I am a 23 yo married woman who lives in new mexico. I have never used pheremones before. Nor do i know much about them beyond random searches to improve my drive. I have absolutely no sex drive. It is driving my husband crazy and making him feel very badly. So i decided that if the exercise and meditation alone wasent helping that i would search for some more options to fix my situation. He deserves more from me.
I work about 30 hours a week right now at a pizza place. Then i come home and take care of all my pets. I have a dog a cat a snake a frog 2 bunnies and 4 rats. We are a busy household. When im not doing anything pet related i play computer games, read, work out, and sew. I have a few close friends but i am very bad at making friends. Im not social and get shy/anxious in big crowds. So i obviously dont go out much. (i even met my husband playing online games. dated long distance for a year)
Since i moved the 650 miles from my home to be here with my then boyfriend, my sex drive seems to have died completely. I used to be a fiend now its hard to want to be intimate very often at all. We got married in march and even on the honeymoon i couldnt make myself interested more then once. He is very loving and patient and i want to be what he needs, and what i used to be!
Are there any scents out there that can help increase my own sex drive?
IS/A, IS/B, will work for you to appear more sexy & confident. you will be sure of yourself. i think cops will be an idea for you to try.
mens products will actually work for u to increase your libido. try tuth, little on yourself, or get it for your husband. if you dont want to tell him, just tell him its just a sample perfume your so & so friend gave you.
what kind of personality you have? tell us ladies so we can support you better.
I am going to move this post to the introduction section where you can get help from all the experts on the forum and with more information a $25 gift certificate towards your first purchase.
Yea I think getting TUTH will help a lot. It’s mainly a men’s product to help mainly women, but men too, to get in the mood. I think this would be the best place to start. Other things like IS/a or /b as well as io or ih can do great things to get you feeling more at ease, and more confident as well which could have a good effect on your sexual feelings as well, depending on the reason why they’ve lessened.
Good luck and let us know how things go for ya!
in response to my personality i am a little shy and a bit anxious. i am more of a home body who likes to relax with a select few people rather then party.
You know what, Im a little like that too. I love to relax with close company and I love intimate gatherings.
In my opinion I think you should try Instant sexiness/A
Ive tried it in my own home (With a man, and without) and it made me want to please myself. It made me very horny, and I felt sexy. I felt like I didn’t need anyone; my friends called and wanted me to go out, and I denied, because I stayed home and had some sexy “me” time.
I think that pheromones can only do so much, I would also suggest meditating, and focus on loving yourself (and your body). So try a little of every product, maybe a little instant shine.
You are simply unhappy.
You need to find the root of the unhappiness, hun.
Pheromones will not make you happy overall, they may even make ya a little bitchy.
If your an isolated, anti-social person, then you have things you need to break through. Find out why you have social anxieties. Maybe get a life coach?
Anywho, I say get a little of everything, and see if any of the products lift your mood.
You may just need a little push to get the ball rolling on getting more self confidence, and living life to it’s fullest point.
Hi there!!! Thanks for the additional input on your situation…
Talking mones, I’d suggest some INSTANT SHINE, pronto, along with some IS/A and IS/B as well. The IS/a is a sexy but strong, Angelina Jolie vibe with IS/B coming in with a sexy kitten, Natalie Portman vibe. Adding INSTANT SHINE to that, by layering, you have either of those gals with happy, relaxed, and contented feelings all rolled into one!!!
Now, my other thought is that you are stretching yourself thin with work, pets, and hobbies…your energy requirements are exceeding your energy output…you got alot on your plate, basically…Have you thought about how you can simplify?
Hope that helps and welcome again, If I didn’t get that point across!!
The world and even us women have evolved in so many ways but somethings still remain the same.
We are very emotional creatures and so if there is something bothering us, we are unhappy or have loads on our minds our sex life is gonna suffer.
Being a member on this forum and having some outlet is gonna help once you open up.
Were you ever attracted or felt that spark for him?
If you never did it’s gonna hard to get you to unless there is something that doesn’t appeal to you he changes and pheromone can’t assist with that.
Instant sexiness/a is gonna make you feel confident almost like a diva and goes with someone like an angelina jolie personality. It can be used to give off that sexual vixen vibe.
Instant honesty is great in intimate situations and can add that warmth that is needed when you are with your partner. On his end it will make him feel closer to you and promote deep conversation.
I am with empath on the TUTH. Start with the instant sexiness/a and tuth and thinking about what really is bothering you. When you are ready the tuth should be sprayed on your finger tip and put on your upper lip.
This should make for a very hot night between you too and get you in the mood.
We are all here to give you suggestions, advice and tips along the way so keep us updated on what you decided to purchase and and your progress in the women’s section.
