Hello everyone! I am Chris, a 38 year old gay polyamorous male into the BDSM scene. As a profession, I am a fragrance designer. My love for fragrance is what led me to be interested in pheromones.
I also do Human Resources for multiple companies. In this role, I need to be taken seriously, come accross as no-nonsense while maintaining some compassion.
I consider myself an Alpha male in almost every aspect of my life, but am often taken for granted because I am not a jerk and am non-confrontational. I am not shy - am very outgoing and friendly and usually very well liked by everyone.
What I am looking for is something that will command respect without inviting confrontation. Any suggestions?
A314 would be the standard pheromone for your situation, but it can be harsh and commanding. Confrontational in some arenas, especially if you run up against someone in a position of authority and is insecure about it. You’ll be surprised how many there are.
You might want to give Instant Gentleman a try. Smoother, warmer, more compassionate and less intimidating than A314.
I would agree about the Instant Gentleman. It seems to signify a distinguished man with the experience needed to be taken seriously, yet not the least bit jerk-ish. If it’s too smooth, and you’re looking for something more aggressive, try something with -none in it.
A314 is also a good bet, but it is less laid back than IG. It is more commanding, and leaves less room for others to be in a first or commanding position.
It can be harsh, I suppose, but it is also very subtle and complex. Takes some getting used to, but it is definitely a phero worth using.
I think the A314 is a really good option for you. It’s one of the forum fave’s for work for the guys as it’s like an instant respect sauce
Instant Openness might also be worth looking at for work. It’s great for improving communication as it makes you and those around you more comfortable and chatty…and that’s pretty much always a good thing for work
If you are interested in phero’s for other areas of your life, in particular your lovelife, there’s one that’s specifically formulated for man-to-man attraction. I can’t remember if it’s called Mystery man or Mystery Boy but it’s got good reviews here on the forum
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