Hi there Jenna and BIG JUICY happy welcome from me. Man I wish my mom was as cool as you are. She was totally not into her baby boy dating. I think its amazing you have taken such an interest in his progress with the ladies.
There are a really lot of good options for him here and I think we can find something for him. From reading your post, while I normally agree wholeheartedly with CoolKatDC, after all he is one cool Kat
, I think I might actually recommend what he is saying stay away from. I think Ammo would work most excellent in this situation. Most likely if he is anything like 99% of the guys out there, than he suffers from TV overload. It fills boys/mens heads with silly little notions that in order to get the girl you have to be nice and buy her stuff. Always there to listen and just be the doormat.
There’s a time and place to be a gentleman, but there is also the ever present girl who likes the bad boy. The guy who the good guy thinks erroneously is being mean to the girl, a jerk. In truth its the bad boy, the proverbial jerk, who simply has boundaries, knows when to say no, knows his limits and does not get used. He simply is being himself.
Most good guys think the only way to a girls, well you know what guys want
is to buy her stuff. To treat her nice and do everything for her. Unfortunetly what he is really subconsciously saying is that he has no boundaries and if he can’t even say no to her, than how is he to protect her when real danger arises? NOT a good place to be. In actuality it is projecting a image of deceit. How so you may be asking yourself right now? He is using nice to get something in return, or at least he is hoping to get something in return.
I mean you no offense and please don’t take this the wrong way. I can say this with authority, because it is who I used to be to. I had to kill my inner wussy. I had to break out of the nice and comfortable shell of a boy and set my boundaries. I am sure your boy will progress too.
I would actually recommend David DeAngello’s Double Your Dating for him. It’s like $20 bucks but a FANTASTIC place to start. It simply teaches the very basics of a woman’s psychology and why things like Mystery Method works. That would be the next step he should take book wise. He might get embarrassed but it will help. Of course I am available to consult with too, no charge, just one guy helping another
. He can call me on the Hotline and I will be more than happy to get him on the path of righteousness. It’s a glorious path…
OK onto the mones. Ammo is going to do that trick. Ammo has an aggressive molecule called androstenone in it (-none) and while yeah it can cause tension it sounds as if your boy is simply being a doormat rather than the man, the protector, the one who will not take crap. Seriously good stuff, but not crazy like Ijerk or TUTH. It’s buffered enough to do the trick.
I’m sure all of us working together we can make this work.
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