Hi everyone.
Hope everybody is doing fine and
having a good time with the mones.
Ok,there goes my presentation.
I’m a light skinned latin,21 years old and 5’ 10" and I’m fit(not muscular).
I’m usually very reserved -very quiet and kinda shy.I gotta work on it.
I have a great job for my age - and I’m aware that there is a possibility of this fact work against me(the target could feel out of my league).
My sense of value is ok.I’d hardly feel outclassed by a girl I have interest on.But I still have serious anxiety problems,since talking to girls i don’t know is not natural to me(yet )
I’m not into going to clubs and for now i’d like to keep that way.
Loud enviroments with a high concentration of drunk people are just not for me.
I’m gonna talk about the girl I’m screening to be my girlfriend.
LONG TEXT AHEAD.I SPENT A LOT OF TIME ON IT BUT YOU SHOULD NOT FEEL OBLIGED TO READ.
She is probably 20 or 21,about 5’ 6",light skinned latin.
Her height just couldn’t be better.It’s the height that ‘fits’, if you somehow know what i mean .
She has a very sweet/innocent smile.The type of smile that make you wanna hug her.She is kinda curvy, but somehow she is not the type men would think about sex right away.
She studies in the same faculty as i do and also might become estagiary where i work(small world huh?).Probably we wouldn’t work in the same room.There is a chance of about 10%.She knows i work there but i guess she thinks i’m estagiary.
I’m on 4th year on the faculty and she is on her 3rd.We’ve been kinda ‘noticing’ each other since she entered the faculty.Looking back, i’m pretty sure she started this.
Side note: Guys, you all may think that you are the one to choose the girls you pick but that is an illusion.Any girl you pick girl has pre-selected you already.
One day i was seated on the faculty campus, chatting with some friends and she passed with her friends.
I turned to her and she was staring me .
I holded my stare for about 3s and she seemed to enter in some kind of trance.And she just wouldn’t look away!
I was kinda afraid that she could stumble to the floor so I broke eye contact and moved my focus to a close friend.
Don’t know for sure what made she react so strong.I think that was my first day wearing glasses.I feel it complements my personality and I was feeling really good.Besides, everything for me seemed closer and more live..i guess this helped.
I decided i had to do something.Since she is usually with her friends and i find hard to find an ‘excuse’ to talk i decided first talking to her on Orkut(it’s like a brazilian facebook )
Started with something as ‘‘Hey.You seem to be an interesting girl.Message me when you want to talk.’’ Notice i said ‘when’, not ‘if’.Sounds more confident and i guess it would increases the chances.
We exchanged some messages then.Nothing really progressive, since she wasn’t willing to release solid IoI’s online.The good thing is that i now feel able to engage her in a conversation without feeling like a complete stranger.
One day,about a month ago, I was using Scent of Eros(+ social) + The Edge(+ sexual) - i bought these about 2 months ago on LS - and I met her on the corridor,on the way to my classroom,and greeted her by her first name.Since i use a nickname online I’m not quite sure if she knows my name.She gave me a kinda confused/nervous look - maybe kinda expected,since we’ve been seeing each other for 3 years without a word exchanged . Then she gave me her cheek for a kiss.She leaned ,which could be considered an IoI.I asked how was she doing with an eye smile and she said ‘Fine’ with a light smile.I didn’t have much to say and i was late to the class so i headed my direction(I didnt say bye or anything. Probably because I wanted/ expected her to help with the conversation ). After that she went her way.
About 2 days later she was seated in the campus with talking with 2 of her friends as i passed on the way to the parking lot.I hadn’t noticed her at first.I saw her and she was looking at me.
She very quickly moved her eyes to her friends and started playing with her hair in the fastest pace i’ve seen.
Toughts?
The main purpose on the use of The Edge(mainly androstenone) is to not fall into friends zone.She has a lot of friends that i qualify as orbiters and i definetely don’t want to join then.Problem is that it is probably going to make her more unconfortable,considering her age and personality.
At first I was thinking the Scent of Eros would easily offset this matter but now I come to think it’s a bit more complex.
I mean, doesn’t sound likely that this girl will feel comfortable feeling horny in front of all her faculty friends.And at morning.
What pheromones would you guys recomend for this case?
I’m screening her to be my girlfriend.
Basically I want her to help the seduction.
I want her to talk more and i want her to make her intentions clearer.
And no friend zone! Any ideas on pheromones i could use?
Apologizes for the grammar mistakes and thanks for the attention!
Now, I suggest you start with Ammo, it’s a great product, well tested and loved by many here - especially to help with the result you are after.
In addition, the socials like Instant Openness and Instant Honesty help in my experience.
I’d like you to have a good read of The Mens Guide, then take a look at the sample section of the smartmones store, you can experiment with an assortment of inexpensive trial size to-go products.
Let us know if you have any more questions and please return and let us know about your results, it’s very interesting
You have given us a great intro, thanks for that. It helps us know what to suggest.
I think Ammo is right up your alley. It is an attractor pheromone, puts out an ‘interested’ vibe, but is not overly sexy. It will mildly arouse her, but more importantly it will get her attention, and give you that ‘edge’ that attracts women. It is buffered enough to be wearable anywhere, even at work, and should cause no social problems there.
The social pheromones are especially helpful in this situation, because they allow the target and the wearer to become more relaxed, and let the conversations flow more easily. Here is a run-down:
Instant Shine will make people feel good, more cheerful, more upbeat in your presence. They will come to associate that good feeling with you, and may want to be around you more. It is often a confidence booster for the wearer, and can uplift your mood.
Instant Openness makes people feel chatty. It helps keep the conversation flowing.
Instant HOnesty will encourage deeper, more intimate conversations; the type that relationships are built on. It extends a feeling of trust and makes people feel more comfortable expressing what they really think.
This is a morsel of wisdom. You seem to have thought this through.
Please don’t apologize for your grammar again! Your english is very good, much better than my Portuguese, which is non-existent.
Instant Openness is an awesome product that helps make people more chatty and come out of their shell more. This is especially beneficial to you, since the pheromones have self effects as well as the effects on others.
A314 is another awesome product. It is designed for work and for giving off that “alpha” male vibe which can have a very positive effect of Displaying Higher Value. This product can definitively help you get boosted up to the girls level. It’s got a James Bond sort of cool to it- its attractive, but not exactly sexy. So keep this is mind when wearing solo. Also, this is AD’s only oil based product as of now, and typically lasts longer than the spray based (oil: 6-8 hrs, spray:3-4).
You are correct- the way you describe her twirling her hair and looking away quickly is a major IOI.
Ammo is buffered enough by socials that it is considered appropriate for work. The Anone is still there, so the attraction will be too- but she will be a lot more comfortable with the socials mixed in. Since you are not a newbie to pheromones themselves, I will suggest MX116 as well. It has been shown to have a calming effect on women, perhaps that would nullify your concerns of being too Anone overbearing. If you have any more questions let us know, we are here to help. Best of luck,
Moonwhisper
Thanks for the suggestions!I might buy Instant Shine / Instant Honesty / Ammo.4x for the first 2 sounds interesting. AlexanderG
The Mens Guide was very useful,thanks! Mco
Thanks for the sugestions!I saw some reviews and seems mx116 can make women pretty touchy.Wish there were more reviews.I might buy it.
For the Instant Openess I think my SoE is able to cover the effect.
A314 sounded good at first but i think it would make me seem untouchable.
Ammo seems pretty safe
I have to say that your intro is brilliant. Its always a pleasure to read someone who values themselves enough to have a go at it like you did. Great going and it earned you a double GC. I’ll be sending that out in a few minutes.
I couldn’t agree more with everyone as far as suggestions. Its just as nice to come into a post and have everything all wrapped up by the generous great natured users of this amazing community you have discovered .
The only thing I might add is watch the oneitis as we like to call it in the PUA community when a guy gets so stuck on a woman that is all he sees. There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who has options. I would start flirting with everyone around her to let her know that you do have those options, but on the same hand flirt with her a little bit more so that she feels special. You sound as if you are doing a bang up job already though and just keep at it and stay the course.
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