I have been reading up on this site and am really excited to have found a real forum!!
I am looking for advice on which phero’s will ramp up my sexual spark for my husband. We have been married for 3 years, but dated for several before that. (known each other for about 10 total). We have a very open, honest and warm relationship … as other posters have commented we are a perfect team: just the bedroom is missing! I seem to have a very low libido, getting actually turned on only about once a month (probably ovulation time)… even during high school and college was never that interested or felt a need for sex. (I am addressing the low libido with herbs, diet, no hormonal birth control, and checking hormone levels with my DR.)
So… this is what has gotten me interested in pheromones! –> I have met about 5 guys in my life which made my stomach flip and got me hot under the collar (I just am not sure how to describe these few intense attractions … I was flushed and thinking about them all the time in a strong sexual way… I would have done it in a car/elevator/ etc… maybe they were using pheromones!! lol.) I want to find something that will make me that hot for my husband. These guys ranged from a little pudgy to svelte, short to tall, handsome to plane … but I noticed that all these men tended to be alpha types, or even arrogant… and most were older than me (some even in their 50’s and I in my 20’s) but strong confident dominance was the similar trait with all of them.
My hubby tends to be more submissive / less aggressive. I am thinking about getting TUTH, and A314 for him. I am also curious about P83 and Ammo as well as how to combine these things. My plan would be for him to put them on as he is getting home from work so we could enjoy them for the evenings!
Thank you so much for any and all thoughts / advice!
So you and your husband need something to spice things up huh? Well I’ll definitely suggest you buy TUTH as it’s a real turn on for women, especially inside the bedroom and during ovulation time. But outside of those two situations it’s not safe for your husband to wear it because it’ll make other people think he’s a horn dog.
P83 is a putative and should be tried AFTER you’ve tried the consumer products for at least a month or more. I honestly don’t want to recommend it to you because P83 doesn’t come with the same guarantee that these other products have so stay away from them for now.
Sorry to hear about the slight mismatch you have going on.
If you have tried a lot of different things, you may want to see a physician to see if there is a hormonal imbalance. In women - as odd as it may seem - the levels of testosterone (small but present) often play a key role in a woman’s se drive.
At the same time, a lack of aggression or a little too much submissiveness may play an emotional/psychological role but I am probably getting out on a limb there. Everyone’s relationship is unique in many ways so that part is hard to comment on.
I would tell you to read the thread in my signature block for married guys. It may give you some insight into some products and strategies your husband could follow if he is interested.
Thank you so much, and I will read your thread! … I am currently getting hormones looked at by my DR too… but thank you for such a thorough response - its really good to remind people that those play a role too!
At first when I read your intro. I was like this is a tough one. I will have to do my research seeing that it’s all physical with you and you may need to consult a doc.
As I read further, I was shocked that you head the nail right on the head as to what the problem is but somehow you might not want to straight out admit it cuz it’s your hubby and you love him.
You definitely can get those urges and so it’s not on your end. We all love an alpha male who is aggressive, he might not make the best husband but it will surely get us wet 85% of the time.
Good times, A314 and TUTH may assist in that area but if your husband doesn’t mind i’d introduce him to the forum so you two could start working some bedroom magic together. Most men have an aggressive dominant side you will have to find some way to get it out.
These guys ranged from a little pudgy to svelte, short to tall, handsome to plane … but I noticed that all these men tended to be alpha types, or even arrogant… and most were older than me (some even in their 50’s and I in my 20’s) but strong confident dominance was the similar trait with all of them.