I have been reading the reviews of products on this website, and I am impressed but still a skeptic. I am will be going out later next week with a few friends and will be introducted to a set of people I have never met before so I am hoping to find something that will help break the ice. What’s the best product for that need?
Basic information: 25, male, from Los Angeles. I want to know what these chems. can do.
Hello and welcome to the forum.
Glad to see you here. A lot of us were skeptics when we first came here but we are still here as we now believe.
TGhe first thing I will ask you to do is read the first thread in my signature block to find out how to earn a gift certificate. If you give us just a little mor einfo about yourself - how you relate to people - we will be able to help you with recommendations and send you a gift certifcate to use towards a purchase.
The next thing I will ask you to do is to read the thread about what pheros can do and not do in order to have realistic expectations. The effects of most of these products are subtle - it will be up to you to make them work for you. Although sometimes you do have some over the top reactions … lol.
Looking forward to your response. Please ask us any questions - we are happy to help.
hi humblemr! welcome to the forums!
I would suggest Instant Openness and Instant Shine for you. Instant Openness is a great ice breaker pheromone. Instant Shine makes you and evryone around you feel great!
feel free to visit the Mens Pheromone Guide (located in my signature) and get a feel for a few of the pheromones offered, and see if any of them spark your interest.
also take a look at the What pheros can and cant do link in my signature as well. These are impressive products, but as some say:
you can do it without pheromones, but pheromones cant do it without you.
cheers,
-mco;
I have always related well, if not a little formally, to other people but have held few deep friendships in my life (one or two). Throughout high school I was extremely active with people, and maintained numerous contacts and was generally well-liked. This I believe was related to the fact that I sought people to listen to, and people were interested in talking with me (in order to be heard and hear my opinions). I have never been the life of the party but I am understanding and care a great deal for other people and will speak at length if the moment’s correct. This is because I typically to do like to speak unless I have something consequential to express or can get the timing right (the correct placement of a joke, for example). Since high school, I have lost contact with nearly all my old friends, and now mostly interact with co-workers, a few friends, family and most importantly, my wife.
That said, I am fairly happy with this situation: it is a self-imposed lonership. But I think, perhaps, I would enjoy a step back into those high school days of informal friendships. I think my problem now that I am older is that I am too stiff, and come across as too formal, too old-fashion and reserved. I am, in a way, but I am fun as well; I think it is just breaking the ice. Honestly though I have not spent much time trying to do this with people, mostly, because I am content. But I think maybe I might like to start, and want to try one of these products to see if it helps at all in the process.
Thank you for the suggestion; after reading some other comments on the board. I believe Instant Shine and Instant Openness will be great for my need.
Well I think the suggestions of IO and IShine are pretty good ones.
You may also want to look into either Ammo or IG. Ammo is none based and will let the ladies know you are interested. IG has no none and will give you a cool, smooth, dependable vibe. It may also make you seem a little younger as a result.
Feeling younger would be nice. Sometimes I feel like that old Garth Brooks song “Much Too Young (To Feel This Damn Old)”. Because I am young, only 24, and I am phycially in the best shape of my life (currently a part time body builder). Thanks for all the help. I just bought myself some IO. Do you think my wife will be affected by it, being that she knows me and can open up to me any time anyways? Or is it just good for breaking the ice?
IO is great for a general conversation and sometimes a good feeling.
If you want to really open up deeper conversations I would recommend IH. It helps generate feelings of connection which often leads to deeper conversations.
For a good open up combo try IH and IShine.
You did not mention you were married first off. There is also a thread in my signature block for married guys. It talks a lot about products and strategies.
As far as affecting her - maybe, probably. Read the married guys thread for more thoughts there. These products do affect a lot of spouses. But some spouses it seems to take longer. It kinda depends on how set a view she has of you. Sometimes it takes a little longer for those who know us best to react. I know that may not be the set answer you might have been looking for but it can go either way.
Hi humblemr, and welcome. I think you’ve been given great recommendations. Listen to Bosshank, he is a wise old codger. 
About your wife, her reactions to pheros may or may not be similar to other people around you. For some, there is little difference. My husband, on the other hand, took several weeks to overcome his suspicion and simply react to the pheros. You see, your spouse is already familiar with your natural pheromone signature. Any abrupt changes are bound to raise eyebrows as she tries to figure out what has brought about such a change. Forgive us, guys, our first reaction is usually to wonder who not what caused the change.
I personally decided not to tell the hubby that I was using pheros. We have very good communication and do not generally keep secrets, but my husband is one who does not like to be used as a guinea pig. If he thought his reactions were being gauged and tested he would clam up faster than you could imagine. I figured that would be sort of counterproductive. However, lots of folks have let their spouse in on what they’re doing with great results. I guess you’ll just have to decide what’s best for the two of you.
Welcome to Pherotalk Humblemr!
Thank you for the additional information about yourself. I agree with Bosshank totally and everyone gave you a piece of advice you can take to the bank.
I hope to see you as an active member on this forum giving your listening skills to the test.
Your GC is on it’s way!