Hello there,
Welcome to the forum.
I have to agree with what James recommended. Im not married so I cant help too much, but check out this thread. It may help
Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home (
Then read these:
The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies ( 1 2 3 … Last Page)
Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp (Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp) ( 1 2 3 … Last Page)
Please let us know what you decide.