Hello out there forum.. I need your help!! I have been married to my husband for 3 years. We dated for 4 years before we got married. I am 27 years old and I’m a very attractive female. My husband is 30. For the past two months my husband & I have pretty much gradually stopped having sex!! We are both on different work schedules, but it never stopped us in the past. I asked my husband was he aware how long it had been since we had sex the other day. He said yes he had. I asked him if anything was wrong and if he was having an affair? He promised me he had not & would not do that to me. He said he just hasn’t had the urge lately & I hadn’t asked for it so he thought I didn’t want to. Honestly, I can truly say haven’t had the urge either. I’m always so tired after I get home I don’t have to have it. We do spend time together daily. We have a routine where we tivo & watch our favorite shows together every night..we eat breakfast together every morning we also talk throughout the day. But,I know we need a little help or were gonna end up in one of those sexless marriages. I did a little research on pheromones & I think they may help us; I found this site & decided to join. I don’t believe attraction is an issue.. Everywhere I go men approach me so I know I’m not delusional when I say I’m attractive. I think we have both become bored with the same routine everyday after being together so long & turned into an old couple.That said, I’m looking to purchase some pheromones to help us out.. I was looking at the “turn up the heat” for myself and my husband , the "instant sexiness & instant shine for me and possibly the “alpha a314 for him”. My question is which ones would you recommend for our situation? Also should I just purchase for myself & not tell him about it and examine the affects? Or is it something we should do together? If you have any suggestions on what to get plz let me know what would be best & quickly. I want to purchase ASAP… Thanks for reading, I will order according to user suggestions and will definitely post the results once used. Sincerely,Tmp27
Hey, welcome! In a way I’m also on the same boat as you, but I’m a male. We have sex but hardly ever, well not enough I should say. So that’s why I came here as well, and I’ve had some minor success with the pheromones here working on my wife but the success has been greater with other girls eyeing me and in social situations so I don’t know. My wife also knows about my pheromone habit and doesn’t like it, as she thinks I want it to attract other people so this could be another reason why it hasn’t affected her as much. However, they do work with others! So I say give it a try, but most importantly it’s more important to help your marriage by other means and not leave it all up to the pheromones.
But yes, good choices so far. IS/A or B would be great for you, and TUTH with some IH for the both of you to help deepen your relationship (A314 is great too for him.)
Pheromonally, TUTH should help you to get in the mood; Instant Sexiness may well help him. A314 may make him seem sexier to you. It could help him get on better at work, reducing stress (which is a major libido killer for us guys).
I think a big part of the problem may be your lack of energy (both of you). A change in eating habits will help, as will more exercise. Cut back on grains and starches, so less bread, cakes, breakfast cereal, potatoes, sugar. For him, supplement with a good-quality zinc-magnesium supplement taken right before bed; this will improve his testosterone levels. Tends to give a guy a “morning glory”, so I hope you are a morning person 
TiVo a bit less and go for a 20 to 30 minute walk together. Even if you are tired. You will find the exercise will give you more energy as you both get fitter. It can also be an aphrodisiac.
One solution I have heard is to make “sex dates” where you take time out to deliberately schedule a night of passion. Turn off the TV for that one
I might also suggest Instant Honesty to get the communication flowing between you; it’s clear something is going wrong, could be stress as I mentioned above.
HI there,
Welcome to the forum.
I suggest you try Instant Sexiness and IH.
IS is to make him feel you are attractive ans sexier again.
IH will make him closer to you. He will talk deeper and more personal with you.
YOu can also use TUTH for self effect. It can sexually turn you on.
Good luck
Thank you so much for all your responses I have taken all the advise you have given into consideration and I will implement some of them. As far as the pheromones; I think I’m going to purchase IS/TUTH/ & IH. Thanks again for the feedback & I will let you know how it goes 
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