Hi,
I’m Victoria and I live in Natchitoches Louisiana. Yep the deeeeep South lol. I am not here to meet my knight in shining armour…since I have already met Him…and married Him
I am here because I just turned 45 (Hubby is 52) and I am getting to that age where…How do I put this…well, things are slowing down I guess
Don’t get me wrong, I am very much in love with my Husband and vice versa but it would just make me feel good mentally to know my Husband still has “those” feelings for me. I am sure He does but as we grow older, every day life invades and things take a back burner. We have children, two grandsons (who are with us ALOT) jobs, bills, blah blah You know what I mean? It would be nice to just spice things up a little.
We just got the two grandsons back with their parents who are Army and back from Iraq. The kids are out of the house…well almost, but soon the second one will be flying the coop. So, it just seems like a really great time to liven things up a bit.
I really know nothing about pheromones, well I shouldn’t say that, anyone with a high school education knows something about it, but I do not know much beyond the basics. I may be so far off base here that I’m flying out the stratosphere somewhere but it seems like using these (pheromones) could brighten things up a bit. Maybe I’m wrong, no idea, but one can hope ay?
Probably all of this is TMI lol but hey I think this is the basic idea behind this site right? (or wrong?) Either way, I’d love to know lol.
hi victoria. i was just going to reply to your other thread in the women’s section letting you know to come here to the intro section
pheros can certainly liven things up. are there any specific goals you wish to reach? there are products to brighten the mood, enhance the bedroom activities, or to deepen and broaden conversations.
do let us know more info on how you wish you to liven things up and we can give you great recommendations.
Hello Victoria and welcome
I can’t improve on the suggestions DJ has provided for you.
However I do suggest you read more about them here: The Womens Guide
Also - spend some time in the official Womens Forum here, there are some top chicks in there that will be happy to share their experiences and opinions.
Be sure to return and let us know about your results
Thank you for the fast answers!! This seems like an amazing group of people here I am very glad I stumbled across you. As for what I am looking for…well, to begin with I found out at age 38 that I have a birth defect known as Arnold Chiari Malformation 1. Mouthfull I know. For fast easy explanation, the cerebellum (bottom) of my brain is not where it should be, it sticks down through the opening at the bottom of my skull where my spine goes and all those nerves. It causes a sort of blockage like a cork. Strange I know…leave it to me to end up with something obscure trust me, people who know me well, aren’t surprised at all LOL. One of the most debilitating effects of this is extreme fatigue. Not yawn I have had a long week, wow I’m tired. But more like, it’s morning? I feel like I have not slept in a week after being run over by a train. Needless to say this fatigue can interfere with lifes little pleasures as well as the big ones
What I need is something that will not only create more interest in me to my Husband, but more interest in me to Him. Wow that made no sense sighs. I am very attracted to my Husband…believe me! But being this tired often leaves me thinking more along the lines of ok we can do this…I guess. Rather than come on Honey lets gooooooooooo. I want a little more lets goooooooooo. I do understand that it is normal to be less “enthusiastic” as we age (darnit) but I would love to have a little of that enthusiasm back, as well as be very attracting to my Husband. Tall order I know. But a girl can wish right? lol
some of the ladies who will check in later can help you more on this, but there are two consumer products for women to help in that sense. one is instant sexiness a. this gives off a more dominant sexy vibe; many people call it the “angelina jolie” vibe. the other is instant sexiness b. this gives off more of a playful and flirty vibe, dubbed the “marilyn monroe” vibe. which one you choose is dependent on your personality (both in daily life and in the bedroom) and what your husband responds to best. there is an important buzzword around here called “congruency.” in simple terms, you want pheros to match and complement the vibe you give off. this will help your results.
additionally, there is another product, ishine, that gives the user a “shiny” and vibrant vibe, which then rubs off on the targets. there is no direct correlation of this product to a “come on honey let’s goooooo” feeling, but sometimes we just need a little boost in the day that can lead to other things.
lastly, if you choose to get some pheros for your husband, there are two products for him. one is ammo, and the other is tuth. they both come in heavy strength versions, which are best for older users. ammo stands for “ammunition” to use in attracting women, and they both stand up to their names. getting pheros for a SO is a bit tricky in that your husband must choose to wear them (and also be congruent), and you will know what he is wearing. however, many women here have gotten pheros for their SO and found great results. your husband can get a little confidence boost from these products and naturally help promote the good times.
Hi there and welcome to the forum. I think you might not have any time left for us once you get your new mones and you and hubby get err, “BUSY” ! LOL…
In all seriousness I would say that jayarea has hit the proverbial nail on the head and provided you with incredibly valuable answers to all your questions. I really wouldn’t have anything to offer without diminishing his already brilliant answer, hint hint. With that in mind I would say follow his suggestions. He is leading you in the right way.
I only other thing I would add is just remember that pheromones are not magic, but they are damn near as close as you can get. Usually when we change our mones signature around the ones we know the best it might take them a few extra days to get acquainted with the new signature. Be patient and in a few days time, bango–in more ways than one
Thank you ALL so much for your suggestions. Actually not just for your suggestions but just for being here. Some things are just not all that easy to talk about and you have created a safe, easy environment in which to talk. It just feels good knowing there is a place I can go …for questions, concerns, or just to “talk”. Thank you!!
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