My name is Mick.
I’m a 42 year old male and live in Wilmington, NC.
I became interested in pheromones because of social anxiety, shyness, and an overall lack of self-confidence. I have been told by many people that I’m very good looking, but the social anxiety seems to over-ride that factor most of the time. I’ve done some research on pheromones, and understand there is no miracle potion, quick fix, or something that works for everyone, but that it depends a lot on the individual. So I’m not sure where to start.
I hope to find something that boosts my self-confidence. I have the most trouble INITIATING contact with women. If a girl approaches me and begins talking, it’s a lot easier for me. I hear that these products at the very least cause people to initiate the chat, so I figured this type of product would fit my needs.
After doing research on Pheromones, it is apparently much much more complex than I thought. And apparently a science in and of itself to find the right answer or combination, so I find it all a bit intimidating. If anyone has a suggestion for my circumstance, or has anything to ask me, to help better direct me to the right choice, I would appreciate it.
Welcome. You always have to remember that there will be the right type of pheromones for the right occasion and at the perfect dosage. With that said, where do you plan on using the pheromones?
Ive always had a problem staring people especially females in the eye. I must say with the hits from pheromones, I can say that I dont find it as difficult anymore. Im not sure which products would have the effect of boosting confidence but maybe somebody else can chine in.
I did however use ammo. I believe that once you start noticing hits, you will find yourself able to let go. As for communication I would suggest instant openness and instant honesty.
Again welcome to the community and I hope to see your reports!
Welcome dude! Check out the men’s section and learn more about pheros.
IO and IH are good communication mones. Also, I suggest you get IG or A314 to increase masculinity, dependability and trust with ladies. If you want to increase sexual attraction get Ammo. Also, IS goes well with all mones. It would give you youthful glow and charisma, and make others around you upbeat!
Social Anxiety: Use A314. This is Alpha in a bottle. Observe the self-effects. Does it make you feel better about yourself?
Other than that, IS makes everyone happy, so you can try that on too to see how it makes you feel. I’ll let you in on a secret. For some reason, TUTH absolutely blisses me out and all tension and stress just evaporates. So, you could try that too.
And, next:
Initiating: OK, the first option that jumps at you is of course IO. However, let me tell you that it is not magic. You can’t wear IO and expect people to come and open you. You have to be openable, approachable. So, start small. Don’t initiate talking. Initiate eye contact with 5 people. Next, initiate eye-contact and a smile.
Easier said than done, sure. But, when you are near a person, wearing some IO, if you make that small effort, you’ll get a bigger effort back.
Hello and welcome to Ptalk. You’re right about that pheromones have a lot to do in the complexity, but are super simple to use with the Instant Line like Ammo and IO and Ishine. All three of these products would work pretty well for you.
The Ammo is going to give you that sexy man vibe and the Ishine makes people smile whenever they are around you. The Ishine, by its own right, is really a very sexy product. Not the IO will really get the conversation moving along. It creates a happy vibe that’s conducive to chat. Great for bars, parties and anywhere where talk is a good thing. Just remember though that in a place like a movie theater wear chat is not good, it’s not going to break peoples free will to keep quiet .
While I do completely understand what your saying about having woman approach and open you, I’m going to come at it pretty hard here. There is no product in the world that works that way. You’re essentially seeking magic and Harry Potter is the only one that can do that . In fact I just responded to a young lady in another introduction who really likes a guy, I mean really likes too, but she plain as day said: “I’m NOT going to make the first move.” Woman have been socially programmed for the guy to make the first move and 99% of the time that’s what’s going to happen. You might get that 1% advantage with mones for women to come up to you and say hi, but its doubtful and if ever seldom.
You’re going to just have to make a concerted effort to put in the work and start talking my friend. The best news for you though is with the IO and Ishine combo’d with the Ammo, it will definitely get easier for you to do this. One suggestion would be to start saying hi to everyone. Start the night out with people you are not interested in sexually. When I go out I say hi to everyone and eventually it makes it easier to say hi to everyone else. I know it takes some time, but pairing up the mones and a little effort on your part you’ll see tremendous strives.
I’ll be sending out your GC to your email inbox in just a short while. You can pick up all three of those in To Go sizes by just clicking on that word, which I linked for you. Of course if you desire you could also click on the word of the products themselves and it would take you to the full size in the store. That choice is yours, but we are always available to assist.
If you would please select the best answer to your questions to mark your introduction as answered and let the forum know. I appreciate you joining and look forward to your success. Welcome!
Thanks for all the suggestions, the advice, and of course, the gift certificate. So, it sounds like guys generally mix 2 or more of these colognes at the same time to get the desired effect ? Do I understand that right ?
Yes, we have our favourite combos and your right, they are built to have a desired effect…
Yeah, I’ve worn INSTANT SHINE by itself and it does what it does, I feel content, relaxed with others feeling it as well. A sparkly sort of feeling around ya!
Now, if I wanted to have a bit more confidence and feel attractive with a sparkly feeling, I’d LAYER AMMO + IS as a combo. Basically, I’ve heard it described best, at least in my opinion, as a your skin being the CANVAS and the MONES the paint. You can have a beautiful black on white picture! Or you can add some additional punch with just a couple of colours…
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