Hello everyone. I am 28 male and married for the past six years. I have been with my wife for almost 10 years now and in the beginning things were great sexually. Now I am, as the name states, at my wits end. Sex has been declining over the past few years. We have not had sex for the past 6 months and aside from daily stress I dont know what the problem is. I have not come to her for it in a long time now because I am tired of being shot down. I have tried every single thing I can think of to spice things up but to no avail. I love her more than life itself but I just dont know what else to do and I am VERY frustrated. She is 10 years older than me and I expected that she would be in her “prime” and things would pick up but no. I thought I would give phermones a try. Im just… at a loss…
hi there, welcome to the forums. i hope you find something here that will help your situation. i suspect that it can probably settle itself much faster and organically with a long heart to heart, but i’m sure you’ve tried that already.
as for pheromones, the entire Instant Line is a great place to start. you might find Instant Female Magic to be a god-send for helping her relax and feel more comfortable to allow you to initiate the talking and possibly re-bonding that will get you both back together physically.
one of my favorite combinations is IFM with a huge splash of Instant Shine.
if you want to be aggressive about getting back with her Ammo and TUTH might be what you are looking for as they should both help get her aroused and hopefully feel the need for some physical intimacy.
how is your physical condition? are you keeping in shape? do you work out at all?
we’ve got a pretty solid group of people here that may be able to offer you some relationship insights as well as pheromone tips to help re-establish things.
i hope you find what you need here, and hopefully in the process you will be able to change your screen name to something happier.
best of luck to you.
Hey, welcome to the forum!
Definitely recommend the Instant line for communication. Instant Honesty would also help you communicate on a deeper level with your wife. From what I hear, Turn up the heat works exactly like this and some ladies have even tried a tiny dab on themselves to spice things up.
On a side note, perhaps she’s experiencing some chemical imbalance that’s causing her not to respond well to your sollicitations. If you feel comfortable broaching the subject with her, ask her if something is the matter? Perhaps she’s just afraid of sharing information concerning this with you. 
(Just my two-cent)
Best of luck to you and I hope we hear some positive news from you soon!
hello there, welcome to the forum.
there aren’t much else i can recommand, so i’d say IH and tuth are two products you can try in your situation.
not sure about Instant Female Magic, never got anything good from it, its not my favourite product, but hey it may work for you and your wife, try it and see.
good luck.
Hey gang,
Thanks for the responses. As far as my physical condition, I must say that (and please dont think im bragging) that i am always in shape due to a thyroid condition that keeps me thin and fairly tone (and hairless which is how she like it). I have tried to talk to her about it and it never really gets anywhere because I think she is afraid to open up about such things. I will definately try your suggestions… keep em coming.
Thanks again…
Hey yourself,
In a similar situation to yourself, twice in 5 years, so don’t feel so hard done by ( and yes, I’m a three times a night kind of guy!) Believe me, we are not the only two on here in the same boat, have a dig around, listen to those that know ( generally, the higher the rep score, the more experience) and don’t be afraid to ask.
I’ve got some products on their way and will report my findings asap, in the meantime, plan your campaign 
Hello Atwitsend and Welcome to Pherotalk! I’m sure you will get some great advice here, as I see some have already given you some . You know marriage is a lot of work and yes sex is a big part of it, but it’s not everything. I understand you might be frustrated, but its hard work to keep marriages going. That work separates those who are willing to do what it takes to make it happen, and those who give up and move on. I’m glad you have taken steps to make it happen and work at it.
Before I really begin, let me ask you what you might think pheromones might do for you? As much as you might like them to help you, please understand that they are not magic. 90% of what they can do will be in your hands. Its all up to you . So the questions to help me, help you, is what do you think happened in your relationship? Was there a catalyst 6 months ago that caused you guys to stop communicating? Have you thought about some type of therapy? There are a lot of information missing from your introduction, not to be nosy, but to enable your new friends to help assist you in selecting pheromones.
I am sure after 10 years there is more you can tell me about your relationship with your wife. I would recommend instant female magic so that she feels more comfortable with you and will be able to open up so you two can resolve this. Also instant honesty to allow for a deeper level of communication.
Women tend to give off signs as to how they are feeling and our feelings play a big part in everything we do. I really believe you want to get your relationship back on track and I wish you would stop by and share some more. Not only will it better enable us to provide assistance, but it will also qualify you for the $15 gift certificate I’d like to send you.
I’m providing you with a link to the thread,that SteveO wrote, to help our newest members qualify for the Gift Certificate.
I look forward to your reply.
Hey man, glad you found us..um well everyone has already recommended on what ot by, but I can give you some tips on the right thing to do..Im 29 and have been married for 7 yrs on the 21st
DO switch up the routine - Sometimes being married becomes that, a routine..especially w/ kids. You may drive to work the same way, but it doesnt mean your week w/ her should be the same. Surprise her during the day w/ some flowers or a card. Or pick her up from work and take her to kareoke, haha..She’ll look at you like wtf, but at least you’re trying.
DO switch your image - If you dont normally wear suits, do it. Just to throw her off..she may be tired of looking at the same old you..IT HAPPENS to men and women..If she questions why, just say you’re trying out a new look. And if she likes it, go back to #1, routine.
Now, depending on her personality, she may think you’re up to no good…Thats when you use Instant Honesty and sit and talk. It may be something more or less than what you’re thinking, but you’ll never know unless you talk. Or better yet, LISTEN, and dont say anything..just let her tell you whats on her mind..
I only say all this because Im seperated and going thru the “D” word, and even though mine left(lies, wasnt real, etc.). I tried EVERYTHING I could do personally(even sat in couseling, BY MYSELF). And while it didnt change alot, those things I suggested to you, helped make life great for us early on and even before we split.
Never hurts to try something, it may just work. I’M NOT a counselor, just giving you some suggestions. But counseling never hurts either.
I wish you the best.
Instant Female Magic - works wonders on her moods, you can tell her her breath smells poopy, and she will giggle herself silly instead of slapping the shit out of you. LOL, crazy stuff.
Instant Honesty - Yes, communication facilitator in a bottle. You will be more open about stuff, and so will she. Your issues will come out, but surprisingly you may find a solution to them. Definitely try it.
Turn Up The Heat - Will get her dripping on the floor if she had a skirt on and no panties on. A mop in hand is a plus (not just to wipe the floor from her wetness, but if you can’t get it up, she might get too horny to care what goes in).
I’m not saying that pheromones are a magic potion, but so far, it seems like it is for me.
Hello and welcome to the forum.
Sorry to hear about your marriage - please read the thread in my signature block about married guys to see some strategies about how the pheromones can help. And here I have to stress “help” becuase in reality the main work is going to be in the relationship itself and is going to be up to you. The pheros will help “grease the tracks” some but the big work will be up to you.
Good luck and ask any questions - we are happy to answer.
Great advice there!:)Sorry to hear about your marriage but like you said you tried and it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
Thx miss Mickalea..yeah its been hard, but Im back to my old self again..Sorry to hijack the post also:o.
Just thought I could help in some way, ya know? I can honestly say that these products work and have had a helping hand in saving what was left of me..almost lost it and got back to my old alpha self haha..
These arent the end all to be all, but theyre Aoooooook in my book..peeeeaze..