be able to post my experiences, but I DO FEEL that pheromones may not be an “overnight” miracle. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be confident enough to be able to swoon the sex of your choice. It seems that pheromones simply magnify or bring out all of your great qualities and makes them more noticeable to others.

welcome again!

Hello Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

Well you anwsered your own question. Your not unattractive but you have been on the minipill since you were 16. See your mom was half right except you dont exhale them you secreate them.

We do emit pheromones from our bodies that attract others and do all sorts of other things as well. In your case because of the minipill you are making less copulins for a girl your age. Copulins are vaginal secreations that signal attractive young fertile female and signal men that your a potential mate. When men are exposed ( and yes they can detect them in there subconsious without nose diving or anything ) there testestorone go’s up making them aroused interested and attracted to the source of the signal. Now dont be grossed out or anything. The copulins sold in a bottle are synthetic. They dont collect them from actual humans. That would be gross LOL.

I suggest you start with some Instant sexiness which has some cops in it.

They are out of the heavy copulins formula right now which is Lust After Me but if you dont want to wait for them to restock it then pop on over to Love scent (another pheromone company we use just for cops mostly) you can get a straight bottle of copulins called EOW (Essense of women) to use with your products here for when you want to give it a little kick. There is a post in the the stickies in the womens section on copulins.

Next I suggest since boys are shy around you something to make you more approachable. CTTM is great as well as Instant Openness.

If you have questions just ask.

Your GC is on its way :smiley:

Tisha

Trishia, nice to meet you! And thanks for the help of all of you guys, nice to meet everyone!

Thanks for these very interesting answers, wow I was amazed with all that information. I thought it was only a coincidence with the minipill.. Are you a biologist or gynecologist?

The thing is, I would never want to stop using the mini-pill.. I absolutely loove them, because menstruation IS my worst nightmare.. I’ve always had terrible cramps, just like my mom and grandma had when they were teens (that’s why my doctor recommended it to me..) and lost many many days in school and work because of it, not mentioning all annoyance, disgust and all.. I don’t mind what some people say that it’s not natural or something, but the fact is that it’s always worked for me, without any side-effects.. (well, except for now I discovered I’m not as attractive hehe :smiley:) Apart of being broken hearted, I’m always happy, in a good mood, I’m rarely sick or something.
(Just to mention: I use a minipill from Brazil that they don’t sell here, known as ‘desogestrel’.. apparently it is ‘stronger’ than American minipills, which btw I’ve also tried (Camille) and worked just as well)

Anyway, but how far adding copulins will work for me? Will it mess up with the hormones of the minipill? And I mean, let’s say, right now, my level of cops is 0%, when I need to have 100% to be ‘attractive’.. And with Instant Sexiness, I get only 50% of copulins… Do I spray it more? Do I need two of them?
In any case, I might as well just try it out to see the effects, shouldn’t I?
Do you guys go see a doctor before buying pheromones?

Oh, and about CTTM, so it’ll make guys be more approachable to me? Because that’s also true: most guys are always shy when they come talk to me…

One fun fact: I also remember my mom mentioning once: “there’s a period in a girl’s month when she feels more beautiful, grooms herself more, expresses herself more… and there are times when she feels ugly and depressed.” :stuck_out_tongue:

Hey, i’m a little late to the party, but let me join in with everyone else in saying welcome to pherotalk.

It is good to see more female users joining. In answering your question about copulins and dosing, the short answer is yes, you may need to use more sprays to achieve the desired effect.

You will need to do some individual testing to find where your sweet spot is. I’m not sure if you can OD on copulins, but one suggestion with -none containing products for men is to up the dose to find your OD point. Your sweet spot is then somewhere between the recommended starting dose, and the dose that you OD at.

I am sure this is the same for copulins and the female pheromones.

CTTM is a combination of Alpha and Beta Androstenol, the pheromones in IO and IH, respectively. So yeah, it is designed to make people want to approach and talk with you.