Hello Cindy! Welcome to the forum! I am a tall lady as well, so I feel your pain!
And just so you know, you’re probably not going to get responses regarding products from other companies. We generally have no way of knowing what specific chemical components are in a different company’s product, or even the quantities of molecules. Often, those companies don’t really know themselves, and products are often made unscientifically. When we use Androtics Direct products, we know exactly the concentration we are dealing with, and there is a plethora of single molecules for us to custom-tailor our pheromone signatures. That being said, let me see if I can be helpful with any of your questions:
1 - For helping the approachability factor, Instant Openness is a good go-to. It might be a good idea to use Instant Honesty with that, it tends to make people feel like they are establishing a connection with you. Instant Shine is a good mood-lifter, it goes well with nearly any pheromone. Those 3 would be the place to start. When you’re ready to get a little more experimental, others have found great success with p130 (it’s been reported to counter anxiety) and p74 (good for generating fond feelings). You can do a search by keyword or tags to see what other people have reported in their experiences.
2 - Instant Honesty is less of a “big personality” phero and more of a “lets have a heart-to-heart”. Also, anything with TAH generally signals more of a beta personality. You might try Instant Sexiness B to get the result you’re looking for. If you try the two together, let us know what your results are!
3 - Instant Openness and Instant Shine are both good in social situations. P102 is a very valuable molecule to have on hand, it’s like walking around with a spotlight on you. People have a subconscious tendency to notice you, look at you, give you more attention. As far as getting yourself to be more outgoing, p130 might work for that as well. P83 has been shown to lower inhibitions in women. Be very careful with this one and use it sparingly, some women have reported using a little more than they intended, and doing things they aren’t exactly proud of!
4 - I think Instant Sexiness A is exactly what you are looking for. It’s my secret weapon. I feel like a million bucks when I wear it, and I get lots of male attention! If you’re hoping to turn this into a LTR, try using some Instant Honesty with it.
5 - I’d try Instant Sexiness A paired with p102 for attention from strangers. That will definitely get you noticed. If you want to encourage them to be social, try adding Instant Openness.
As far as men’s products, that’s a complicated answer. There is definitely a lack of female-specific products from this company, but that’s mostly because there are very few women posting reports on their experiences.
Women can always wear men’s products, but the results might be very different. For instance, Instant Jerk has copulins in it. When a man wears copulins, it signals “I have just been with a fertile woman. Women want me so bad!” When a woman wears copulins, it signals, “I am fertile and horny right now.” The results are more predictable when women wear female pheros, but male (or androgynous) pheros can yield some useful results, too.
There have been some reports of women successfully using TUTH, go ahead and search the forums. As far as Instant Gentleman, your best bet would be to try Instant Sexiness A or B.
Hope this helps! Oh, and as a rule of thumb, you always want to try each product by itself for about a week before you layer it with something else. This way, you get to know exactly what effects you are getting from each product, and you can mix n match accordingly. It’s a great idea to start a journal on this forum so that we can all benefit from your findings, as well. Also, the more data that is collected from the experiences of women, the more likely that we will start seeing more women’s products!
