Hello all, currently enjoing a -35F weather here in Sunny Alaska. My name is Blair. I’m 37 years young female. Just recently left the military. Ran across this email and thought “Why not?” Back in 2003 before the war I was a very open person, however several tours later I’ve closed up a bit. I have been working on opening my self back up. My main objective is to learn more about pheromones so that it will help me open up myself to others.
If I were to use pheromones that were made for men would women be intrested in me simply becouse I’m whearing men’s pheromones? I’ve been reading some of the posts that said that women weare mens pheromones I’m just trying to figure this out.
Nice to have a female member on board so welcome I see that you have a keen interest on pheros & want to give them a try. that’s great
Ok about your question, i’m not too sure about it, sorry:o Maybe the other members will be able to answer you there when they visit your intro
So you are looking for something to make you open up to people more so i would recommend IO for that as IO is the icebreaker in conversations & it make the user to open up with people more
Anyway what other goals do you have in mind in using pheros here, what kind of effects you hope to get from them so that we can help you better there
Hello and welcome to the forum, and thanks for your service!
By asking about wearing mens products, are you saying you are bi/lesbian? I think the way I have seen it said in the past, is that they suggest still getting womens products, because gay women will be attracted to womens products… I think..
My friend Elena lives in Alaska right outside the base. Her hubby is deployed right now. I dont know how you can take the cold up there. I am not a winter person.
No, You would come off as more Butch, dominant masculine. Straight women use a very small amount of male mones to make men more aggresive sexually or to acheive a more alpha vibe.
Now if your gay, you would use the same mones that women use to attract men. Gay women are attracted to female mones just like guys are. Some of the more dominant female mones are good like the TAL based ones. You can use small amounts of male mones with the female mones to give you a more alpha aura if this is the aura your interested in
If you tell us more about your personality and objective for mone use we can direct you to products that will fit your needs and I can send you a GC to get you started.
A lot depends on what type of situation I’m in. While I was in the military I have/had a take charge personality which worked for me. I was a Platoon Sergeant and had to be able to take charge, but when I’m in an environment that not structured (like the military) or my new job where I’m not able to use my leadership skills I come off as harsh, brash and condescending.
I know what you mean about being a woman in a man’s world and getting almost a bit confused as to how to act feminine. I work in a very male dominated field myself and have since childhood been very much a tomboy. I only started acting female in my early to mid 20’s and was frankly not that good at it. I have found phero’s to be awesome for this…
Some of the phero’s just brings out the feminine side in me beautifully in a way that I can use at work without coming across as ditsy or too girly; I still get the respect my male colleagues get.
Other phero’s put a more flirty & sexy twist to the vibe and are great for going out or any other situations outside of work.
If you feel like you come across as harsh and condescending then I’d suggest trying some of the womens phero’s that bring out the feminine side in you, and soften the edges a bit. Instant Sexiness B (IS/b) is great for that. I love it, it’s one of my staple phero’s.
I also recently found that mixing a bit of EST into my work mix softened the alpha attitude in me quite nicely without reducing respect for me.
I think that if you use male phero’s (or possibly also some of the womens that increase the female alpha vibe) they would make you come across as even harder. IS/a in high doses or Mx300 on its own (female version of the male A314 alpha male vibe phero) push me over the edge from alpha to stright stroppy bitchiness…
Tisha asked a key question though…about your sexuality. Are you gay, bisexual or (like me) straight but tomboyish? The choice of phero’s in terms of what you are hoping to achieve, or who you are trying to attract depends on you, your personality and who your target is…
We aren’t just beeing nosy, and don’t worry…this is a really friendly community with lots of people to ask questions from & chat to
I am bisexual/tomboyish, in the military they found that attractive. Just not able to work with them in a male dominated field, they area bunch of stuffy shirts.
Having a hard time transitioning from the military in to suits and where everyone has their own agenda and not what is good for the company. But I’m sure if you’ve been in the military for a logn time everyone has that problem. Or is it just me?
I doubt you’re alone with experiencing that I think it happens in a lot of male dominated fields for females…but the army is probably at the extreme end of the spectrum…
I know that there have been a number of threads on what phero’s to choose if you are bisexual or lesbian. I think like Tisha sAaid it depends both on if you lean towards the feminine or butch personality, as well as who you are trying to attract.
Thanks for providing more info. Still a little confused on what vibe your going for here.
Ok so are you looking to warm that vibe up some? Ishine and IH would be good.
If you looking for a repected more attentive vibe reaction, minus the harsh, brash I would suggest MX300 Ishine.
Instant sexiness A would fit you well. Its TAL heavy and will project a strong capable female but amplify some softer qualities so tone down the harshness.
Whether a women is bi/lesbian or straight heavy masculine mones can make them feel out of sorts. Something like A314 would amplify the harshness to much. which is why I think you should go with the dominant female mones and mixes.
Are you looking for some mixes for social situations as well of just for work environment. Ishine IH IO are all unisex products and will work well socially coupled with Isex/A
I am sending out your GC but if you feel you need more help just let me know.
I see that you have a keen interest on pheros & want to give them a try. that’s great 