Hello everyone, I am a 35 year old male who is engaged to me married at the beginning of next year. My fiance and I have been going through a serious drought in bed. It has been about 6/7 months since we last had sex. We had a serious talk and she isnt sure why her sex drive seems to be completly gone. Ther problem is that sex is a very serious issue and a “deal breaker” with her. Ive done some research and found that running reduces testaterone in the body which lowers sexual libido among a number of other factors. I am despret because I dont know whats wrong and she doesnt either. Can anyone give me advice on what pheramone can help get her aroused, if any. PLEASE give me serious advice because I dont want to end up getting left at the alter because I cant arouse my fiance. Thanks in advance. Ben
Hi there,
Welcome to the forum.
To end your sex drought, I recommend you try TUTH. It is good to sexually arouse her. This may help you to spice up your sex life again.
Try IH too. It can make her intimate with you. It can cause her to talk deeper to you. This will create the intimate environment.
Hope pheromones can help to solve your problem.
Good luck to you. Welcome again.
Cheers
Hi allafs,
Welcome to Pherotalk
To spice up sexual life, use Turn Up The Heat.
To increase intimacy, Instant Honesty should would be good, it is a chatty, on a deep intimate level.
Keep in mind that pheromones don’t act by themselves, but can help you If you know how to use them.
Please read What pheromones can do and what they cant do.
Good Luck
Best Regards
Hey allafs, welcome 
Wow, that is a kind of serious lack of sex… but i am pretty sure that some products here will help you overcome those diffulties. There is one thing that is not clear for me, it is only her sex drive that is down or both of you?
Anyways, turn up the heat will be a great product to start with, since it will spice things up. But there might also be some more complicated stuff that turn up the heat cannot help, did you ever talk to a doctor about this? Not trying to worry you, but might be a possibility to test the hormon level too
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Well since she is jogging and this reduces her testosterone levels, try giving her a sensual massage, and add some erotic stuff to it. I am a great beleiver in arousing all the senses. Not just the sense of smell.
A good body rub would get her feeling horny, hot sensual oils, try adding some tuth to some scented lavender oil which apparently women like, and rub her all over.
Get some make out music going and a erotic movie on the TV as well, all her senses will be ‘SHOCK and AWED’ (Reference george w bush 2003). Eyes, ears, touch, smell. and finally taste, what else is more erotic then CHOCOLATE!!!..
Good luck man.
Thanks so much for the advice Jamesbonded! I will definetly give those things a shot. I am willing to try anything to make sure that things work out.
You are welcome. I hope it helps.
Do let us know the result.
Hello Ben
Welcome to Pherotalk
How old is your GF ? Is she on the pill ? Sorry for the personal questions LOL
Dont panic we will help you get to the bottom of the problem there are the mones to help of course and other methods and solutions as well.
I suggest mone wise you start with TUTH and some IH for you to wear. Does she know you are exploring this option. Its ok to not say anything but if she was willing to where say Instant sexiness it may help as well.
If you have any questions or need help just ask.
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My girl is 25 and turning 26 in August and no she isnt on the pill or at least I dont think that she is. I know that she was looking in to it before the drought but could almost swear that she didnt end up on it. Dont worry about asking me personal questions, I want to find a solution and am willing to be blunt. And no she doesnt know that I am exploring this avenue. I am trying to do research on womens libido on my own in hopes of providing her with facts to back up any suspicions that I might have. Thats how I found the whole running causes a lower libido thing. I dont think that I can completly solve the problem myself but Im trying some under the raydar things to see if they help.
Well it shouldn’t be her age she is young enough that her libido she be in full gear so thats out.
If she did happen to go on the pill which is highly likely if she looked into it that can defiantly be it. Its notorious for killing the libido. She should ask her doctor to change the brand to something like Yasmin if that is the problem.
I assume you have talked to her about this and have asked why she thinks she is having trouble with her libido. If not I suggest you do and wear IH when you do it. What she tells you exactly may give you some clues as to whats going on. If its a physical or a physiological problem.
Sometimes something as simple as stress can bring it on. Is she stressed over the wedding ?
Tisha
I have to agree with what is being said. Instant honesty and tuth are amazing. especially when combined
Thank you ALL for the advice. I know that there isnt necessarily a magic bottle that can cure everything but even if it help a little I am greatful. I ordered “instant honesty” and “Turn up the heat” (which are the two that most of you recommended) and I am going to give them a try. Please keep your fingers crossed that they worked. Like I said before, I am skeptical about stuff like this but I am desperate and willing to try just about anything to fix the problem and my relationship. I will keep you guys posted on the results (ESPECIALLY if this stuff work!).
Well it shouldn’t be her age she is young enough that her libido she be in full gear so thats out.
>>>>>>>>Thats what Im saying. I think that her libido should be fine but to be honest we have gone through these kinds of droughts before but never for this length of time.
If she did happen to go on the pill which is highly likely if she looked into it that can defiantly be it. Its notorious for killing the libido. She should ask her doctor to change the brand to something like Yasmin if that is the problem.
>>>>>>Like I said, I dont think that she is on it because I figure that she wouldnt bother if she knows that we havent been intimate for a while (whats the purpose). BUT I will talk to her to make sure that isnt the case. Hopefully its as simple as her being on the pill and just having to have the doctor switch up the prescription for her.
I assume you have talked to her about this and have asked why she thinks she is having trouble with her libido. If not I suggest you do and wear Instant Honesty when you do it. What she tells you exactly may give you some clues as to whats going on. If its a physical or a physiological problem.
>>>>>I have talked to her about why she thinks that she is having trouble with her libido and she says that she doesnt know, which leads me to believe it could very posibly be chemical. And I ordered “instant honesty” this morning to try it out with “turn up the heat”. Im skeptical but am going to give it a shot and see what happens. Im desperate and am willing to try anything at this point. It cant hurt but may posibly help.
Sometimes something as simple as stress can bring it on. Is she stressed over the wedding ?
I am sure that she is stressed about the wedding. She does deal with ALOT of stress with work, her family and all the other normal stress that we deal with. She told me this weekend that sometimes she is like, “WOW! Im getting married” and is excited and there are times where she has the same thought but stressed about it. We are supposed to move in together before we get married and she has changed the date 3 times to later on. She has lived alone for a while and likes to be by herself sometimes when she is overly stressed. She isnt sure how she is going to be able to handle having to share her space with me, having someone to check in with, and not having the ability to just be alone when she needs to be.
What do you think?
Thanks for the advice so far and for your response in advance.
I suggest having a nice dinner night. Put on some Ammunition and instant oppeness for that. That should start off the evening nicely. Then aafter dinner, throw a spray off TUTH. And take things to the bedroom and see what happens.
Let me know if that helps