Hello everyone! 29 year old young professional here, just newly introduced into the world of pheromones, and completely surprised from my research.
I started on this path because I was very curious about explaining what has seemed to be a pattern in my life. I would always seem to get a warm and friendly reception from those of the opposite sex, but I always found at work that my male coworkers attitudes towards me would start off ok but eventually there would be a few (usually the more alpha of the coworkers) who would get very testy and explode around me from time to time for seemingly nothing at all.
Very odd and very consistent reactions from a particular demographic despite me doing almost EVERYTHING I could think of to be friendly and professional at all times. I stumbled on some readings about pheromones in the work place, and low and behold almost everything I’ve read points to a possibility that my natural mones might be the culprit.
That’s why I plan on trying A314 as an experiment into this. It would be incredible if this offers some sort of balance to my office life and on the road.
Also, what other products would help a young professional? Sure having help with the opposite sex is great, but what will give me an edge in everything else?
Sounds like to me this could be a simple social issue here. For example, if you are doing everything friendly, they might just not like you at all because you are that friendly guy. Not everyone that you meet will like you, not everyone you meet will get along with you, and not everyone you are attracted to is attracted to you. Just some general stuff that might be the case as opposed to your natural pheromone output.
If people are getting testy around you, it could be you are too friendly and you run the risk of being a pushover if that makes sense. Being firm with others does not make you rude - it’s about self respect and not bending over.
Anyway, that was just kind of the speculation that I got from your post on others reactions to you.
A314 is a great pheromone, not necessarily one that I would recommend someone start for their first pheromone. It’s very subtle and to be honest I thought I was quite experienced in pheromone usage. When I started using it, I didn’t quite grasp exactly what was going on around others and in myself. After pretty consistent usage I slowly began realizing what was going on. I won’t tell you because I don’t want to skew your results.
If you do choose to get a314, I would also try getting another pheromone like instant shine. If you plan on using a314 a bit socially, IS will take the seriousness out of it.
What other things are you looking for out of pheromones? What are your other goals if any?
Let us know if you’re looking for anything else so we can better recommend you some other pheromones.
It seems from your introduction that you have already done plenty of research into pheromones and some self evaluation too.
If your co-workers are generally male I advise mixing A314 with IH. You will get respect and make work life a lot smoother. I am just wondering why on the past they were testy with you…maybe they felt threatened by you and saw you as competition. Like you said it could be your natural pheromone signature.
Anyway you are doing the right thing in experimenting with A314 but remember to just apply I drop at first and the IH will create deeper bonds with your male colleagues.