the axe revisited

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Hello all allow me to introduce my situation in a bit more detail,my name is Cameron out of Placerville Ca im a security guard by day,and husband and father full time.I have always been fascinated by the myriad of subtle happenings that go on witout most of us even taking notice,such as our reaction to scent.this interest led me here to allay my issues , let me explain.

ten years ago today during my jr year I was blessed with the chance to introduced to my future wife cielo,never before had i seen such a beutiful
girl,unfortunatly I was a bit of a loner(we’ve all heard this old story i know)but i was shocked by the fact that she aproached me,so confidence was never a stongsiut on my part.Despite my shortcummings she and fell very deeply in love and were soon living together.Many tragedies over the years occured testing our bonds , both mine and her mothers passing away within years of each other .we ended up having our first child and getting married following shortly came our second.

So heres the issue,throughout the last 4 years our sex life has begun to really dwindle as little as once a month im 23!Ive tried everything and and not bad in bed (this an outside opinoin from several past lovers not me)but she simplay has no sex drive or at least not concerning me.I understand after giving birth sex isnt always on her mind but it seems as though thers just no interest at all even when this is time. what do I do I dont want lose her and i feel shes slipping away

are pheremones the awnswer???

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A bit confused here if you met her ten years ago, you were 13 then, moved in shortly after and were married after that and now you are 23 and have been with her the whole time where down the line did you have the ability to have several past lovers opinions unless you were unfaithful?

Pheromones are not the end all be all and cannot be a magic fix to any relationship. That Cameron takes communication and expressing ones feelings from both points of view and working on the issue together as one entity (marriage) to set forth change. Whether that be attending counseling, reconnecting with one another, making date nights to feel the magic again in the relationship or any other means that you/her decide is needed to strengthen things back. It is hard and a long road but without it im sure you will not be happy going along the way you are and that is why you have reached out here to us.

Pheromones can however give you a little boost along the way like IH to strengthen the bond and embody you with a sense of trust that she may need to feel during your conversations about the issue at hand. They will not bring out anything but what is still inside and what feelings are there. I know the frustration behind you and understand the feeling of thinking they are slipping away and thats when she needs you the most to be supportive and explain that you want to work on things and bring that part of the relationship back rather than just describing it as a selfish physical need eventhough thats a big part of it.

Hope this is a little insight into your situation and this post would be better reserved in the mens forum section since you have already posted an introduction post.

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sounds to me like she could use a little seducing! yea I think these suckers might just help out, alot

get some turn up the heat and some Instant shine, and maybe some Instant Honesty these 3 will cover just about all aspect to a relationship, tuth for sexdrive vamp up, Shine to make everythink feel fresh and rejuvinated and Honesty to deepen ya’ll connetion, give a it’s us vs the world vibe =D

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Hi Cameron, welcome to the forum!

Unfortuntely, that happens in many relationships. But don’t despair, there is hope. One product that should help is Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty adds depth and intimacy to conversations, and strengthens emotional bonds. For most women, sexual desire is linked with that emotional bond, so the tighter and more solid the bond, the more she will desire sex.

Turn Up The Heat is intended to help create and strengthen female arousal, and spice things up in the bedroom. TUTH is best used in an already sexually charged environment, such as with your lady right before bed, or when she’s ready to take things further. :slight_smile:

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Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too :slight_smile:.

I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too :slight_smile:. Its cool!

Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one.

Welcome to the forum.

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just to clarify we have known each other for 10 year dated for seven and married for 3 date might be slighly off ,no need to be a stickler k

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wasnt trying to be an ass axe, just trying to understand everything more clearly, nor was i trying to judge your character or anything. Seemed i couldnt quite place my finger on if i was reading things right since you wrote during my junior year which could mean in high school , college, younger years, and that maybe the 10 years you wrote had been a typo.

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Tuth and shine. final answer

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no offense on my part just clarifying ,you had a valid point,takes a lot more than that 2 offend me :smiley:

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TUTH is a sexual pheromone and should elicit feelings of lust. I would also recommend A314. This gives you an air of authority, an Alpha Male vibe, which many women find very attractive. It would also help with your Security Guard job as it would help inspire respect and authority.

Aside from that there may be other issues in your marriage you and your wife might have to deal with that can’t be solved through pheromones. The low sex drive may be a symptom of a different underlying issue. Maybe have a talk with her about it? Or seek counseling together? In that case, IH might help her open up the lines of communication and help you guys talk out your problems.

Good luck.

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OK you have two obstacles here. Her and You. First off we’ll deal with her. I don’t know if she works or is a full time housewife/mother or what but here are a few things you can do to help her feel not only feel sexier and more attractive, but also more relaxed and free to be sexual.

1.) Take a couple of the more mundane household chores that she normally does and start doing them yourself, don’t make a big deal about it like you expect a thank you or something, just do it like it’s no big deal, don’t even mention it, we’re not aiming for gratitude here, just for her to have a little less on her plate to deal with.

2.) A lot of women (most by my estimate) are insecure about their looks, particularly where weight is concerned. On the sly confide in one of her female friends that you want her to feel a little better and that maybe the two of them joining a gym or even going for morning runs might be helpful. It gets her outside, gives her somebody to talk to and physical exercise makes people feel more attractive and sexual.

3.) Encourage her to take a class or some hobby that interests her, you can stay home with the kids one night a week while she takes a one or two hour class in something she finds interesting. You’d be surprised at how much going back to school or even simply taking one adult night class can make a woman feel like she’s more interesting.

4.) Arrange for daycare or a babysitter or something to get the kids out of your hair one or two nights a week. As much as kids are a source of joy and pride they are also a source of stress and exhaustion

5.) get a her a full spa treatment, massage, facial, hair, nails the whole bit, for a woman to feel turned on she has to feel that she herself is attractive and oddly enough nothing you say will matter, don’t believe me, try arguing with a hot chick that won’t stop saying she’s fat…it’s an exercise in futility. Let her get to where she’s satisfied with herself.

Now there’s you, while she’s feeling sexier, more confident and attractive, you have to work on you to make sure she see’s you as a brand new man…you 2.0 basically.

Hit the gym yourself, get a couple of new outfits that look cool, try something different with your hair, basically do what you would do if you weren’t with her and wanted to win her over.

As for pheromones, try 1 drop of A314 for a high value vibe, 2 sprays of ammo for all around sex appeal, instant honesty for a sense of connection and on those nights when the mood and timing are right a spray of tuth to take it over the top.