I’m a 24 year old male from South Carolina. I’ve been aware of and interested in pheromones for a while, but for some reason it has taken me years to finally take my first step.
Socially I would like to think of myself as an alpha male, and with my friends that’s usually true. But to be honest when I am around strangers I feel intimidated, especially by guys who I feel are more successful and or better looking than I am. I have quite a few very attractive female friends (which I wish could be more than friends) but when I am out with them, other guys (ranging from typical college students to successful professionals and college and professional athletes) will completely ignore me and start hitting on them which is embarrassing because I am a rather large guy and have been told I can be somewhat intimidating. I try to just joke it off but it really drains my confidence.
I don’t consider myself to be ugly, in fact I have been told by many gorgeous women that they are or have been physically attracted to me. But since I have gained a lot of weight and feel like I am going nowhere career-wise, my already-waning confidence has taken a major hit. I also seem to have set up a permanent residence in the friend-zone; even though these women are attracted to me I can’t seem to move past hugs and kisses on the cheek.
When I am drunk I am an extremely social person and I get some the alpha tendencies I have with my friends back. I am fearless when I’m drunk and the limited success I have had with women has always come at the price of being so drunk I can barely remember it. I don’t want to have to get drunk to be confident in myself or successful with women.
I probably have over 100 gigs of self help and pickup material on my computer which I have had varying success with. I have become aware of certain things that I do that hinder my personal growth, but when I need to put it into action my mind goes blank.
I am ready to make some very necessary changes in my life, not just with women and I am excited to see how pheromones can help me with the process. I have recently placed an order for a to-go size TUTH. I can not wait for it to ship so I can start experimenting with some of my female friends! Being a young, large, hairy ( depending on how longs its been since I’ve gotten my hair cut I’ve been described as a black mountain-man hahaha), guy I am pretty sure I produce quite a few natural pheromones so I’m hoping this will work on me. I also want to try something that will have an effect on me; something that will help me gain my confidence back.
Anyway, this introduction has gone on long enough. Any advice you guys can give would be greatly appreciated. Glad to be here!
P.S. I would like to thank Mickaelia for the quick response and help with joining the forum
I would actually suggest AMMO for the sexy confident boost or IG for the more formal, leadership vibe that can provide a self confidence boost as well, in self effects. You have to keep in mind that the mones will act in harmony, usually, with your ATTITUDE and Personality. If you DON’T act, and you have AMMO on, the sexy confident male vibe that you’re putting out will be hindered or ignored by others because it won’t seem to be coming from you.
You can’t spray a mannaquin with AMMO or TUTH and expect others to see a Sexy Guy there… No life, the mone signal can’t be right.
I have a few links on my sig, I’d recommend Intro to Mones and How to know what are hits to get the most out of the mones you get.
Good that you finally made your step to the pheromone world
TUTH is good product, very sexual and straight forward. Exellent if you are already in relationship to get your girl horny and boost your sex life.
However it is good to combine with some social mones when used daytime or night time outside house. You could get some instant shine or instant openness to make you more aproachable when using TUTH.
Like 1Alpha I would also suggest to get Ammo. It is good for daytime and night time use. It gives you aura of sexy, confident guy without indimidating.
IG is also good product, gives you some status but is very approachable.
Well, to resolve this issue you may want to try some A314. A314 will help with the confidence level that you need here. A314 is also good for giving off that leader vibe.
Thanks for the suggestions guys. I am pretty interested in IO, IS, AMMO, and A314 so I just may have to give those a try!
As for the TUTH, it hasn’t shipped yet, but I’m hoping it will be here in a few days. I’m thinking about trying it on a good female friend who is very outgoing and very used to male attention. We usually hangout alone at bars and restaurants and have some pretty sexual conversations. I don’t usually look too much into that though, because most of my conversations eventually turn to sex (apparently I’m that guy). Would it be OK to use alone in that situation?
You should try to be confident no matter how you look or your social standing but it is not a good idea to become complacent or satisfied with where you are in life when you know you can do much better.
The first step in solving a problem is admitting you have one and you are right now admitting to yourself there are some areas you need to work on and you have to take charge of these areas in your life.
Products like Ammo, IG and the socials will be great for you along with some advise and tips from the men
start with one spray and see what happens.