Hello, I am a 22 year old male college senior from wisconsin. I am extremely shy. I want to be able to find products that could help meeting people and make it easier to find dates. I’m about 5’8, average build with blue eyes. I was wondering if there are products that could help eliminate approach anxiety and get respect from others since people think I am a pushover?
Welcome to Pherotalk Karl 
Use of Pheros can help you with shyness across a period of time. You can start with using Instant Gentle Man on a regular basis… even if its on a sunday and you are just going to the mom&pops store around the corner..squirt a spray.. let that become your constant signature.. IG gives off a successful and charming guy …while its a status pheromone… it is not standoffish like A314 and also gives off this approachable vibe..
Another phero which is good for approach anxiety is Instant shine… essentially a feel good phero.. it makes the wearer feel quiet good about himself that his thoughts about rejection wont haunt him as much as when without instant shine.. even if you get rejected, you wont be devastated.. but that silly smirk would still be on your face..
Alternatively, you can check our one of the MXs.. experimental mixes.. unlike the instant line which assure you about what they do, experimental mixes are as the name suggest still in experimental stage… MX297 is the mix I am suggesting… most users in this forum who have tried it have come back with rave reviews.. most common feedback it the instant attention gathering which it does..
I personally have tried it over a year and my understanding about it is that.. it draws attention from everybody male and female… even if you cant take much initiative as long as you wearing this.. people actually come to you and try to open a conversation…girls get really friendly with you… some users contend that while it draws women in like flies to a sugar candy..as well as geting them touchy feely, you get slotted in their friends zone.. I dont quiet agree with it. However even if it were true, it helps to have a few 9/10 girls as best buddies… 
anyways popularity is more or less assured with this. one just have to play along with a smile on his face when people approach you while wearing this. you can try Mx390 which is the same thing in a different scent. smells different thats all. I think the replacement gurantee on MXs is limited because its an experimental mix.. unlike the instant line.
Welcome to Pherotalk karlsunfire!
Aghor has given you some great advice.
My advice is going to be similiar.
To help with approach anxiety I would suggest Instant Openness. For me it showed me that people want me to talk to them. I see people smiling at me and turning their body language towards me…etc. This helped me with my approach anxiety because with all of these signs from them I knew I would not get rejected.
Also for respect/attraction I think you will like A314. Its got this alpha vibe to it that screams leader/trustworthy/sexy.
I’m curious, how did you find out about this site?
Good advice above so I won’t go echoing it again.
However, as a shy person, I will caution you against buying and using pheros just for self effects - This is because the effects can vary widely between individuals and even if you do get them, you can find that if you use pheros regularly, you can become used to the self effects very quickly and IS is about the fastest of them all.
Saying that, if you take other steps to deal with your shyness and then use the pheros to help solidify them, the results can be a whole lot better and much more repeatable/reliable. So get stuck-in!
Welcome Karl,
We have quite a few young men your age coming to us with the same or similar situations so we have much help here on the forum for you in addition to the products
Pop into the men section for even more help and guidance.
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