Hey, Im Richard a 21 year old ABC (american born chinese) male. I live in south broward which is like 20 minutes or so from Miami. I work as a Pharmacy Technician at the hospital while going to community college during the day.I was looking up Androgynous information for a short paper i had for botany class and somehow out of curiousity i fumbled on androtics. The amount of support and congregation on here not to mention the amount of users definately persuaded me to see what “pheros” could do.
For my personality I’d say I’m more reserved than just shy because when I’m in a situation where my comfort level is decent and the right crowd is present I can be really social. I don’t really have a problem conversing and making eye contact with women in the literal sense but my personality is rigid in the sense that I treat every situation in a purely professionally congenial way. Basically that means that I rarely joke or flirt with women even when the situation is appropriate or otherwise. Really beautiful girls (8.2-9) phase me in the respect that I don’t think they’ll “get” me so I avoid approaching these girls almost as if I’m an Aestheticist (racist for looks haha). My height is about 5’5-5’6 at 160 lbs. and as far as my approach I’d say I’m a romantic
wallflower who doesn’t go out much. My face, eyes, and lips are my main selling point with women deeming myself fairly attractive.I’m looking to garner respect from people in general BUT not like a star as I’d figure thats hard to pull off with my own persona. As far as women goes I myself want to be more of a social wizard by loosening up my lighter side so i can flirt/joke more
in order to make women find me as a good-great prospect. As bad as it sounds I tease 5-6 rating girls quite a bit when i can tell their into my look
but when I find the apple of my eye I’m inclined to LTR’s since I’m more emotionally inclined when it comes to women so One night stands don’t do it for me.
I mainly want to command some respect when I go to work and a bit at school is nice. Also want something with self effects to induce or at least help coerce myself into a more fun lighter attitude so I may engage the ladies properly =). If theres a way to sort of melt awkward barriers with women I’m interested in that as well.
On a side note if theres specific application points for duration/ diffuse difference/ particular situations I’d be highly appreciative of some insight into that as well.
Thanks for all the support and replies in advance =)
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