I am a 49 year old guy who just went through a nasty divorce but got full custody of our 6 year old son. Wife decided meth was the most important thing in her life. I don’t have much free time to get out much but have decided it’s time to get my personal life in order. I have dated a few girls but nothing that I want to spend the rest of my life with.
I am a firm believer in numbers when trying to find success in a good relationship. The more opportunities relates to better odds. I know it is much different being single when I was 34 year old single guy vs 49 year old single father. I have read the mystery method and found a lot of stuff sounded familiar from when I was young and single.
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I have lost 25 pounds and worked myself getting back into shape and spent some bucks on some cosmetic surgery. 5’ 10" blonde hair blue. When I go to clubs, I get some 20 somethings hitting on me but this is not what I am looking for. Women in there 30’s, 40’s are what I am looking for.
Starting to feel pretty good about myself and was wondering about pheromones. I have read a lot about them here and other websites.
I was thinking about ordering a double strength ammo (do to my age) from reading a lot of comments about them here for starters. Help me out with some suggestions…
Welcome to the forum Skeeter! Sorry to hear about your divorce and your wife’s problem, but glad to hear about the custody. What you suggest sounds good, and you might couple it with another social such as Instant Openness or Instant Shine, or try Ammo with A314 at some point. Depends on where you are and what kind of woman you’re looking for. What kind of personality would you say you have? That can affect the reactions you get to pheros. Congruence is important, as you’ll learn if you read. Good luck, and I hope you have a great time, regardless of what happens!
Hi Skeeter. I know Oklahoma well. I’m originally from Arkansas. I’m sorry to hear about your nasty divorce. The pheros Vespero recommended were the first ones I bought. They work really well. You won’t be disappointed with this combination. Welcome to the forum and be sure to keep us posted on your results.
Also sorry about what happened. I would also go with what vespero said and I have been getting a good response with CTTM 2 mix but when put into my hair. Good luck in finding your (one)
Sorry to hear about your divorce but gald to read that you are on your feet again.
Try AMMO. It makes girl attracted to you. It has a mild sexual attraction too. It is a ll rounder phero and can be used in many occassions. Ammo is very popular here.
IH will make girl closer to you. They will feel like knowing you for long time. It helps you to create closer bond with the girls.
Thanks for all the replies.
It’s funny as I used to be more outgoing but the stresses of raising a 6 yr old boy and not having much time to myself has changed me a bit. A bit more reserved and let things flow as before I was more aggressive and took control of the situation. Back in my early 30’s, I was a big time clubber, very outgoing and was a primary source of my entertainment and meeting females. For several years it was out of control and how I survived those years is amazing. It’s different now as the club scene is in my past and not something that I want to entertain anymore. Still enjoy going with friends though but mostly to blues or sports clubs.
I look at females a bit more different now as being a responsible parent is first priority. But an occasional night out and night with a fun woman is something that I still am open to.
I tend to be a good listener and ask questions to get a feel for the person. Probably the best description that I can come up with is more of a laid back personality and let things flow…
Still thinking of something along the lines of Ammo and a mix of something??? I wear Acqua Di Gio by the way.
I think AMMO would be a great choice along with some IH for deeper more meaningful conversation and connection. You want to meet some quality womens since you have a son to think about.
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Also glad to hear about your sense of responsibility. I’m only 17, and so have no children of my own (not for a while, but one day!) but coming from a domestic background where things were not always the best and me and my siblings did not always feel like the top priority, I can appreciate a parent who makes decisions based on his obligations and care for his child.
Hm, I think Ammo with Instant Shine or Instant Honesty would be best to start out with. You’re looking for a fun night occasionally, and A314 can make things too serious, or create strong emotional reactions quickly, and you might not be looking for that at the moment. Keeping it with Ammo and the Instants should keep things light, fun, and flexible.
Also, it seems like a lot of people wear Acqua di Gio. What does this smell like? I’m looking for a good cover scent/stand-alone cologne.
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