Caramello, thanks for the long intro!
Now, I suggest you start with Ammo, it’s a great product, well tested and loved by many here - especially to help with the result you are after.
In addition, the socials like Instant Openness and Instant Honesty help in my experience.
I’d like you to have a good read of The Mens Guide, then take a look at the sample section of the smartmones store, you can experiment with an assortment of inexpensive trial size to-go products.
Let us know if you have any more questions and please return and let us know about your results, it’s very interesting 