Hi, I’m from north florida. I’ve lurked around for a week or so, reading up on what’s available on the market and came to this site. I read lots of threads on the different products smartmones carries and their effects.
Me, I’m from a multi-ethnic background that alienated me from my peers growing up in my school days and though I’ve developed a very mature outlook and is considered mature for my age. I’m a well-rounded person with many hobbies and interests (music, motorcycles, etc), but when I go to parties and such, I don’t really eminate a sexual vibe. I’ve had only one good (and very intamate) relationship with one girl of my 22 years and one that was of my worst mistakes made during a very very hard time I’ve put myself through.
I belive that the depression and anxiety I suffer is a combination result of my recent rejection, detached family, bad friends I’ve made, and lack of any level of relationship with any women, save for my first ex, who is in constant contact for reasons I don’t know.
I belive that that these past events, affected me to the point that I’m not emitting more than “I’m a good guy to get to know better” vibe at parties or meeting women. Usually instead I feel like I’m intimidating them, or that I’m missing a part that says “chase me”.
Adults older than me usually find me extremely easy to talk to. I’m also about to work in sales for a large company.
I hope the exchanges you and I make on this forum will help me fit a bit more spark into my life, help my sales and interactions with people, as well as give feedback for others who seek the same answers I do.
First, sorry to hear about the rough patch of life you’ve recently experienced. Now, on to my suggestions, first off is A314, it will up your status at work. Next is Ammo (attracts ladies), Instant Shine (for confidence) and Instant Openess (opens up the talking).
Read the sticky threads in the Men’s section for additional info on usage.
Good to have you as a member in Pherotalk so welcome Sorry to hear about your past experiences in life well everyone has go through bad times once like myself too.
I agreed with the guys recommendations of pheros there especially A314 Go for that one for work situation as it really is well suited for it As for the other pheros like Instant Shine, Instant Openness & AMMO, all these pheros will aid you in putting a bit more spark in your social life
I wish you all the best when you get the pheros. See ya
Great suggestions from the members above. I agree that AMMO Ishine and IO will be great for when you out meeting new people.
A314 is great for sales as long as your a outgoing salesman. Most salesmen are.
Mones can help give off that sensual aura but a lot of it is a state of mind. If you go into a room and you feel confident and sexy you will emit that vibe.
Ammo and Ishine both can increase confidence a little so they will help in that aspect as well.
Hi, KRider,
Welcome to pherotalk, I hope your experience using pheromones is as interesting, rewarding, and as helpful to you as it is to me. The pheromones will help you with your job in sale and will improve your social life as well. The ones that were mentioned by my friends above should really do the trick—especially A314 and Ammo! Sorry about your rough patch but it should only get better for you from here on in! Good luck!
Read up on concept of ‘prizability’ - when you meet and talk to a girl, try to have idea and vibe that you are trying to see if she is good enough for you. “You’re very beautiful, but what else do you have going for you besides your looks?” Or, “You’re cute, but can you cook? I need all my girlfriends to cook for me and give me shoulder massages”. It’s not what you say but the meta-communication so it may take a while to get this over right.
A bit more advanced, but when you are feeling upbeat and ‘in state’, try imagining you are doing something sexual to a girl from the moment you first see and start talking to her. Not in a stalkerish, creepy way but in a frank unashamed, I make no excuses for my desires as a man way. This is very easy to screw up, and don’t attempt till you are ready for it. The idea is based on resonance and emotional contagion. If you are feeling horny, and are projecting a certain dominance she will start to feel the same way if certain other conditions are right.
Read up on “Gunwitch Method”, which should give you some more ideas (though be careful how/when you use this).
Also more generally you are very young. Being in your early 20s is the most difficult stage for a guy. 22 year old girls often go for older, more experienced guys. Things get much easier as you get more experienced (and also rise in status). So enjoy the opportunities you have to experiement and shape who you become.
Find a way to bring female energy into your life in sme way or other. Not in a sexual/romantic way. Just bring more women into your life in some way or other.
Take some classes, and try to find ways to develop a leadership role even if its in some way that doesn’t seem to matter. It’s important to learn how to be a big fish, even if it’s in a small pond.
Read up on body language, posture and poise. Read some of the old messages here on vocal training.
