Hi My name is Eden and Im completely new to pheromones, I relise your a senior person here and I feel completely lost so Im asking if you can please lead me in the right direction or atleast lead me to someone you think would best be able to help me.
Im a 27 year old male and Im drawn to the idea of trying pheromones because I want to make to be more sexually appealling to my girlfiend so she wants to ravage me more because atm we do it once every couple of weeks and it used to be at least once a day. I know she seems to have a low sexdrive but mine is quite high so this is a last resort for me and at the least if the suggested product(s) dont work on her then maybe they will attract a new lady for me that does want to jumo my bones. your time and advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks to all in advance 
First you need to find out why she has a low sex drive. Pheromones wont always work if its some underlying emotional or physical reason.
If she on the birth control pill. Ironically while the pill affords you the ability to have sex whenever without worry of pregnancy it also kills your sex drive. It tricks the body into thinking its already pregnant and since biologically sex is for procreation the hormones for arousal are not released because her body already thinks its pregnant. Sometimes changing brands can help a little with that.
Is she under some sort of stress from work, school family issues ? Stress will kill the libedo.
Is your relationship sound ? Getting along ok otherwise. Sometimes a relationship just runs its course. You would see signs in other areas of the relationship if this were true.
One more important one… are you sure your getting the job done ? I dont mean to be insulting but if your not good at sex and not everyone is she may be losing interest in sex because she is not fufilled. She may not be telling you that because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings. It doesnt mean she doesnt care about you. Please dont think I am trying to be mean. Its more common then people know. For instance there are certain things my husband does I just dont like (sexually). Now if I dont tell him I dont like that he would keep on doing them and then I would be less inclined to want to have sex. Of course I tell him what I like and dont like so he knows and he does the same for me. That is more important then the actual act of sex. The communication of your needs and its what many couples never stop to do.
Have you tried telling her how you feel ? Then if there is an issue you can discuss it. She may think your perfectly happy with the way things are.
We could just name off a bunch of mones to try but without knowing the underlying causes it will be hit or miss. I would suggest something different for the three reasons I exampled above.
So a little more info would help
Tisha
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First you need to find out why she has a low sex drive. Pheromones wont always work if its some underlying emotional or physical reason.
If she on the birth control pill. Ironically while the pill affords you the ability to have sex whenever without worry of pregnancy it also kills your sex drive. It tricks the body into thinking its already pregnant and since biologically sex is for procreation the hormones for arousal are not released because her body already thinks its pregnant. Sometimes changing brands can help a little with that.
Is she under some sort of stress from work, school family issues ? Stress will kill the libedo.
Is your relationship sound ? Getting along ok otherwise. Sometimes a relationship just runs its course. You would see signs in other areas of the relationship if this were true.
One more important one… are you sure your getting the job done ? I dont mean to be insulting but if your not good at sex and not everyone is she may be losing interest in sex because she is not fufilled. She may not be telling you that because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings. It doesnt mean she doesnt care about you. Please dont think I am trying to be mean. Its more common then people know. For instance there are certain things my husband does I just dont like (sexually). Now if I dont tell him I dont like that he would keep on doing them and then I would be less inclined to want to have sex. Of course I tell him what I like and dont like so he knows and he does the same for me. That is more important then the actual act of sex. The communication of your needs and its what many couples never stop to do.
Have you tried telling her how you feel ? Then if there is an issue you can discuss it. She may think your perfectly happy with the way things are.
We could just name off a bunch of mones to try but without knowing the underlying causes it will be hit or miss. I would suggest something different for the three reasons I exampled above.
So a little more info would help
Tisha
Hi Tisha23, I just wanna say thank you very much for your reply, I really wanted a womans perspective on my situation and youve given me a few things to consider and I really appreciate your wise words. I have a question tho, do you honestly believe these pheromones really work?
Hi Tisha23, I just wanna say thank you very much for your reply, I really wanted a womans perspective on my situation and youve given me a few things to consider and I really appreciate your wise words. I have a question tho, do you honestly believe these pheromones really work?
Honestly… I dont believe they work. I KNOW they work. There is a big difference between believing and knowing.
Pheromones are partly how all mammals communicate. This has been scientifically proven Humans are mammals and although we are more intelligent and verbal then other mammals those basic instincts and communications still exist and always will. Everything evolves but never totally evolves away from its original form and traits.
On top of that after using mones for as long as I have there is just no denying they work. You just need to understand how and why they work.
Tisha
Pheromones have effects. On the other hand humans are complicated creatures.
You make assumptions.
You assume that she would have more sex with you if you were more sexually appealling.
That might be true. It also might be false.
If she has some emotional or hormonal issue that results in her not wanting to have sex it’s about her. Changing yourself to be more sexually appealing won’t help you. A pheromone that makes you appear more sexually appealing won’t help you.