Hello from MutantBonobo

Hello, I’m recently single and am interested in what pheromones have to offer getting out on the dating scene. I look forward to enriching my knowledge base on the subject. I’ve just turned 50, am in great physical shape, but rather shy and reserved when meeting women.

Hey Mutant Bonobo, welcome to pherotalk.

If you’re looking to enrich your knowledge, i highly encourage you to do some research in the men’s forums and learn a bout the different pheromones this company has to offer. The best type of learning anyone can do is active learning where they immerse themselves right in the subject matter.

That being said, just a question or two, how did you find this place? Who did you hear about pheromones from?

Since you’re looking to use pheromones for an advantage for dating, I would recommend 2x strength ammo. You can consider getting 1x to test for the appropriate strength and get the right sweet spot. See the sweet spot testing guide. Men at an older age (30+) begin to produce less none in their bodies so that’s why you can start out with the 2x strength over the 1x, though each has their own advantages.

If you’re a little shy, I would also recommend getting some IO to help break the ice.

If you have any more questions, please let us know and we’ll do our best to answer them.

Hi MutantBonobo - Welcome to Pherotalk. :slight_smile:

If you are looking to take advantage of the GC, you will need to give us a little more info about the sort of situations and interactions you want to enhance with pheros - Have a read of this thread:

Introductions - New Users, Say “Hello” Today and Get $25! at PheromoneTalk.com

And it will help us to offer better advice. :slight_smile:

However, the good news is that as you are into your 50s, you have the full range of phero choices and effectiveness open to you. As we age, our Androstenone output generally falls, whilst the tolerance/responsiveness to none generally increases as a woman ages - So by the time they hit their mid-late 30s, you can be pretty versatile with pheros. Younger guys, dating younger women need to be much more careful as they have a comparitively higher output and younger women are more sensitive.

However, there is a lot more about mones that can influence interpersonals and percieved status in a whole lot of ways that don’t involve the risks of none. I hope you will enjoy exploring them.

Initial pheros you may be interested in include:

1 - Social Pheros. For helping to meet/get to know people:
Instant Shine - Creates a happy and good to be around feeling
IO - Promotes free flowing conversation.
IH - Aids closeness and bonding

2 - Sexual Pheros:
Ammo - Probably the best starter phero, this is a balanced social/sexual/attractive mix that will go down most anywhere without coming off as overly horny. Because of your age, you may well benifit from the 2x or “heavy” version - I know I do.

TUTH - Much more of a sexual product that is best used with someone you are already in a relationship with. However, by our age, it can be useful in pickup when used alongside the status pheros. Again, the stronger version might be most useful but you should maybe test this one at standard strength first? I find TUTH and A314 oil used together makes for a great “man of status and unashamed sexuality” mix - that suits my natural reticence very well. :slight_smile:

IJ - A strongly sexual and in your face attraction product. Use this one with care as it can backfire as often as it works but when it does work - wow! However, it can also easilly trigger agression in guys around you. Again, very powerful/attractive when combined with A314.

3 - Status:
IG - Creates a smooth/suave and capable impression but fairly light and great for general socialising.

A314 - Probably the most subtle and complex phero here that works in all sorts of interesting ways to enhance your personality if you can work with it behaviour wise and live-up to its considerable promise. It promotes trust, respect, capability and strength, with a strong alpha vibe that can set you apart and above everyone around you. If you are looking for a LTR , this one is a must as it implies “catch” in all sorts of ways. It can be steered in various social and sexual directions by jusicious use of a number of the above products.

Welcome to pherotalk Mutant!

In order to issue that $25 gc to you I need to know more about your personality and how you got to know about pheromones

I am an INTP, if that means anything to you (from the Briggs-Meyer personality inventory) Mostly cerebral in my approach to life, very analytical (I am a software engineer). However, have a highly developed sense of humor. I am also physically fit and quite muscular, so I think my testosterone level is pretty high (this should relate to a certain signature in my own pheromone production). Couple these with my reserved nature (around people I do not know) and I have been told that I can come off as aloof. This is not the case, I’m just slow to warm up to people. People have been surprised, once they get to know me.

Being a nerd and always reading and researching, I learned about pheromones a long time ago from various sources but have been actively researching them a fair amount in the past couple of weeks.

Sometimes, I go out to clubs with friends, other times I go to meetups (see meetup.com) for various topics I’m interested in, or social situations. I generally would shy away from getting into a relationship with somewhat at work (don’t dip your pen in the company ink well and all that). Although on a certain level, I would welcome a fleeting amorous experience, I am really more interested in getting to know someone as opposed to just jumping in the sack.

Thanks mutant. You got all the help you already need to start off.

Your gc was issued! :wink: