Hello, a bit about myself and why I’m here.
I’m a 33 years old white British male married to a 30 year old European Woman of Polish nationality.
Found this place while searching the internet for ways to help turn my marriage around.
My wife has never had much of a sex drive but after our 3rd Child we only had sex if I started something. A few months back she starts acting distant and cold. She finally reveals to me that she has been feeling unloved by myself for along time and has fallen out of love with me because of it.
Of course this hit me like a bomb going off especially when I thought everything was fine. So I started really putting the effort back into our relationship to try win back her love but as of yet no luck, she says she can’t just turn it back on because I’m now being more loving towards her. We still have sex from time to time but it’s only because I keep trying and she gives in maybe just to keep me happy.
Anyway found this place while trying to find something that might help bring back those loving feelings and maybe bump up her sex drive.
Been reading a lot about P96 and that sounds like it could help with the bonding and closeness that’s gone cold.
A bit more about myself I’m very laid back, interested in games, movies,gym, going out drinking/dancing in clubs. I have a tall slim muscular build.
First I want to thank you for sharing your story as it is hard to open up sometimes and I am married also and lets face it, things can be really tough and I struggle with many things in my marriage as well that are similar. It is good at least that she opened up enough to identify the problem and you accepted it as this is the very first step to turn thins around.
Now we(I say we because you are not alone) have to come up with a solution and you have to know pheromones are part of a much bigger package which is turning things around, so in addition to pheromones you will have to come up with a solution to turn things around, but I will try my best to help come up with the pheromones that will get you the best results.
Right now I think it is best to dig deeper into her feelings to get to the root of the problem and will start here.
Normally I suggest the Men’s Kit as you would have everything at your finger tips and this way there is no guess work if you got the right stuff and you won’t have to make multiple orders and pay the shipping so keep this in mind because the kit you will get everything to try from the Instant line pretty much.
You have a few options here.
IH This one more than the others will be very much needed. This will be very in depth and promote binding which is much needed right now. Will bring to the surface a lot of the problems in the marriage so you can know why she is feeling this way. This should be your most used one to start with.
IShine Will help ease things and boost your confidence. Will put you and her in a good mood and will make things easier to get out of her what is needed so you know what to work on.
IG I am suggesting this over the A314 for now because it is still a status product and you want to be viewed as worthy and gain her respect and this is more an approachable type.
I think the above 3 will help you the most to start with and I have not even got to the attraction part yet and based everything off of overcoming her feelings and patching things up in the marriage. after this then I would look at
Ammo Good for general attraction and great for day use as well. You could also try say 1 spray of this to 1-2 sprays of IG as well to have an attraction respectable setup as well.
TUTH Highly sexual and a little goes a long way. I would work on overcoming the issues first and then build her up on the Ammo, than use this later on in the night.
I hope this helps you out and if you have any questions at all just post and good luck!
Pheromones can definately help as part of trying to rekindle the spark of attraction and even love in a relationship. Marriage is more involved as a person is going to see you all the time, and know both your good points and bad whether you use pheromones or not. It seems you did not see any changes prior to her mentioning her feelings had changed, so that may indicate that communication should also be a focus to help you figure out if its more then just the ‘spark’ is currently not there which pheromones will help bring back.
This kit contains most of the main products and most of what JustinTime suggested to help you find what works best for you.
P96 oil (or spray when its back) does in fact help with some of the emotional connection and bonding, and can be used in combination with other products in the kit, such as 2 drops or so of A314 plus up to 40mcg P96, or Tuth plus P96. With my ex-wife, I am finding it does lessen focus on the negatives of issues of the past and more toward the positive feelings toward you now.
IH promotes bonding, comfort, and trust. You can also use it also to get her to open up and reveal how she really is feeling and have a deep meaningful conversation.
Oxytocin is known to be higher in people in love, so staring into each other eyes even not saying a word for a minute or two, cuddling, hugging, holding hands, touching skin, nipples during foreplay, and of course sex itself are all ways to potentially also help increase this chemical. Romance of course goes a long way to a womans heart… Just making her feel special and needed when its not expected…
Thanks for your comments guys
Just a quick update.
Me and my wife had a big talk tonight about what’s actually going on with our relationship, where are we going etc. Anyway it turns out that she has a lot of deep seated problems with things I did that really annoyed her in the past and even now that ive changed and dont do them anymore she’s having trouble letting go of the resentment she has towards these issues. So maybe as mentioned above if moans could help her lessen her focus on past negatives maybe we can start moving forward again.
How do qualify for the discount on my first order?
Dee will come around to post, and issue you a $25 gift certificate which can be used toward any order. When you sign up for the store you also receive 500 points, worth 5.00, and you can apply anything like these during checkout as your payment methods.
I agree the P96 will be a great test for you, as for me it does seem to somewhat put the past issues as not a big deal anymore with a focus on the positive of the present and increase the emotional connection at the same time.
AD don’t normally work weekends - hang-on till tomorrow and it will probably appear. Also check your spam folder as GCs can get caught.
If there are underlying issues, IME IH/IS is a good combination to get things out in the open but in a positive/constructive way. Run that for a while before introducing a sexual.
Just apply the drops, each drop is 10mcg. There is a spray version that can be made into various doses, but it may not be available until androtics catches up on orders after their recent move.
If your going for the P96 I would suggest also either a togo (as they are cheap) of tuth, or also ammo which will have or add attraction and to bump up the sex drive, and then either can combined with the P96 as well.
IH and IS as mobocaster mentioned will also give bonding and trust making her feel very connected, along with mood lifting and many other benefits. You can add tuth to this mix or later on to sexualize it. All three are available as a togo or full size…
All three of those can buffer the sexual or status side of a mix lower, they are usually used to compliment and balance things like Ammo, Tuth, or A314 which add the sexual or status.
IS/IH could be used for trust/bonding and rebuilding a connection and work. IS adds the mood enhancement and still keeping the IH bonding and sharing.
IS/TUTH, 2 P96/2 TUTH, 2 P96/2 IS/2 TUTH, 2 Ammo 2 IS, 2 Ammo 2 IS 2 IH, Ammo/P96, 2 A314b or oil/12.5-40 P96, 2 A314b or oil/2 Tuth/12.5-40 P96… P96 solo if you use lower dose or have higher T as it lowers the alpha signature. And quite many more combos you will find that may work well as you read through journals which are real world experiences. Thats why many people buy a few togos in their first run to try things until they find what works or the mens kit that has most of them, P96 is the only one of those that isnt in togo size as its a standalone solo molecule.
You can search in google also such as Ammo + IS site:www.pheromonetalk.com or P96 site:www.pheromonetalk.com
I agree with the recommendations to check first if there are underlying issues. You see, men’s problem is sex but women’s problems are more than that. So if you really are serious about saving your marriage and not only your sex life, I’ll go with the intimate combo first and find time to be with her.
Constantly expose her to IShine and AMMO for everyday life.
Warmest Regards,
Dee
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Thanks Dee but I already tried to Order the P96 oil when item said in stock but since I placed my order item now says out of stock and my order has been in “processing” stage for nearly 3 days. Hope I got the last bottle and dont have to wait months for the next batch.
At the moment its not the sex im worried about anymore its the lack of love and affection. Its like there’s no attraction from her point of view anymore. We have had a few talks now and its just the love that’s missing. She has said that things I do that didn’t really bother her before now really irritate her. She also has a very stubborn personality if that might effect mones from working on her???
