Bit about me- I am an undergrad college student (female) near Boston and in desperate want of getting out of “the crowd”. I know that I’m not bad looking at all, but it seems that my own pheromones are on strike… And I often feel uncomfortable around some people when they don’t really notice me. It’d be nice for once to walk into a room and have people stop and stare, lol.
I’m not really looking for pheros that make guys want to jump in bed- I’m more after some type of phero that will make me more noticeable, more comfortable, and more attractive (all the while, NOT giving off the vibe that inside I’m screaming “I’m sex-deprived! Someone wanna help fix my problem?”). Again, nothing TOO ‘sexy’. Just something to boost up my quality of social life…anyone have recommendations?
Also, what’s a good phero for parties? It’d be nice to have a little sum-sum tucked up my sleeve for when I want to really hit it off with people, or make a good impression.
Welcome to the forums…I recommend Instant Shine, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, Lust After Me, and Instant Sexiness. Hope that helps. I hope you get satisfied results.
Shine will boost your confidence. It can also lift your mood and the people around you. It is good for social.
Instant Sexiness A and B will get you the attenion you want. IS A will make you sexy, tough and attractive , the Angelina Joie type. IS B will make you sexy, femoinine and attractive, the Monroe type.
Hey there Axus, welcome to the party! Er, i mean forums! I know what you mean about trying to stand out a bit more. It’s not always the cutest person who gets noticed though, alot of it has to do with presence. I’m told i’m quite cute, but sometimes when i go to clubs i see uglier guys with the hottest women there because they know how to act. Just tossing that one out there.
I completely agree with James’ assessment. Those two products would be the best for you and both come in to-go sizes (40 sprays instead of 200, and each spray is about .86% of a regular size bottle spray because the atomizer is smaller) if you wanted to try them out before ordering a larger amount.
Revivia, why would you suggest the products that you did? In particular, why would you suggest Lust After Me when she stated that she didn’t want anything too sexy? That’s the whole purpose of that mix, to drive the guys wild. Try to read new member’s wants more carefully and match their needs to the best products… don’t just list off every product in the women’s section.
Welcome to the forum and the magical world of Pheros!
Quick question for you - You mention that you are uncomfortable around people sometimes. Do you have trouble starting/creating conversation with people? If that if your biggest problem I have two suggestions
The first is Instant Sexiness A - It’s gives you a Confident and Sexy phero signature and from what I’ve heard will have a corollary effect of boosting your own confidence. (which helps you if you are feeling uncomfortable)
The second item I would suggest is Instant Shine - This stuff totally boosts your mood, makes you happy, and makes people just want to be around you (because your happy and being around you makes them happy)
Finally the third item is Instant Openness - Now that you are feeling confident, sexy and in a great mood the last item for being the center of the party is being chatting it up with people around you.
Those three products + some determination to make sure you put youself out there should produce great results - just remember that you have to actually WANT to have fun and be social for the phero’s to really do their work. Push yourself towards the middle of the room and try to engage people (which should be easier with IO on).
Revivia why do you recommend those products? What will they do for her? How will they work together? What has been your experience with them? Isn’t LAM out of stock and awaiting copulins before returning to store? ISexi A or B? Axus said she wasn’t looking for the empty sex vibe, so I would not recommend LAM anyway. Dude, I know you have the knowledge, so share some of that wealth wont yah .
Axus: The good news is James came to your rescue and offered some great advice. He’s offered some great advice about the Ishine and Isexi A and B, but maybe you should also consider MX135 as well.
Its an experimental mix, but tried, tested and loved by many ladies. I personally think it will make you more noticable, center of attention while still holding true to girly-girl. Chocolate in scent, very subtle and does not make men aggressive in their pursuit of you.
Tisha23 will come around and offer her expert advice on mones for you as well, plus she’s a babe and has that female thing down tight.
Welcome to the forum. I totally get you on being more noticed. I love that and so I use the MX135. I know that recommending experimental mixes is not for first time users but this product is not strong and very girly.
The scent is not strong but soft and sends out a subtle, sexy vibe. It will make you the life of the party.
You said you want some party pheros. Well what kind of crowd do you want to attract at this party and what vibe do you want to give of. Here we need to be very careful with what we recommend because Androtics is all about quality and I want to ensure I get enough information to recommend you get the best product for your situation.
Hi Wrlprchnx~
First of all, to answer to your question, it’s that I’m usually the kind of person who feels more comfortable talking to someone when the other person is eager to maintain conversation. Sometimes I’m fine with leading it, but for the most part, the conversation dies when I have said all that I can, and the person I’m chatting with doesn’t have a response.
Also, a question in response to YOUR answer- you recommend Instant Openness as well- is that supposed to be more for me than those around me? And will it really make much of a difference if Instant Shine + Instant Sexiness helps give me a lighter mood and more confidence?
Kind of a combination - It affects both yourself and people around you.
I find that when I’m wearing IO, words just kinda spill out of my mouth. Likewise with the people around me (which is tha major complaint about IO, it sometimes seems like everyone around you has motormouth).
If you find that conversations tend to die when the topic runs out of steam IO should definetly help… When you are weaing enough of it conversations have this astounding ability to seemingly never stop - new topics seem to constantly come up.
Quick secondary suggestion - do you have many hobbies/ activities which make you passionate? If you find that conversations always seem to be short and then there is nothing left to say a great way to maintain the conversation is by steering it towards something you are passionate about.
For example, I love playing Ultimate Frisbee… if I’m at a party chatting it up with someone and I feel like the conversation is waning I steer it towards Ultimate.
(I.E. So are you much of a sports person? if they say yes then we talk about sports and the conversation is easily transitioned to Ultimate once they are done talking about the sports they like, if they say no then I talk about how I wasn’t really a team sports person but I tried out Ultimate and it was so much fun + sporty but in a different and more cool way)
My name is Tisha and I am the resident hostess and Pheroguide here on Pherotalk.
You have gotten some great suggestions from most of the members here.
I would suggest starting out with a few to-go bottles.
Instant sexiness is a must have for any girls arsenal. There are 2 kinds.
A which is sexy attractive confident strong more Alpha in personality. Think of the Angelina Jolie persona.
B which is softer, more girly, kittenish, still sexy and confident but on another level. Think Marilyn Monroe persona.
Now these are sexy without screaming “do me”. You can choose the one that fits you and your needs best.
MX135 which the lovely Diatris suggested is great. It is a advanced test product and does not fall under the guarantee but its also one of the favorites here on Pherotalk.
Its the “super star” mix. Flirty sassy sexy fun. Centers attention on you. Again it dosnt come on to strong and can be worn anywhere but it is great in a social atmosphere.
IO will help increase interaction with others. Its chatty casual fun, has nice social pull, can be sexy but any mone can be turned in that direction which if your interested we can teach you later once you get started.
This should get you off to a good start. If you need help or have questions let us know.
And I often feel uncomfortable around some people when they don’t really notice me. It’d be nice for once to walk into a room and have people stop and stare, lol.
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