I’m in kind of a unique situation that I’m seriously thinking of trying pheromones to see what happens. I have a quite beautiful young lady with whom I’ve been spending an incredible amount of time over the past few months. She stays over on average of once a week (usually lots of wine involved) loves back rubs, foot massages, etc. but that’s as far as it’s gone. We’ve talked about it and she says she has virtually no libido and I believe her.
So, am very tempted to see if one or more of these products might assist in kicking her libido into gear After looking around a bit I’m leaning toward “Turn Up The Heat” which I think applies to the situation, but am open for suggestions…
I’m afraid this sounds like a friendzone alert to me and just hitting her with TUTH would be about as effective as suddenly taking your cock out and asking her to have a shufty. Sudden exposure to a product as determinedly sexual as TUTH is not always the best solution - even though you two have bags of comfort and closeness together.
The “no libido” thing may or may not be true - At least in the way she feels no attraction to you. So whatever you do, you are going to have to reposition yourself and your attitude/behaviour/body language etc towards her in order to create more sexual tension. Then don’t talk - ACT and yes, you have to accept the risk that this might backfire and you lose your friendship with her.
You may need to look at a few other products to help her open up further and to turn her-on in a slightly less brutal way or to raise your status/value in other ways.
You say she’s young, just how old is she? - this is quite important as response to certain pheros does change with age and the sort of products/doses that might work well on someone co-aged with you may not work at all well on someone 15-20 years younger.
Points taken. First around the “friendzone alert”, without going into a lot of details I have skills. I’m new here and not sure what I’m allowed to say but will leave it at that. If I just want to get laid that’s easily doable. I have a deeper interest in this woman.
From what I think I know the no libido thing is at least somewhat medically based. I was at the pharmacy with her and estrogen is very low plus she doesn’t have regular female cycles (like 1 in the past 2.5 years). She has always been super athletic which from what I understand can be a contributing factor.
Anyway, I am certainly open to suggestions. I may or may not elect to go down this road but it is interesting. I certainly do NOT want to do anything that would alienate her. If we only end up being friends that’s okay but not my preference. For what it’s worth I have been very up front about my intent with her. She is a former gymnast/cheerleader/bikini model and is used to guy only being after one thing, so I’ve agreed to take things slow. I just would like to speed them up a little if possible
Oh, and last but not least I’m 47 and she’s 39. Age difference yes but not too dramatic…
I’ve been in a similar situation before. There’s only so much you can do if a person has a legitimately low libido. If that’s an excuse, that’s one thing, but if it really is a low libido pheromones may or may not really help. They can only enhance what’s there, in a manner of speaking. Still, you never know until you try and there could be any number of different reasons for it. Keep us posted!
One thing is absolutely for certain: she definitely likes something that’s going on between us and doesn’t leave much time for me to see anybody else. We went out last night, are going out again tonight and to church on Sunday. She also spent the night last night (not unusual) and on the cab ride home laid her head in my lap and didn’t object to having her hair stroked & getting kissed
I have been playing around a bit with TUTH. Not going with a full squirt but roughly 1/2. I can’t really tell if it’s making a difference or not but again am new to all this. Again any suggestions as to what I might either combine it with or use instead would be greatly appreciated.
On another note, since Mickaelia mentioned the PUA topic I have been a long-time student of Ross Jeffries and am heading out to LA next month for a little refresher This little woman is my first real pursuit in some time - I took a couple of years off after back-to-back LTR’s so dusting off these skills for the first time in quite a while…
After looking around a bit I’m leaning toward “Turn Up The Heat” which I think applies to the situation, but am open for suggestions…
