Thanks for the info!
To help with shyness, definitely check out Instant Openness. IO will relax both you and those around you, everyone will be friendlier and conversation will flow more easily.
A314 is an awesome trust/respect/confidence work mix that is marketed towards males here, though I have used it successfully by buffering or softening it with other products. They used to have work mixes for women, MX134 and MX300, but not now. If you’re interested, you can read about my experiences here A314 on a woman? . I personally prefer the oil version but it’s a bit pricey, but they do have a more affordable alcohol spray version called A314b, which you can find in the mens section as well.
For dating, it depends on your personality and the kind of vibe you want to give off. If you are naturally feminine, Instant Sexiness/b will enhance this in a soft, sexy way. One of the newer experimental test mixes for women is MX397, which many women have found to give off more of a alpha sexy vibe. If you do an advanced search, with MX397 as search by title, you can find out more detailed info.
I hope this helps, and please join us in the womens section, and feel free t ask any questions you may have. There are many experienced ladies who are more than happy to help! 