hi everyone could someone plz help me up there!!???i am 26 male having a relationship since 2005 with a girl aged 25.problem is we are not having sex like before ( once per week,regularly) now its like once in a month barely!!! what pheromone should i take which would instantly arouse her for having sex whenever we are alone at home???
Probably not a mone solvable problem. Sounds like you need to add a little spice, romance and changes of routine. I was married for a long time and had to really work at it to keep things going…
Androstenone based products like TUTH, TE and NPA might temporarily reduce the the symptoms, but won’t solve the root cause.
gegogi is right none based products may relieve the symptoms but they are not gonna fix the problem but hey i would get some tuth along with changing other things around, like trying to throw more romance in your relationship etc.
best of luck!
yes, turn up the heat should do the trick.But do not overdose it 'cause it can be just the contrary.How exactly is your relationship?Does she expects u to act differently?She’s bored or what? Any quarrels recently?It’s just an idea, but if she wants u to be more like bad boy tipe as to turn her on you might try using a verry smal amount of Instant Jerk.This would give you the Bad Boy look (and behaviour as it effects u too so do not od it , ok).Or if she finds u too agressive or misbehaving u might use Instant Gentalmen as to smoothen your appearence…
Based on experience, it’s not as easy as spray and hump.
One suggestion though-- try some Instant Honesty and IFM and have a deep engaging conversation with her. Connect with her on something that is meaningful and ask a lot of how/why type questions (these how/why type questions are very important because it forces you to listen).
Once you can connect at that level, do something from the conversation to reinforce to her that you were listening.
In general, the need for connection is one of women’s biggest desires. There are several other important things, but typically this is on the top of the list.
On another note, some recommended reading: “His Needs, Her Needs. Building an affair proof marriage”. Don’t let the title scare you off (marriage, affair, etc.) The advice in the book is very good for any LTR.
I’d suggest Instant Female Magic to relax her and make her more… agreeable. Add to that some Turn up the heat. The name speaks for itself. Good luck.
So heres a bit more about me!
Well for the short story we are very well together,im 26 and she is 25,we have been together for 2 years ,i live at my parent’s place and she too we match each other so well that it even surprises others as we never quarrel etc…
we have the same tastes for nearly everything in life!..She always tell me she loves me or i miss you even now etc etc…
No problem at all on this part.When It first happened that is 3 consecutive ‘No’ for sex on a 3 week period (1 per week) we had a conversation as i was feeling frustrated and rejected and wanted to know what went wrong if it was coming from me etc as she didnt want to have sex anymore.She told me it wasnt me but that sex isnt the most important thing in our couple 
,I agreed and said that its not the priority or most important but has its place and is something normal and natural and she said she could live without it easily!
we continued to talk about it then she told me that she did not understand her body anymore as she wasnt reacting like before that is she is always tired,stressed and the once feeling of wanting to have sex just after her menstruation period that is on the 12 to 16 days wasnt here anymore as if on a whole month there was no ups or downs she was feeling the same.Thing is she also put on the table the fact that her courses she was following and at the same time working at night made her feel tired.She is not the type of girl who’s in for sex,more reserved type but we had wonderful moments of lovemaking together.For the romance part etc i did many things as made little surprises buying little gifts, surprising her at work(we work same place) by giving her a rose etc etc…having some pizzas at home in front of the tv and talking etc…you see i dont rush on her for sex neither when she comes to my place!did massages too she likes them much and before anytime i did after 15 mins when i start to kiss her and move forward she comes my way too and it all happens naturally but now when i do it she just make a ‘no no!’ and it stops right there!just to let you have an idea on the day we celebrated our 2years together we met at home what i did was show her pics of us since we met to make her remember everygood time we had with each other at different places and then when i started to kiss her she did not follow me she just kisses and stop the kisses from going further!’ a ‘no’ again and i told her that it is a special day today that i just wanted it to be unforgettable for her that i just wanted to make love to her in a way she would never forget ..but here too she said ‘No it is not that important!’ So all this to tell you a bit more about us and to get help as it is killing our relationship little by little!..just want the best possible pheromones which good help me turn her on for rekindling the flame we had before!
just as gegogi says, rekindling the flame will take more than just pheromones. it seems as though you have to light the flame in your relationship again with more than just mones, but rather put an effort to make her fall for you again. there could be many ways you can approach this; at 26 years old you can use turn up the heat only when it’s time to be intimate, but in general, if you want to just have a night out with her, anything from the instant line can help you. i dont suggest instant openness or honesty as you wouldn’t need help being talkative, but instant female magic, instant shine, ammo, and a314 would work well for you. read the stickies on which would work and apply to your situation.
a314 seems like it would work for you best.
Sorry to hear your frustration. It’s good that you’re doing a lot of little things (ie showing affection). One tip-- don’t stop, even after getting rejected time and time again.
On another note, I must say-- two years (plus or minus 6 months) is usually the time frame when “things” start to change. The love relationship transitions from an infatuation type of love to an attachment type of love. (Do some reading on this, it will be pretty insightful)
I must warn you though-- sex for men is one of the top things on the list of guys needs. If she is dismissing it like: “it’s just sex” or “don’t need it for love” I believe there needs to be a wake up call on both parts. Obviously it’s pretty important to you right? I have been through this already, very similar to how you described it. We made the mistake of letting it slide and after all this, guess what happens? Resent build up and eventually the building blocks for an affair to occur… 
If you want to use pheromones to assist, I know for a fact the IFM works wonders. I would use IFM in conjunction with IH for building up the non-sexual foreplay, then if you get the right signs/hits, then step it up with a none based product (just a little) like ammo, or tuth. I’ve also read that P83 can also give a little extra push, but not sure if that is available for you.
Hope things work out.
There was a similar thread by another user:
Read some of the advices there. When a woman says no for sex like that at her age and if there is nothing wrong with her physically there is something definitely wrong with your relationship or how she sees you, even though it might seem hunky dory to you (we guys can be a little blind at times to things like that).
For whatever reason (emotional/physical), sex is not as pleasurable for her as it is for you. Don’t think of pheros as a tool to try to turn her on. Been there done that, took a shower in -none and nothing happened!
Regarding phero advice, the biggest realtionship fixer in my opinion is A314 + IS for changing how she sees you.
I have to wonder if she has an iron deficiency?
Failing that, I’m told making people a bit jealous often works. Not on me, but most people. You have to sort this out before you get a brother and sister vibe going.
It took me a long time to learn that you can also have too much compatibility. It takes a bit of grit for an oyster to make a pearl, you know - some kind of tension or dynamic. If you fit too well, it just gets sort of cozy. You blend, which ends up exactly like being alone. For me anyway. I’m sure some people like it though.
Also try being mysterious, and unavailable sometimes. That works on me.
Try showing affection then backing off before you do anything sexual. If she’s gone off the idea for a bit the last thing you want to do is let every show of affection put her on guard. Shes now conditioned to think every kiss is going to end up with her fending you off. I’d say the next dozen massages should be nothing but a massage and a hug. Hard to do, but I’d say essential.
Your best chance with a women is mid cycle, and just before her monthlies, usually.
I’ve not experimented with many pheros yet, but I’d say be careful not to come on too strong with the sexual vibe, she’ll find it too demanding. Perhaps shine or something? Something to just make her notice you and notice that you are in demand. And some evenings, be out, elsewhere, without her.
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I think Felicity has summed up pretty much what I would like to say. I suggest you pay particular attention to the 2nd, the 4th and the 5th paragraphs; they are gold.
These are very good advices!!thank you very much.you know we are ok together and it pains me that she reacts this way as it seems that i am the only one suffering from this lack of physical love!..kisses are here,hugs too,she even tell me i miss her…everything else is ok!.when we go out we have very good times together…I will try my best with the show affection kisses massages but not going further!but i am afraid that after that she pleases herself thinking that ah its ok now he seems not to be looking for it anymore so he’s ok with what he has and how things are going on so i dont have to move or to do something to arrange the situation! you see i am afraid just of that…for the pheros i will go for instant female magic or shine plus turn up the heat…but i will use instant first to see what happens…
That seems like a good plan.
It also seems to me that she loves you.
Just remember no Turn Up The Heat until a dozen massages have been done, or she jumps on you. Still tell her she is sexy though, and very hot. Preferably as you are leaving the room
You know the sexiest thing I ever hear? I might be strange in this, but its not ‘I love you’ its ‘let me help’.
She’s stressed. If there is anything practical you can do so she doesn’t have to run herself ragged, I suggest you do it. And check any medication she is on to see if it causes ‘loss of libido’. If she looks pale, or feels dizzy, she needs blood tests, iorn or vitamins.
Ah - I forgot. There are various experimentals that make people happy..
Do a search and make sure you order one. She might just be depressed with all the stress. If she responds to it, have it put in a perfume for her.
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Felicity you are a real sweetheart you know!! thank you i saw they talk much of ammo as a first product as it has all and is not too strong on the sexual side i think i will try this one maybe first!there are so many pheros thats its like a jungle!
here in mauritius i will have to wait 3 to 4 weeks to get my product as shippings ,customs take time!..as a women which pheros would you advise me for my situation?i am not willing to take too much just one or two cause i wont make it my priority as i think i should work on myself first to arrange things think pheros will just be an extra help to aid me in my quest
I don’t really know. I’m new to pheros. I’m sure someone else can recommend something for her though.